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men: is it shitty to disqualify you automatically based on social standing?

for some reason, i've tried to date men much "poorer" than me and they've come off as less attractive to me. i would use a word other than poorer but i don't what else to use. based on extreme social differences it makes it hard to date those men at the end of the day and even turns me off to a point. i'm not looking for a richie mcrichface i just want someone who falls in the same standing as me... working towards a nice college degree... family with money...nice house/cars shit like that. i've had no problem with the personalities of these men, but when i go back to their houses and it reeks of cat piss/poverty im disgusted. is it wrong to date someone halfway based on their house/how they live?

it's hard to connect with people that don't enjoy the same life pleasures as me.
>inb4 materialistic bitch

everyone has their vices

>>18349811
It's completely normal for women to feel that way, but you may find yourself playing musical chairs considering how women outnumber men in college nowadays

>>18349811
this has to be bait, or anon is an ATM who likes getting fucked by cash.

How bad is it for a man to have a roommate at 27? I could easily afford to live alone but I get lonely

>>18349811
Absolutely normal. Traditional gender roles dictate that a man must be able to provide for his woman and be able to secure her financially and even physically. As much as online faggots REE about traditional standards going down the toilet they really like to ignore that part

>>18349843
no musical chairs desu. i usually just wait for someone to come to me which happens frequently when you're decently attractive

>>18349848
the dude doesn't even have to be super rich... dating someone well off with the same values as me is what i'm looking for

>>18349867
If you are that attractive, why don't you have rich Chads hitting on you?

This girl I've been closely dating for months is putting in less and less effort with the week. We're collegemates who see each other several times a week, and then we're going out weekly-ish on top of that. Now I don't mind putting in a little more effort because there isn't exactly anything that makes me stand out from others, but giving her a full-blown declaration of love and getting an IRL 'k' in return is where I draw the line. (No, that didn't actually happen but that's pretty much how it feels right now)
Just tried asking her out for our next date but she's dodging the hell out of the plans I'm tossing her, even though she keeps insisting on her own that she wants to go and wants to see me.

What's a playful way to put the ball in her court yet make it very clear it's her last chance to pick up the slack? Not much for ruining the mood, but this needs to be said sooner or later.

>>18349875
i do. they're usually pretty shallow and not that smart. usually getting a throwaway degree.

Girls, why do you quickly abandon dating sites?
And why are there some girls who stay on dating sites for years and years?

>>18349883
usually only red flag type men are on dating sites... especially if you're 20-30... some women stay on dating sites because they're red flag types themselves

not all the time obviously but that's what i've come to notice

>>18349869
When you say "poor" you're implying you have enough money for yourself, right? You're not looking for a place to live are you?

>>18349882
>richfags are shallow and dumb
>poorfags are disgusting
Maybe it is time to give up? If you were a guy, I'd suggest to stay single and fuck prostitutes.

>>18349883
Because it's full of psychos.
3/4 of my online dating experience was a constant "HOLY FUCK".

>>18349893
Prostitutes make a lot of money off men, they don't need to merge bank accounts to get those nice shoes.

>>18349891
correct. right now i live in apartment while i wrap up my last year of college

>>18349851
Not bad at all.

How do I tell if a girl is ACTUALLY on her period? She'll let me finger her but not actually fuck her. Is she just trying to avoid sex? I didn't see any blood.

What is going on with all these cuck topics as of late? You people seem to be obsessed with cuckold.

What is the point of being in a relationship if studies suggest that anywhere from 1/3 if people to 50% of people cheat on their significant other at some point? It's not even worth the risk.

>>18350030
Lack of female millionaires.

>>18349950
I sometimes wear a tampon and masturbate touching the clit only.

>>18350049
How does that information help him in any way, shape or form? Why would we want to know that?

Hey anons I haven't been in one of these forever.

Question for girls: Would you lick/rim a hairy ass? I mean obviously there's no hair directly on my asshole, but there is around it. Would trimming make it more palatable?

Girl I'm seeing said she had a conversation with her friend about ass licking and she isn't really into it. I asked her if she would do it to mine and she said she'd kiss it at the very least.

>>18350101
It's a bit grim regardless of gender or hairiness, but if you explain that it's important to you I'm sure she'd consider. Think about using a barrier like a dental dam? And always reciprocate by doing what she likes.

>>18350030
If you're scared of that/ not up for commitment yourself start with a casual or open relationship. If and when you fall for someone it'll all seem worth the risk I think.

Here's my question for men:
I'm having a drink with a guy I met campaigning (britfag and election coming up). I hope it's a date but idk if it's just friendly drinks, so I don't know what to wear. Campaigning I've just been wearing jeans/ t shirt/ trainers but usually going for drinks I'd wear ankle boots, tights and a dress. What should I wear?

>>18350101
eat the poo poo

also hell no

Girl I'm trying to get serious with hates serious conversations. Calls them loaded and dodges answers in them. I'm talking stuff like what we're expecting of each other, where we want to take this, what kind of stuff we like

I feel she isn't very mature with these kind of things. For example, despite dating me she tells me she isn't ready to date. How can I compromise her, like minimize the "serious" talk but still be on the same page together? Also, can maturity be helped or is it another thing I should live with?

