for fucks sake, I met this girl on Tinder and she's made

Most probably you were over excited and make her feel more valuable than she really is so she is looking you like a cat. She thinks you are below her league. The attraction meter is a sign. The more you like her the less she does. Next time see her just as any other girl, don't make her think you are pathetic. Make her think you just don't care that much.

>>18373399
maybe she has hiv, brain cancer, a yeast infection, or mouth aids and is worried about how you'll view her.

>>18373399
Listen to me faggot, drain ur balls, like drain they dry. Find a good porn and just fap till u cum blood. Then u would feel way better stop being being a needy little faggot, woman hate it. They hate it like nigger hates work

>>18373421
I donno, I didn't really feel like I was coming on strong until she started giving me excuses....I'm pretty good at playing blase about shit

>>18373431
>Listen to me faggot, drain ur balls, like drain they dry. Find a good porn and just fap till u cum blood
I did for like, three days straight.

>>18373441
>>18373441
OK fist of all, like I said were u needy and shit? Second did u say or do anything that might have offended her . Third do u think she is worth u making an effort for

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>>18373452
>OK fist of all, like I said were u needy and shit
I mean I didn't think so, I was going away from the city for a few weeks as of yesterday so I was trying to move it a long a bit & might've come on a little strong, but I don't think I was being needy at all

>did u say or do anything that might have offended her
No

>do u think she is worth u making an effort for
I mean probably yeah but at this point it doesn't seem as if there's a chance of bringing it back in any sense because as I said I got three rejections in a row with excuses

>>18373441
If I was in your shoes I would try to know what went wrong from her. If she is a goner she won't have any problems clarifying. Maybe she is uncertain, insecure, etc. Comfort her that you are not needy and you just want her to know that you think she is making up excuses.

>>18373480
No? Or u don't know. Maybe is tiny little thing u do like lick ur lips the wrong way.

But I would recommend u do some romantic shit or write a heart felt message and ask her out.

>>18373492
If it didn't work just remember it's not meant to be, she was never yours anyways

>>18373399
She probably has a dick and scared to show you

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>>18373491
I swear to god I genuinely considered sending her something like that, like asking "do you mind if I ask why you were uninterested?" or something but doesn't that just seem way more autistic? we're from a pretty small town so I could see something like that somehow getting back to someone I know and that would just be fucking mortifying.

>>18373492
>But I would recommend u do some romantic shit or write a heart felt message and ask her out.
same goes for this, isn't that just kind of signalling how much of a pussy/how needy I am?

I donno maybe these aren't horrible idea but every cell in my body tells me not to, like that seems pretty amateur hour, no?

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>>18373399
>wtf do I do?

You move on. You wouldn't want to be in a relationship where she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do her. You dodged a bullet regardless that she might have been a great woman.

DODGED
A
BULLET

Now you have more time to look for a girl that wants you. You have more time to continue to improve yourself. Honestly, maybe she saw a flaw in your character that you have been ignoring. Better yourself and be fucking ready the next time you find a sweet ass woman.

>>18373532
Romance is a no go, you don't wanna be that guy. Do this, write her "hey can I ask you for an advice, a friend of mine is seeing this girl but he thinks she is making up excuses not to see him. I'm just a dude so I don't really know, but he really likes her and wants to know how to approach the situation. Any thoughts?" so you are being cool but not direct and awkward. But this is last shot, if she says anything unclear or funny just say "nvm"

>>18373562
Yeah OP definitely do this, she will never notice, let us know how it goes, I think it will work since she will subconsciously understand your infatuation for her.

Thanks OP. Let us know.

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>>18373553
>Now you have more time to look for a girl that wants you. You have more time to continue to improve yourself. Honestly, maybe she saw a flaw in your character that you have been ignoring. Better yourself and be fucking ready the next time you find a sweet ass woman.
Fuck, I know this is great advice but like...what if I don't find someone who I vibe as well with, so to speak? You know?

>>18373562
no offense anon, but this sounds like a horrible idea

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>>18373590
>what if I don't find someone who I vibe as well with

I feel you man. I have those same feels about a couple girls in my past. The reality is though, it couldn't have worked out because either I wasn't prepared to match with them or those girls weren't. To really vibe with another person it has to be going both ways and this girl didn't vibe at the same frequency as you. So it couldn't work out anyways. If she had tried too hard to make it work, then it'd fall apart one day because it wasn't genuine.

Of course you'll find someone else to vibe with and when it happens the girl will vibe back. So it's a good thing you ruled out this last girl. That's one girl closer to finding the right one.

>>18373590
Op it's your call, don't bust my balls. That idea is for understanding if you did anything wrong or not, you are not implying you did anything wrong, you are not implying she is not interested. You just want to understand the situation. Don't have the illusion you can get her.

You didn't do anything wrong. She's just not ready to be with you for whatever reason right now.

>Right down to her disdain for country music, man.
Sorry you feel like shit OP, and I understand what you're going through so an extreme degree since I have been unable to get over a girl for 6 or 7 years now, but I honestly just came here to laugh at this sentence. This is not a one of a kind, uncommon trait that you'll never find again. Just plain silly.

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>>18373615
this is actually great advice, and I really appreciate it anon

>>18373637
thanks anon

>>18373661
you laugh, but where I live it's quite rare haha

>>18373703
The South? My condolences.

>>18373726
nah, just an area where pop country is insanely popular for whatever reason