How do i build dicipline to study or follow through with what

>>18350410
>Any advice where to start?
put yourself in a bad position and crawl your way out.

You probably expect that motivation to come from thin air and don't have replacement habits.

That's just my guess though.

>>18350414
This has worked for me.

>>18350439
I didn't decide to strive until I suffered a mental breakdown. This happens for a lot of people. Now I'm very striving, even though I get depressed sometimes.

I don't know if it's necessarily better, but I seem to be living a higher quality life than average now, and if things keep going right I'll keep going up.

If you're not accomplishing anything, it's because you're complacent, and probably paying attention to the wrong things. "Fap" all you want, but get out and get laid or something. When you're getting laid frequently, trying not to "fap" won't be as difficult.

What worked for me was studying in the library(or for me the engineering computer labs) where you can focus on work and it keeps you motivated while you're there. You will also feel like an idiot if you dont stay long.

>>18350471
Yeah library for sure. Leave your phone/computer at home if you have to. Get away from all your fun distracting stuff

>>18350462
Virgin so i was hoping to get a gf for a real relationship and not resort to a hooker for my first time. So i guess i have to wait or have more self control.

>>18350439
Didn't work for me, I just got lazier when I got to a good spot and keep striving to eliminate effort. I'm very close to hiring a cleaning service to take care of my housework simply because I can afford it and I don't wanna do it.

For me it was a girl that I wanted to impress... Got fit lost 20 pounds had a better haircut .... Got friend zoned I'm in limbo now I don't have the same motivation ...

>>18350793
What the fuck? Keep the train rolling anon, because if it stops it's hard to get it rolling again.

Use the past motivation/gains to lead into your pursuit of the next apple of your eye.