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How soon is too soon to go for the dreaded L-word? I've

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How soon is too soon to go for the dreaded L-word? I've been dating this guy for about four months now and everything is great, but everytime he says good night or has to leave, I can mentally hear myself saying "okay, I love you!" or something like that. We got into an argument like, two months ago where he said that he had a lot of feelings for me but he wasn't sure that love is one of them (I didn't mention that I loved him at the time), so I'm a bit hesitant now.
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>>18358179
I love you too!
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>>18358179
Is the goal keeper Feels Guy?
Also I thought the L word was Lesbian
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>>18358231
Aww, thanks babe.
>>18358247
I think it is, maybe I'm not using it right.
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Shameless self bump.
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>>18358179
yolo. Just say it. If he doesn't love you, at least you know.

My girlfriend said ILY first. It turned me on. I had already decided that I loved her at that point though
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>>18358179
>he said that he had a lot of feelings for me but he wasn't sure that love is one of them

lol you are definitely a fwb for this guy.
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>>18358731
Hmm. I'm not sure if that's a good plan though, it'll be really awkward if I say it and he doesn't feel the same way.
>>18358736
lol no
I love him, but I'm an anomaly. He's not the type to score more than one person at a time.
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>>18358801
>but I'm an anomaly
teehee
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>>18358179
Not sure if he loves you or not?

You should be able to tell in the way he treats you. I'm sure he does a lot of things that say "I love you"

Idk, I think you should just say it if it you feel like it's right.
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>>18358815
I do, but I've been told that way too romantic, so I'm worried that I'm really far ahead of him with this.
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>>18358822
Maybe he's unsure of his feelings because he isn't so secure of himself yet

There might be some things he wants to work on before he can say he really loves you
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>>18358832
>he isn't so secure of himself yet
That sounds pretty accurate. Is there anything I can do to speed him along then? Just take the initiative?
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>>18358838
Tbh I wouldn't wanna make him feel pressured, but yeah just be there for him when you can

Instead of I love you, you can probably just say something like "I'm here for you"
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>>18358862
So it isn't the right time then.

Alright, thanks Anon.
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>the L-word

god damn, media has ruined your head
if you love somebody you tell them and that's it, it's not a big deal, life isn't a fucking jewish sitcom in NYC
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>>18359253
I'm just nervous it'll scare him off or make things awkward if it isn't the right time.
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>>18358247
Its love. But its also the name of a tv show about lesbians
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