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>>18350123
>open relationship
You must be a guy.

>>18350127
She's just not that into you.

"you doing anything saturday? i want to see you"

or

"you doing anything this weekend? we should hang"

is the former too forward? are my intentions clear in the latter? good rapport, have hung out before, causal touching and flirting but not even first base. i've been hesitant because her personal life is sort of insane atm

>>18350133
>you must be a guy

I'm unironically not actually. I'm a very commitment focused woman, and I would hate to be cheated on. These days I only get into relationships with similarly minded men, but when I was younger and everyone was more casual about sex bc of age, I had a couple of open relationships. They're okay for practise.

>>18350137
The first if you're sure she likes you. The second if not.

>>18350030
there's no point,. go live alone

>>18350135
Seems like a stock answer but makes sense I guess. Getting tired of fruitlessly chasing anyway

Question to anyone that can advice me

How do i lower my standards? I use it as an excuse to not speak to girls at all

>>18350123
>question for men:
>What should I wear?

maybe it's time for men psychology: the basics

>>18350152
Doesn't mean you can't get some good sex out of it.

>>18350123
If you hope it's a date then go with the second option and impress the guy, good luck femanon.

>>18350158
explain pls

>>18350160
Not really, physical contact scares her too. I've put up with it for a while because she was also scared of me taking it personal, but at this point I'm starting to get scared myself of being used in this one-way street.

>>18350195
she's DEFINITELY using you as an emotional tampon. Get rid.

>>18350175
what do a man actually cares about your clothing? I he has already happened to see you in a regular clothing and liked what he saw, he's up for fucking anyway.

Also, people don't really work like "I have exactly this one goal in my mind and I am going to pursue it provided the situation will allow it". I go to meet with girls not caring about the character of the meeting - if we start getting intimate, great, we can call it a date. If not, I'm also satisfied.
Now of course, sexy clothing makes you look more sexy, which sends him clearer signals, facilitating the process.
But if you both want it, you could wear a potato bag as well.

tl;dr men are not overthinking the way you do (with the exception of the ones you see around here, but it's exactly the reasn they can't get girlfriends in the first place)

Girls and guys

How do you feel after masturbating?

I always feel shitty afterward. I feel drained and sluggish. I feel regret. It's an uncomfortable feeling.

>>18350234
I just feel normal

>>18350234
>I feel regret
wtf are you fantasizing about?

>>18350234
good. Refreshed and stimulated in the morning, sleepy in the evening

>>18350245
he has probably been told some christian bullshit or alike

>>18350245

A really provocative picture a female friend had sent me in the past. But, it doesn't matter cause I usually feel shitty regardless of what it is.

>>18350251

I'm not religious

>>18349881
So you told her you loved her and now she wants to see you less? It sounds like you may have freaked her out a little and she wasn't ready to take the relationship to that level.

>>18349950
Sometimes the flow is really light. One day i may see a few spots and the next day there might be a torrential flood in my pants. With that being said if you think she's trying to avoid sex just talk to her. If she doesn't want to have sex with you there's a bigger issue here.

>>18350195
How old is she? She's either immature or she doesn't feel comfortable with you. I hate talking about feelings and being vulnerable, but if my boyfriend wanted to have a deep conversation I'd try my best to reciprocate and be open because I feel safe with him and want him to get to know who I am on a deeper level.

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What do girls usually look for in a guys tinder bio?

I'm not worried about the pictures as much as I am absolutely blowing the bio either trying to be funny (and failing) or playing it way too direct.

Girls, if you could even give an example of an exceptionally good bio, that would be super helpful

>>18350304
guy here

really subtle things that show success, like a good camera, good lighting, positive mood, some knowledge of what is socially appropriate, nice scenery showing that you live in a nice neighborhood or at least know urban spots that are cool. picture with friends so that you don't come off as a loner. pictures of you doing things so that you don't come off as desperate.

very small things are going to set them off, like if your eyebrows are furrowed in a way that is bad or if your car is shining in a nice way. these little things seem insignificant, but people look for certain indicators for disposition and status that are almost imperceptible to a passive viewer.

what does a girl want? I'm gonna invite a girl to answer that, but I assume the majority wants a guy who is high status, interesting, positive, healthy, friendly...

>>18350304
Sorry to be a dick, but it's 90%+ about looks. Get good pics and you'll get matches.

>>18350316
no shit Sherlock but what does that mean

are you a female? try to help the guy

Guys,

What pet names do you like being called by your girlfriend? Are there any that you hate?

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>>18349811
>shitty
Nah. It is preference. Same with fatties, uggos, flatchested girls, mental retarded, trump voters, niggers and manlets. Preference.
Just dont be surprised when "quality" boys wont like you enough and you will be forced to settle before the age wall hits you hard. Take care.

