My husband worked today I stayed home and cleaned the house spic

Well in the morning time pull his dick out and swallow that nut ...leave him with no nut juice I bet he won't be jacking off later

Definitely call him the fuck out and don't pretend like nothing happened. If you plan on keeping the marriage together, that is. Personally, even two kids deep... a fucking youtuber? Creepy.

>>18356432
>entering into the bathroom while Im taking a shit
Id slap you with divorce papers so fast. Shitting time is not a group activity.
Secondly be glad its not porn. You dont have to do sexy kinky shit to get him off. Just whatever they were doing in the video.

Masturbate to the vlog brothers in plain sight.

>>18356465

erm. incorrect

jacking off to a youtuber is much worse and a shit load weirder than porn. i don't even care if my bf watches porn but if i saw him jerking it to some youtuber we would be having a serious conversation especially if i was 2 kids deep

>>18356499
Nah you have no idea what porn does to the brain. I hope you are lucky enough that its just youtube mate. If its porn your relationship is probably over.

I'm going to side with the guy only because there's not much other info. You clean the house and watch the kids. He comes home and based on that is suppose to assume that means you have a nice evening of snuggling and sex planned? There's not a normal guy in the world that's going to put that shit together. Were you still wearing sweats and screaming at the kids? It doesn't take much to turn a guy on. Perhaps if you had whispered your intentions to him first, he wouldn't have run to the bathroom to j/o. As for the video being on YouTube, would you have felt better if it was on pornhub. Really?

Nice b8

After a long day of work I don't want to come home to expectations and walk on egg shells. If this is how the guy unwinds just let him or make it clear you want to fuck before he gets home and make sure it doesn't feel like a chore on top of a work day. I think you need to just take a few steps back and empathize before pulling the pin on the grenade.

Porn is porn, Porn is a healthy thing for normal adults, don't worry about the semantics of what the porn is. Clean the house and take care of your kids because it's the right thing to do not because of expectations. You can always do the "snuggling and being sweet" later rather than right as he enters the door after a work day. Quit being so neurotic.

View your partner with more empathy and less selfishness.

>>18356467
Lol

>>18356517
I took a shower and put on a nice outfit eighth before he got home

>>18356603
Also I work full time and pay all the bills

Mountain out of a mole hill and you're literally expecting him to read your mind. Different shit gets different people off so who cares what he was jerking it to? Also some times sex comes with baggage(having to do you , snuggle etc) and that shit isn't fun if you just want to nut and chill for the evening

>>18356639
It seems you see yourself in a higher position than them in your relationship or maybe even resent them. What keeps things going? What are the actual underlying events and issues as this is clearly just a straw on the camel's back. Personally you aren't coming off favorably to me but if you explained things more maybe I would understand your position better.

>>18356499
You're dumb. Nothing you say will ever matter so long as you have opinions that stupid

>>18356670
He was homeless when I met him. He had a big dick and forced me to provide everything. Got pregnant moved back to my home state. He followed. Demanded to be with kids. We tried to have a relationship. He just doesn't seem happy and always wants other girls but he denies it.

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Also it's clear he finds
Me
Repulsive.
Note he never says anything about my body.

Also I never call
Him stupid he calls
Himself that and I just stay silent because I'm tired of hearing it.

>>18356701
This information is relevant. Now, why did you choose a homeless person? Plenty of people have big dicks. Is he forcing you or are you just letting it happen? Is he just a symptom of another issue that still might not have been said out loud?

>>18356719
Something to him is different. Can you figure it out and make things smooth again without it seeming unnatural?

>>18356701
>He was homeless when I met him. He had a big dick
Oh well clearly those are solid grounds to stay with someone.

>>18356725
I got dumped by my college bf of 5 years and was having long term but very casual
Relationships and this guy tricked me
By breaking into his
Moms while she was out of
Town and told me
Had his own place. By the time she came
Home it was too late and he treated me
Bad but I had sadness from being dumped

>>18356672
not a stupid opinion. i have a masters degree i bet you're in mummy's basement right now eating chinese and having a wank

Do you expect him to masturbate to the same woman he has sex with? Fuck, masturbation is supposed to be fantasy, let the guy enjoy fapping, it's not like he is cheating on you

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>>18356729
Nope
Look at this.

>>18356765
are you foreign

>>18356772
No. I'm American

Let's be clear here. Guy masturbating in the bathroom regardless of relationship status is not a problem.

Everything else, the texts, you having to support him is. Leave him.

