Is it shitty to break up with a gf because she won't have

>>18365464
Depends. Like, won't have sex EVER, or is normally sexually active but just have a rough time of things at the moment?

>>18365464
Yes, it is.

>>18365464
Depends.

Has she gone to a doctor, attempted life changes to manage, or made any effort to combat at?

Yes. Pretty shitty.

Does she always complain about anxiety, roll in it, use it as an excuse, and make no tangible effort to have it mitigated?

No. Its her problem and all consequences are her responsibility.

If sex is important to you and she won't have it, then you're not shitty. On the flipside if you really care about her, try easing into it.

Well will she suck dick or tell her to jack you off or at the least you jack off but you can nut on her face ??? Or bill cosby her

>>18365464
No.

Having a healthy sex life is kind of important to maintaining a relationship in the long run. No I don't think it is shallow if the problem is not being addressed with honestly and no change is forthcoming/blame is being thrown around/deflection etc.

Of course you don't want to just get mad and shout at her and say you are pissed off and breaking up with her. But you do want to communicate that you need to assess both of your needs and if they can be met and if you are compatible and it is fair to continue the relationship.

>>18365464
You can just ask her to let you put it in when you are horny, even if she doesn't really want to, but chances are she might be ok with it.

>>18365537
This.

Honestly, no it's not

You have needs and so does she. She's getting what she wants from you but she's not giving you what you want and having no sexual activity at all in a relationship can cause IMMENSE frustration

That can't be healthy for either of you. So if she just doesn't want to have sex, and you do, then you have a major conflict of interest and you need to find someone who will provide you with what you need/want

It sucks that she has this condition that started this issue, but what are you supposed to do? Just never have sex? It's not your fault so why should you pay?

Leave her if you feel it's the right thing to do, but don't feel bad just because she has a condition