>>18349851
-10% attractive rating, +50% to be cockblocked from random sex encounters.

>>18349881
In relationship both parties have to show some effort. Confort her directly or try radio silence. Also you fucked up by confessing love first. She probably sees you as beta. Prepare to find new gf.

>>18349894
So according to your post, 25% are decent dudes. That is pretty good.
:-)

>>18349950
Ask her?

>>18350028
Fetish for some. Anti fetish for some (hate with passion). Triggers racists (nigg). Triggers people who were cheated. Triggers cheaters. Terrifies people willing to marry girls. Triggers white knights trying to put girls on pedastal. Practically, almost everybody is triggered in some or other way by it.
>perfect bait

>>18350030
I can risk becoming cuck. After all, my future wife risk i will murder her once i inevitably find out. I say it is fair deal. Also with dna tests, it is hard for girls to truly cuck you.

>>18350140
>practice
Please, never tell this to your future partners that you were practicing. Make yourself and your potentional partner favor.

>>18350137
I would ask her jokingly which looks better and semd her both.

>>18350157
Realize how shit you are and that you dont deserve better. Try no fap and no porn to get motivated to fuck fatties. Also single moms are ussualy nice, just will automatically cuck you.

Or die alone.

>>18350195
Pic related?

>>18350234
That is normal. Your brain gets high dose of hormones by orgasm and when it fall downs to normal level, a lot of people feel bad.

>>18350304
>tinder
Each girl has system which will evaluate your chad + stud + social status + confidence from single photo of you under 2 seconds. Bio is useless.

>>18350318
I hate babe because it's cliché and tacky. I like personal nicknames. The only girl I ever really loved called me bunny because she was very nice and playful. there was a specific reason she called me that but it's beside the point.

I can't think of any generic nickname that isn't trendy other than boo or bae or babe and all of those I would only use ironically.

I think if he loves you and you come up with a silly personalized name for him, he ought to like it - assuming it's not like "scatcum" or "footboy." Even fucking cupcake or jellybean is acceptable. There's a reason they keep naming Android versions after sugary snacks.

>>18350318
>any
every single one

>>18350327
you're a teddy bear my dude

>>18350234
You're supposed to feel drained. In my experience the better the orgasm the more draining it is. I sometimes feel shame and regret because it's messy and I'd rather be getting laid, but there's definitely no reason to be ashamed of masturbation in itself. Maybe you don't feel like you're getting laid enough, and ought to get laid for your own sake.

Are you a member of the opposite sex? Or just opposite gender?

>>18350338
well, apparently I'm just a teddy bear

Girls, do you like smelling mens underwear?

>>18350322
What a loser you are

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>>18350140
>I had a couple of open relationships
Who would want to sleep with you now?

>>18350322

>That is normal. Your brain gets high dose of hormones by orgasm and when it fall downs to normal level, a lot of people feel bad

I immediately feel bad after cumming though

>>18350336

>Maybe you don't feel like you're getting laid enough, and ought to get laid for your own sake.

Well I haven't had sex in 5 years. But that's honestly by my own choice, my few sexual experiences were all bad. so I have been avoiding it

Women: under what circumstances would you reconnect with someone you had a history with?

>>18350368
sounds healthy. keep up the good work.

>>18350363
>I immediately feel bad after cumming though
exactly. I don't get what do you think is wrong with it

Guys, why even the most romantic ones, after a time dating (a year, my case) you start spending more time alone or avoid us more in general?

Not all men are the same, but have it happened to you? (It doesn't mean you love less your couple, I guess)

>>18350373

Well it's not "unhealthy" is it? I've tried it several times and never had a good experience. I don't see the point of making more bad memories

>>18350374

Oh I just assumed

>>18350376
>avoid us
whom do you mean?

Is 4chan really this socially awkward
This tread is weird....

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>>18350376
Idk, it's the truth.

>>18350352
Wanna chat? I have time, what about you anon? And thanks for my new name.

Why are you here anon? Any free advice for me?

>>18350363
>immediately
For me it hits 2~3 seconds after cum. But since i know why it is happening and how orgasm feels good, i can ignore it without issues.

>>18350372
You never EVER date your ex again.

>>18350376
We take you for granted. Same reason why wives gets morbidly obese and let the sex die. They think the husband wont leave them.

To fight it, use planning, compromises and communication. If you feel he is neglecting you, tell him you want change. Fight stereotype by being proactive.

>>18350382
You can go back if you want.

>>18350384
>inb4 whole thread starts saying how awesome beauties are on the pic

>>18350384
Nice.

>>18350379
The fact you can't accurately describe what's going on or what went on with your sex life is concerning. "It was bad sex. I didn't like it," doesn't constitute a description or convince me that it's not worth trying.

I think that trying to have a positive experience despite past negative ones would be healthy for you. That's what most healthy people do. Also maybe try to find out why the experience wasn't positive for you.

Or don't do any of this. I don't care.