>>18356745
He isn't the issue here. It's the reason you kept things going when you recognized that it wasn't what you wanted. You need to deal with the underlying issues like poor self esteem and depression. I'm sure just in this we have only touched the tip of the iceberg that needs to be dealt with. Maybe you should go to a support group or a therapist?

>>18356819
If I try to leave him he will ruin everything in custody battles.

I just want to kill myself
Honestly.

>>18356752

Your "degree" from junior college doesn't mean shit on the internet nor does it refute my argument that your opinion is stupid and goes against human nature.

People don't stop being attracted physically to others just because they're in relationship.

>>18356825
Like I said, the answer doesn't even involve him, deal with that later. I'd say you need to go to a therapist or some type of group support immediately to deal with the underlying problems like depression and low self esteem. That might be by itself enough to solve this too.

>>18356836
So it's all my fault? Of course

>>18356839
He's a symptom of a larger issue.
If you dealt with him and not the actual issue then you'd likely just get yourself into another similar situation.

>>18356849
Well I had boyfriends
Before
This and it was never like this.
I did have self esteem
Issues but he seemed to
Latch onto
Those and prey upon me

>>18356839
Also, don't bite the hand that's trying to help you help yourself.

>>18356856
You let him. If you get some help from a therapist or group support then you can break the cycle you're in and get your life back on track.

>>18356839
No, what everyone is saying is that you've been hurt and made poor decisions while in a vunerable place in life. No shame in that. Everyone makes mistakes however, now you know that so if you don't get some help for yourself then it will be your fault. If this guy has hurt you so bad, imagine what he could do to your kids. You gotta buck up and take care of yourself not just for you, but for your kids at least.

>>18356432
It means you're a fucking shit wife since you can't do the one thing that women are good for well enough to get him off.

>>18356942
Thanks

OP sounds batshit

But what YouTuber was it? Maybe you should start your own channel.

Holy shit, you are a shallow cunt. Fucking end the relationship or something maybe kill yourself or fuck a nigger. I couldnt even make it halfway through this thread before realizing what a stupid cunt you are. Jesus, grow up.

>>18356973
this whole thread sounds batshit. I'm out man. I fucking can't it's horrible but I'm laughing.

Listen, OP, it depends on how you perceive it.
Maybe he just doesnt want to cheat on you, this is why he watches YouTube and jerks off, he just needs to satisfy his polygamous nature and he doesnt consider other women... I think you should be grateful.

Get yourself a lawyer. If it's true that you're stable and financially the breadwinner AND take care of the children then you'll deffo get custody. You'll probs get it anyway cos you're a woman.

>>18356765
Wow. If this isn't bait it sounds like he was waiting for the opportunity. He already had his ducks in a row, so to speak.

>>18357305
I don't know it was some
White girl in underwear twerking

>>18357512
Well I don't know what you mean exactly but this was a last straw for
Me.

Jerk off after I go to bed jerk off when I'm not home but how do you go jerk off to another woman when I'm 2 feet away? That doesn't make sense on any planet

>>18356856
Why do
You type
Like this

>>18356701
I wouldn't bother trying to make it work anymore. He sounds like a clown.

That's what you get for having a baby with a guy just because he has a big dick

Dumb broad

>>18356508
Elaborate

>>18356432
He doesn't find you attractive anymore, and it's not really anyone's fault. It's not something that's permanent. You have to consider how a guy's mind works and how we're bombarded with sexual imagery and low cut shirts and wonderful cleavage and yoga pants and leggings and makeup and oh my god women are so wonderful I want to fuck every single one of them (6/10 and up). Check out the youtuber and try to jack her style for a day or two. Chances are he saw something that he didn't expect to turn him on and it did, and he just really had to do something about it.

Look at it this way, would you rather have caught him doing this or fucking another woman? He's taking care of his wild side on his own rather than leaving you behind. Maybe work harder on being seeuctive and sultry and MILFy to him. I go through this phase with my girlfriend every few months where for 3 weeks or so I don't find her sexy at all, but then out of the blue I want to fuck her brains out fir about 2 months straight. Sexuality is weird. Try and be open to what your husband is experiencing. I garuntee you all of these anons telling you otherwise are probably women that don't understand a man's mind anyhow. You married the dude for a reason. Cut him a fucking break.

It's no different than going to a strop club I wouldn't tolerate that

It's a double standard

If I did anything like that my ass would be grass but men get to say they have special needs