About like a week ago, me and this girl had sex and the next

Just give her some space. Wait a day or two to talk to her and then check in.

>>18364007
But what does the don't kiss me in public and then being passive aggressive mean? Does she care but is like embarrassed of me?

>>18364028
No clue, but giving her space won't do any harm and it'll be a good starting point to figure where you two stand and what's going on. She could just be annoyed after seeing you so much. If that's the case, and she's friendlier to you after you give her space, then don't take it personally. Too much of anything is bad, and you should continue to talk to her every other day or so.

>>18364062
You have a good point. I guess I might be taking this more seriously than her. I'll give it a bit

>>18364028
Also, if you're comfortable doing so, ask her what the "don't kiss me in public" thing was about.

>what does it mean

nothing
it means you should do as you please as long as it doesnt hurt her
you wana kiss her public? kiss her public! she aint your mom, its just fucking shittest
>am i fucking a doormat or a man?

do as you fucking want, you are a man

> she was hesitant and just said that we're talking
>"Don't kiss me in public"
>>What the fuck is going on?

She wants to get more dick from more guys and leave herself open to more guys, but if they don't work out she can just fall back to you or with another guy.

Start talking to more girls or end it.

>>18364028
She might not be one for PDA in general, for starters.
I don't let my BF of 5 years kiss me in public, except maybe an occasional super quick peck (like half a second), because I find PDA distasteful myself. And that super quick peck didn't come until year 3.

Also, I think you're reading too much into the text message. You're already assuming the worst, but that type of message does not come across passive aggressive at all to me.
This is why text based communication is by far the most horrific form on communication there is. You get no context clues from body language or tone of voice, so your brain is free to interpret it however you want. Which since you're already thinking she's not feeling you, you automatically assume it was passive aggressive.

>>18364000
>What the fuck is going on?
two X chromosomes

Sounds like she's clearly not as into you as you are into her.
Now does that mean she never will be? Not exactly, you can grow on her, but not if you're too pushy. Just go at her pace for now.

Though I will say, don't hold your breath. It is kind of rare for these situations to work out.

>>18364028
She wants to fuck you but she doesnt want her friends to know about it. You are the male equivalent of a fat chick to her.

>>18364000
You shouldn't be having sex unless you're married and you want to have kids. Otherwise, this relationship is doomed to fail and cause you heartbreak.