>>18350376
If I'm actually romantic and I still like my partner, I'm not going to suddenly want to spend less time around her. I might become busier and more secure, but that's not the same as not wanting to be around them. Do you express to the guy that you miss him and wish he was around more? Do you take the guy for granted and that's where the spark goes?

I hate women what should I do.

>>18350397

Well the way I see it. If a swimmer wondered what the ocean felt like and decided to give it a try and got bit by a shark. They might give it another try after they recover. So the swimmer goes back into the ocean for another try and gets bit again. The swimmer gives it one more try a year later and well, he gets bit again. Should they keep trying?

>>18349888
>>18349894
>psychos and red flags
Why are there so many female psychology students?

>>18350419
have a positive experience with one. easier said than done these days - people are taking their liberty and making nothing but dog shit out of it, being assholes in their personal lives and destructive in general

but if you can find a nice girl and get along with her well, it will change your perspective some, maybe enough to the point you dislike women but don't hate them

>>18350387
Actually I try my best to keep in contact and date more. I love him, and I miss him a lot very often if I couldn't have been with him in days...
He keeps dating with me and enjoy everytime we spend together (he still ask me for see each other, it's not that bad). But I don't know if he suffer the same when we can't be together.....
He travels with friends, spend more and more time with them, plays more videogames...
I think I'm not that special girl I used to be for him...

>>18350426 Sorry I answered already in>>18350430

>>18350427
because online dating is for people who are socially awkward, so fill in the blanks.

>>18350426
Tell me how the "two times give up" strategy works in a decade or two from now.

I'll tell you, having a negative outlook is not going to work. You might try a third time with that negative outlook, have another bad experience, and quit again.

If you have some kind of depression or mental hang up that makes you date bad guys, you have to address that. If it was something traumatic, you ought to address that under a good therapist.

Most people say having a sexual partner they like and enjoy sex with is better than drugs, so I would hate to see you miss out.

I've had shitty experiences not necessarily with sex but with trusting people. I don't want to live my entire life in isolation though. I need to improve myself and go back out with a positive attitude.

>>18350440

What?

>>18350445
Sorry, I've commited a mistake. I was trying to answer this anon >>18350403

>>18350430
See, people are different. Maybe his love phase ended faster than yours. Maybe you are a bit clingy. Maybe your life is sleep, school, bf, sleep cycle (Hint: your life must contain more things than your bf).

If you feel like this, just hug him, cry a little (dont pretend you arent emotional creature) and find working solution. Boys usually dont go all weak and pathetic when they have more things going in their lives. You are just PART of his life, not all of it.

Talk to him and be glad he is mentally strong. I bet you would lose interest in him if he turned out to be insecure like you. Ask yourself if he would hang out with you if he didnt love you enough.

And i can guarantee you that the roles will switch once you will have babies with him. Your children will be priority number one and he will be around bottom under shopping for new boots. This is how marriages die. By neglecting partners.

Just tell him and have more faith in him. It is all about mutual trust and respect. You have to TRUST him he values you.
Good luck femanon!

>>18350450
hmm but that doesn't answer the question. did you have this discussion with him? do you have hobbies of your own? do you question where the relationship is going? do you treat him as well as you did in the beginning?

answer?

>>18350444

>makes you date bad guys

I'm a dude..

I don't know, I feel really intimidated by sex now. I just can't realistically see myself doing it again.

Basically the 3 times I've had sex were forced ONS. All bad experiences. Then several years later, I met a girl I completely fell for HARD. due to some distance between us, it was gonna be 6 months before we were gonna actually get to do stuff together. I was so fucking Excited and ready it was crazy. I wanted that girl so bad and she told me how she really wanted me. Well, she ended telling me right before we could meet up again that she met Chad and they were dating. It broke me.

I'm over that girl now. But the thought of me having sex with anyone is extremely off putting and I can't see myself with a girl anymore

>>18350476
alright so you did all of that to yourself, with the help of these poop tier gals.

I'm 100 percent convinced that an experience with a real girlfriend or at least a real casual sex partner would be much, much better.

Of course, there's always the risk that they're not good people, but you have to be discerning. So far it sounds like you played yourself and now feel bad about it.

You shouldn't let people play you like that. You deserve "romance" and love like the majority of people, I assume.

>>18350492

>You deserve "romance" and love like the majority of people

Why do I deserve it

Men, do you like giving/receiving neck kisses?

>>18350461
I need in general give and receive so many hugs a day to be satisfied, that I don't think I would care less my partner if we ended engaged (maybe I would share those precious moments with my children too, but as specially "warm" person I couldn't forget him). My parents still love each other, and they show their affection everyday...

However...It's true that since I felt in love with him, It have been very difficult for me find inspiration and creativity for one of my passions: writing

So...probably I would try to spend more time doing what I used to do a year ago during my freetime...I hope I could find myself again

Thanks a lot!

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>>18349776
Girls: if a girl doesn't text me the night after we hang out and have dinner and end up making out & stuff (didn't fuck) does that mean she's not into it?

>>18350514
why not?

