How do I stop obsessing over girls? It takes away from me trying

>>18370089

Have a life. If you have a life, you don't have time to be checking on her or your phone all the time. You have things to keep busy. SO you won't overburden her.

>>18370101

That I understand but problem is that even if I do have things going on it ends up taking priority over whatever I am doing. I try to be busy but I just drop what I am doing to obsess

>>18370089
Idk but I have the same problem. Or more specifically had the same problem 3 times in my life, currently on my third and it's worse than ever.

>>18370119
>I try to be busy but I just drop what I am doing to obsess

Then you are not really busy. When you have something more important going on you won't stop focusing.

You are decribing this like an addiction if you are willing to stop working at your job just to daydream about girls.

>>18370142

Sadly that is how it is. However when you put it that way it does kinda make me realize a bit that how stupid it is.

>>18370147

So? Are you addicted? Has it ever affected your work?

>>18370149

When I had a job yeah. Id be on the phone and constantly checking my phone and such.

Shit it happens with things I enjoy. I just drop playing something and go lay there depressed about being alone and shit.

Stop thinking of them.

It's really that easy.

>>18370162

Then stop playing those games. Do something you enjoy more. IF you keep these patterns in your life that make you unhappy, then you'll always be unhappy.

>>18370142
I think he means that when pussy is around he overrides his brain into focusing on it, doesn't mean he isn't busy or whatever. It just means when it's around, pussy is his #1 focus.

>>18370232

THat's not what he is saying. Here:

>I just drop playing something and go lay there depressed about being alone and shit.

>>18370232
>>18370238

Well its more of a thing where I am not okay with being alone I guess. I think its a matter of being ok with being alone.

But yeah my mind makes it my top priority to get a girl friend. I cant focus on anything if I am not progressing along with someone.

But sitting here and talking to you all about it does help. It is making me realize how much of a fucking idiot I am acting like this.

>>18370273
>I think its a matter of being ok with being alone.

Right on the money. Work on that.