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Hey guys, bifag here...
I am in a serious relationship and I want to be totally honest with her and tell her that I've had sex with men in the past (like a dozen or so, contrasted with probably about 15 women).
I'm very masc, and it would likely a total shock.
I'm worried she'll be less attracted to me after I tell her.
This feels important because I want to keep this one, probably gonna marry her.
Any advice on how to bring it up?
For reference, all my dick time was organized via the internet for anonymous fun time, had some good experiences, had some terrible ones. no bfs, not interested in dating a dude.
Additional context, shes had lesbian experiences and is attracted to women, but doesn't want to date them.
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Find a woman that's willing to fuck you in the ass
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i would just tell her it's gonna come up eventually
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>>18371571
yeah.... we already put stuff in each others asses...
guess I should have pointed that out... we're clearly both total pervs
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If she's had lesbian experiences, it should make her more understanding. However it is a bit bad that you decided to wait this long before considering to tell (I assume it's been awhile since you said serious relationship). I would suggest just being honest, if you really think you are going to have a future with her you should not be keeping secrets. Does she at least know that you're bi?
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>>18371585
its been about 1.5 years. And i've never told anyone this, nobody knows except the dudes I fucked around with. And we don't exactly know each other either.
I am planning to tell her really soon, prefaced with the fact that I trust her enough to just reveal my entire past to her, a thing I've never done for anybody.
i'm scared as fuck..... to be honest.
I've very liberal, so maybe she won't be so shocked....
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op on suicide watch
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Don't tell her or she'll treat you like a little bitch and will eventually cheat on you.
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>>18371781
So you think that I should just never tell her. ever.
Even in the case we get married or some shit.
I feel that if she finds out years from now... that'll be a really really bad potentially life shattering moment.
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>>18371805
You already said that she's had lesbian experiences. She won't be that shocked or maybe she'll be shocked less because of that.
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go ahead and tell her. etiher play it cool and bring it up like 'this guy i slept with did that once' after sleeping with her. or just be blunt and say 'look i really like you and i want to be transparent, you told me about oyur lesbian experiences, well ive had some gay ones too.
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>>18371564
don't tell her, what's the problem?
unless you got the AIDS from all that budsex, there's no need to tell her anything.
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>>18372018
great idea for a lasting relationship:
"this guy I slept with once looked just like you"
"this guy I slept with once fucked me just like you did"
you get the picture.
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>>18371564
>but doesn't want to date them
Why not?
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