>>18350517
yes.

that's called an erogenous zone

>>18350520

>Girls: if a girl doesn't text me the night after we hang out and have dinner and end up making out & stuff (didn't fuck) does that mean she's not into it?

No idea. Have a conversation with her. Don't depend on a bunch of strangers over the internet to speculate on the behavior of a person they've never met.

>>18350517
Definitly

>>18350528
how do I start that convo? we had talked briefly last night about going for a bike ride today, but it was raining all day...I kind of expected her to text me but she never did so we haven't spoken yet today. Probably a stupid move not to contact her which is my bad.

We've only been on two dates so I feel like it's too early to ask "so are you not into this?" without sounding kinda crazy

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How do I get a girlfriend like this?

>>18350519
You make me a little jealous of your bf. You sound like super nice person.

If you ever break up and dont mind dating loser like me, call me up!

And dont be afraid of demaning hugs from your bf. If you explain to him you need hug at least 3 times per day, he should oblige.

>>18350520
Dont be retard, stop over thinking problems and ask het on date again.

>>18350538
looks like a rich white/Latina

get status and money

some women you don't even need a lot, but more always helps. lots of women who look like that only look at "winner" types, people who succeed in the conventional sense they're used to.

but I know one who gained weight and has BPD, and she is with a guy who is relatively normal tier

>>18350525

I don't know. It surely doesn't feel like it. I mean, I'm never going to get married or have kids, that's something i set my mind to when I was 12 years old. So, why should I even get a relationship? The one time I tried to let things naturally happen without trying I got crushed. I don't want that again. And sex? People always say "pussy is pussy" and "go fuck some girl and you'll feel better". That didn't help me at all.

>>18350538
Are those tits natty?

>>18350538
You can't have her. She's mine.

>>18350538

If this guy can get a supermodel wet and horny on TV, than you can do anything

Start at 3:10

https://youtu.be/cf8zxj7n1cs

>>18350542
yeah it seems like your perspective is warped, you're getting bad advice, and you're kicking your own ass

my recommendation is to stop that, but it's not so easy, especially if you can't see through the forest.

maybe become less content. I think the only way to break out of this haze of low tier people, depressive worldview, and low self esteem is to get so uncomfortable with it that you won't tolerate it anymore, and break out of it like a glass window.

feeling defeated since 12 and not getting laid for 5 years is extraordinary though...I wish you the best, and I'm pretty sure you need to become so uncomfortable with the depressive live that you snap yourself out of it.

>>18350550
>implying they don't do that to score points with the audience

>>18350517
totally

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Would this be a good response

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>>18350538
More clear picture of her face, just in case.

>>18350550
this guy is awesome. I fail to see your point. are you obsessed with looks or something? this guy has enough charisma to blow you out of the room.

>>18350564
She was made for making out.

>>18350564
gibs

>>18350538
>>18350564
Are her tits natural?

>>18350561
I would allude to your meat but not tell her to do anything with it just yet

>>18350564
Blonde with green eyes is an interesting combination.

>>18350553

>low self esteem

I've really really turned this around in the past year. I'm not the same person I was. I've really been on a winning streak lately and accomplishing a lot. Obviously though that has nothing to do with females.

>feeling defeated since 12

That wasn't a feeling of defeat. Its just something I decided. I saw my parents go through a bad divorce. Fuck I never want that. I feel totally content with the thought of never having a wife and kids. Not having those things sounds like freedom to me.

>>18350469
Yeah, I treat him the same (well...actually better I guess, before I was very shy...he is my first boyfriend). However, it is true that since de started dating, I have left one of my best hobbies: writing (It have been difficult for me to find inspiration...).
And...I haven't talked him yet about how I'm feeling...deep inside me I don't want to look like an egoist annoying girlfriend in front of him....

>>18350539 Thanks for all, anon!
I hope you the best too :')

>>18350564
First woman that i have seen pull off thick brows

men, do you think you'd be able to hold a relationship while also having the freedom to flirt with other people? would you ever consider taking a fwb to the next level after enough time, or would your feelings never change?

>>18350586
If you want to be a good girlfriend, express what you really feel and think, and don't hold it in. You'll understand when you're older why that's what makes a good girlfriend.

>>18350564
I don't think that I have seen a blonde chick with green eyes before....

>>18350602
Lurk more

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>>18350613

>>18350617
>falling for the memes are just memes, meme
I fucking knew it was true.

>>18350538
>>18350564
Who is this chick anyways?

>>18350624
Elizabeth Turner.

>>18350617
Why am i not surprised?

>>18350595
Majority of guys are immature scared of commitment children. When you allow them to casually fuck you, they dont have any reason to actually date you properly. Also see the meme
>there are girls you fuck and there are girls you marry
and chances are high you are just walking vagina for him.

However i believe majority of people arent sociopaths and therefore you cant strictly separate feelings and sex. So maybe he is into you as well.

Your best bet is to ask him on date and tell him how you want him as proper monogamous boyfriend. But be prepared to have your hearth crushed. Because really, guys like to fuck easy girls, but date them? Why?

