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>be me
>23
>homebody
>Employed
>Above average looks
>Good shape
>No problem getting numbers/setting dates/getting gf's
>Gf of 4 years dumps me for being complacent
>Start a Tinder account
>Countless dates but no connection. Meaningless sex made me feel worse.
>Few months go by
>Try Tinder again
>Not meeting anybody interesting. The interesting ones place little value on Tinder because they don't believe they'll meet good guys on there *Heard this from numerous girls*
>Not meeting many girls lately.
I met a girl at an Animal Collective show last week who is incredible. We just talked and danced the whole show then she gave me her number. The only problem is she lives two hours away.
Am I doomed to this cycle of loneliness? Is it better for me to delete Tinder and only focus on meeting girls IRL at clubs, shows, bars, etc or keep Tinder on my phone just in case.
I don't know if online dating is negatively impacting my life or helping me improve and meet new people.
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>>18378146
its not that the girls on tinder are bad but that there is no real connection. you both know the other is looking to date so there is no thrill. half the people have an outline for the proposed relationship on their account. it allows for no chemistry.
when you meet someone irl they seem attractive and you're curious. things are more cohesive in conversation and everything you learn is interesting.
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>>18378153
Fuck you hit the nail right on the head, m8.
On Tinder I get decent matches but IRL I can pull 10s because I've practiced interacting with girls to the point where I can go up to them at a concert and form a connection almost instantly. I've stolen girls from richer, taller men just by using my words and energy.
On Tinder I'm definitely at a disadvantage because I have few good pictures of myself and don't want to spend so much time swiping through people. I think I'm just gonna stop using it but keep it installed and go back to focusing on real life. After a month goes by I'll probably delete Tinder.
Fuck Tinder, man...
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>>18378183
>I've worked out so much on my legs that I'm running faster and jumping higher than most athletes, but it's awful that i can't do it even better with a clutch
Boo fucking hoo
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>>18378204
The person who taught me pick up is a 5'9" balding ginger.
It's not your looks, it's your vibe. I recommend you watch RSDtyler videos on youtube.
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>>18378183
i recommend deleting it cuz even though we say it will be a background thing or just an extra thing, we end up not pushing our selves to go out as much because we can just swipe.
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>>18378146
post a pic, OP.
Let's see what you got.
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