The dating is like playing poker. Both parties have to pretend they have high value when in reality they crave each other. You as a girl should know this first handed because girls excels at social games.

Good luck!

>>18350318
I like baby.
I hate daddy.

>>18350517
Yes.

>>18350538
HUGE TITS!

>>18349776
How can I tell if a girl is uninterested, or just nervous and keeping to herself?

I feel oddly guilty about pursuing other people even though I haven't talked about anything/what we are with my current squeeze? I know they do genuinely like me, but it's mostly been a sexual thing so far and they're going abroad very soon. I'm graduating, and I like them a lot but I don't know if i want to wait around for them. I've been flirting succesfully with other people in an attempt to not get my heart broken when my hookup buddy leaves. But i feel guilty about it since I guess I know that my fwb would feel upset if they knew. Do i just keep it under wraps until they leave?

>>18350617
Why can't you be attracted to asian women instead? Why does it absolutely have to be white women? Did you know that there are over 400 million chinese chicks? They are tight, m8.

>>18350645
He didn't even say that he was attracted to white women.....

>>18350657
I can feel that he is. srs

>>18350629
Thanks

Girls, why do I want you so bad? I don't feel well, thinking about how much control women have over my life. Why am I programmed like this.

Help

>>18350673
Feels bad man

>>18350645
Kek

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>>18350564
>just in case

>>18350635
And what are men to you but walking ATMs? Why should we commit to being your personal money dispenser just so you can start having headaches or not being in the mood every night.

For girls:

I've been balding for a few years, with it becoming much more noticeable over the past year. For about 8 months of this, I was freaking out really badly about it, and whenever I talked to my girlfriend about it, she would say things like: "What are you going to do about it?", "Maybe you should use Rogaine", "Are you sure you'd still look good with a shaved head?", and sometimes when I didn't even bring it up she would casually mention how good wigs look now. About two months ago, she finally said: "It's awkward to say this *now*, but I realize I'll find you really attractive even if you're bald."

I've tried letting it go since then, but her absolute inability to just say: "I don't care about your hair loss, I think you'll look good either way" for MONTHS really fucked with my head and hurt a lot more than the hair loss itself; it's most of the reason I became so anxious. I became so convinced that she found the idea of me being bald disgusting that I was mulling over leaving her because I didn't want to be with someone who had to "put up" with how I looked. I really want to bring this up to her to get this weight off my chest, but I can't figure out a good way how, or if it'd be best to just keep trying to move past it. Any advice?

>>18350673
time to think how much control air and food has over your life.
and 4chan for that matter

>>18350538
>>18350564
I swear to god it is a chick posting all these pics.

>>18350286
>>18350322
She said she's on her period but I don't trust her. I wanted to mess around with her but she hasn't actually put out yet.

If I get a gf, will you consider me her chad?

>>18350617
So how big is your cock?

Do you guys think that women are less feminine than before? Meaning 10-20 years ago.

>>18350701
Stop being a little bitch. Idk why your gf put up with you bitching over the fact that boohoo you are balding. What is she supposed to do? All you do is bitch bitch bitch and she tried to give you some suggestions, but all you do is keep fucking bitching.

Bro just shave it off no one cares. Your gf was tryin to make you feel better by saying she still finds you attractive even thi you are bald?? You dont deserve her

>>18350718
What makes you think that?
They have more beauty products and services than ever, feminine clothes (slutty and non-slutty), etc.

>>18350718
If by feminine you mean subservent housewife role because gender equality(i hate to say that phrase) was more shit back then, then yeah women are less feminine.

>>18350701
I wasn't sure about replying to this, but after seeing the other reply you got, I'm gonna wing it.

I once dated a guy who was balding in his early 20's, he was honest and care-free about it and I actually found it a little charming. You're going to have to work up that kind of confidence regardless of whether you stay with current GF.

As for bringing it up to her, you could always say something like "Hey, I appreciate that you've been kind while I find confidence in my new look" or something.

>>18350743
What about a guy who has 3' long hair at 30?

Girls, how would you react if your penis told you that he does daily cum dumps to a picture of you?

>>18350538
>>18350564
I would probably fuck like 3-4 times a day with her. I can afford being NEET for like 24 months straight, and still have upper middle class life.

>>18350750
I mean, it's really hard to say without seeing the specific person's facial structure, but there's nothing wrong with having a shaved head. Shave it completely bald if you want/need to.

Why do I instantly want to suck titties when I see them? Just fucking look at >>18350538

My wife is about 3 months pregnant. I have always wanted to drink human breast milk and have a weird fascination with lactation in general. She doesn't know this. We also haven't done anything sexual since we found out she's pregnant.
What's a good way to go about asking if I could suck on them when she starts lactating?
And girls, what would you think of your man if you were in her shoes?

>>18350348
bump. It's a legit question. I wonder how is it possible, that so many guys like sniffing female panties, but I've never heard of girlsdoing it with guys' panties

>>18350754
>penis
lmao love that Freudian slip

If it's my boyfriend, uh, I guess flattered but it's kind of gross too. If it's not my boyfriend, absolutely disgusting.

>>18350769
Personally, and now I've never been pregnant or anything but, I would be /open/ to the idea of this as long as it never crossed over to some creepy mother fetish, and would have to be a very special thing, like you're not going to act like an actual baby and ask for it all the time.

>>18350769
had a friend who wanted to let her bf try, but he thought it disgusting.
But she wasn't pregnant, she lactated because of a brain tumor

>>18350773
It wasn't a slip. I'm a penis, as is any guy.

>If it's my boyfriend, uh, I guess flattered but it's kind of gross too
>but it's kind of gross too
Wut?

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I know this isn't a feels or sob thread.

But all I want to do is take a cute girl on an expensive weekend vacation to New York City and explore around.

>>18350814
fuuuuuuuuuuug

same

literally same

Men: do you care about stretch marks on non-fat girls?

>>18350835
NO MANLY MAN CARES ABOUT IT. Stop asking this.

>>18350835
Not particularly.

>>18350835
most men do care. but i have some kind of interest towards scars and stuff so i think i would like it.

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>>18350840
>NO MANLY MAN CARES ABOUT IT. Stop asking this.

>>18350842
>most men do care.
and what is the source of your info?

>>18350847
men are obsessed with body features of women. they do care about every meaningless thing.

>>18350830

Expensive hotel right now Times Square, I don't even give a fuck about the price. Just me and a cute girl with a enjoyable personality to just wander the streets and see sights with.

Girls and guys

What does "good" sex feel like, describe?

I've never enjoyed it. I've tried it a few times, and I've felt like it was a mistake every time and I disliked the experience. I'm a straight guy btw if that matters

>>18350835
Different woman: what about the white ones? I think most people think of the red stretch marks, but I don't have any of those.

@18350852
wrong

>are you a fatty?
>are you a niggress or mongolian?
>do display aposematism?
>do you have too many tattoos or lots of piercings?
>are you a sloot?

this is about the extent most men care about a women's appearance

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>>18350863
Like these. I'm a white woman, so they're much less obvious, but you can still see and feel them. They're on my hips and inner thighs.

>>18350867
as a man i have also have these. i have never gain/lose much weight. i was insecure about it until i realised no one cares

Girls, are there any ladylike women still how don't use words like dick and cock?

>>18350876
In kindergarten maybe.

>>18350867
Literally no one cares about any imperfections you have. It's all in your head and it was put their by the Jewish fashion and beauty magazines to trick people into doubting themselves.

Girls, what would you do if your bf (20 yo) tells you he wants to be together with other women beacuse of your vaginismus?

>>18350867
See: >>18350840

>>18350882
lol

>>18350860
It feels amazing, hot, exhausting, relaxing, satisfying, etc. I love feeling the girls soft, warm skin, tasting her tits.
Assume your asexuality and move along.

>>18350912
I get where you're coming from but hold up. have you tried working it out with her? or anal? or head?
if you love this girl, vaginismus wouldnt be a deal breaker as long as you could get sexual satisfaction elsewhere and she was willing to work towards getting better. regardless, if you do break up, do NOT tell her its because of vaginismus. that'll give her a massive complex and fuck her for life.

>>18350919
it was just a mere question, i don't think i would say something like that to her. she is completely against anal. and i don't want to break up with her. we're both virgin and it just makes me sad.

>>18350852
it's not a source, smartass. that you're a man doesn't mean any other men think the same

>>18350946
>hey, do men care about this
>yes
>plz cite 10 different journals now thx
why even go to an advice board if youre gonna do this? also any man that puts a baby in his girls belly is gonna deal with stretch marks so i wouldn't worry

>>18350867
Women and their fucking pictures with text & quotes.

Men have 20 times the testerone. Does that mean they are 20 times hornier than your average women? I thought women's drives were slightly less but not by this much. Is there something else to the equation.

>>18350951
>hey do men care about this
>you: yes
>two other anons: no

>>18350860
a good sex is when the world shrinks to the size and form of your penis and mouth and there are waves of pleasure coming rythmically and pulling you into what feels like a hot, glowing sphere. Once you reach the center of it, the world erupts, leaving this kind of blissfull feeling that you may sometimes get while half asleep in the morning, (or like the feeling after pissing out a full bladder, but way stronger)
And then you feel gratefulness, safety and love.

>>18350951
I was pointing out you have no authority to speak for all mankind, faggot

>>18350962
there's, like, not less than 20 other sexual hormones, not to mention the cognitive part of it

If I post my face on /soc/ could people potentially use that to get personal info and dox me?

>>18350979
yes

>>18350979
dox with what? with your passport photo?

>>18350981
I know most people don't care and wouldn't even try but fuck if 4chan doesn't have some dedicated internet detectives. Or, I guess in the off chance that someone I know IRL visits /soc/

>>18350972
im not even him.
when someone give advice from an advice board they are drawing from anecdotal and personal experience. surely even the most autistic posters know that

>>18350985
>someone I know IRL visits /soc/
>can they doxx me?

>>18350985
what is wrong about posting on /soc/? will you post more than your face?

>>18350987
I wouldn't be so sure about that. Call me pedantic, but I really hate when people abuse the great quantificator this way

Why are norwegian women so good looking on average? Shit is crazy.

>>18351074
Idk why, but I agree 100%. They're scary good looking over there.

Girls:
Why are you cheating whores who pretend to love a guy to his face while swallowing another guy's cock behind his back?

>>18350835
>>18350863
Don't care about either. Personally, if they're from weight loss and not pregnancy, I'd like you more. Proof you can work to a goal.

>>18351074
Because that's all they do, spend time on looks.
All the outdoorsy stuff, meme workouts in the gym, A LOT OF MAKEUP, and tons on clothes and hair.

But that's all they have to offer are looks.

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>>18351107
>why are you all X
Every fucking thread. Go break up with her for fucking Tyrone instead of asking unanswerable shit here.

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>>18349776
Girls:
I matched with this chick on Tinder and we've hung out a few times...literally the first time I've met someone off Tinder IRL and we got along pretty great I thought. Good conversation, similar tastes in music, similar tastes in activities.

We hang out once and just grab some wings and some beers and it goes good, doesn't feel awkward or anything at all.

Second time we hang out and we have a few cocktails at my place and have dinner and we end up kind of snuggling on the couch talking and we make out a bit. Her shirts off, getting somewhat hot & heavy, I ask if she wants to stay the night, she says she can't because she's gotta work. Okay no problem, we stop & I walk her home and we kiss goodnight.

Hang out again the next night...it's a quick hangout sesh, I basically just dropped by her place because I was going to another buddys place that's nearby. We chill in her bedroom...initially I was on her bed and she was laying on my shoulder and we were just chilling & talking & shit. At some point she gets up to do something & hops back on the bed but lays further away from me (i.e. not close, not laying head on my arm). I just kind of hung out for a bit more and we just talked for probably a half hour before I left...went downstairs and no kiss or anything and she just kind of goes "have a goodnight!" not in like a...completely disengaged way, but not in a "hopefully I'll see you again soon" kind of way. I'm sort of realizing as I type this that I'm sounding autistic, but isn't this sort of weird?

This means she's not interested right?

Should I stop trying with her?

FWIW I'm instigating communication most of the time over text

The question for guys: What would you do?
The question for girls: What do you think she expected?

The story, hopefully spoiler text works here.
>Date girl for two months
>Not the best relationship
>She's constantly depressed, hates doing anything, preferring just to laze about and bitch about life. The only reason I hang in there is she does seem to like me being around, constantly badgering me spend nights with her.
>Well, this is done
>half-assed avoid her for about a week so I can make sure I'm not overreacting
>I wasn't, she must've picked up on it and starting making her generic excuses for her behavior and throwing sex at me
>Okay, well, at least she wants me to stick around
>She avoids me for two weeks; texts me, but doesn't respond to my texts
>Okay, whatever, we're done.
>Finally get to meet her, just before the point she was going to get a text breakup
>Before I can start, she says she wants to explain why she has been so distant and asks me to promise not to be mad.
>I promise, because in my mind, I'm still breaking up with her.
[spoiler]She was a porn star, got outed, and was divorced. Her excuse was she was afraid to open herself up again.[/spoiler]
>I don't be the nicest person, and roll my eyes, saying, yeah we're still done because
[spoiler]She's lazy, unappreciative, and a control freak. She is constantly trying to get her "best friend" to break up by encouraging her cheating YEAH I REALLY SHOULD HAVE LEFT WHEN SHE DID THAT BUT I CAN BE DUMB[/spoiler]
>Ask her if she has anything to say, get the stunned silence, kick her out

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For anyone who uses Tinder:
Is it purely a hookup app or is it worth it for actually finding relationships?

>t. lonely and hate hookups

Boys: When a girl tries to join a hobby that is usually 'male dominated' (cars, video games, hunting, whatever), how does it make you feel? Does she ruin the hobby for you? Does she always mess up the relationships between you and your friends?
Is she usually not as skilled/knowledgeable in the hobby as the men? And if she were, would you respect her?
I want to know based on your experiences, if you have any.

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>>18349776
I spotted the girl I was interested in hanging with another guy today.

Should I give up, or ignore him and go for it?

>>18351173
If you are really attractive you will be targeted for sex.

If you are a potential high income earner or earning a high income you will be targeted for a relationship. Women on tinder are just like women everywhere else.

>>18351173
Do not listen to >>18351207. His kind can never explain the existance of attractive poor couples.

Anyways, Tinder works more or less how you want it to. I treated it as a way to meet people. Sometimes I hooked up, sometimes not. Now I have a lovely girlfriend I met through Tinder.

>>18351181
Yes and no to the relationship/ruining aspect. No when she is part of the group because of her boyfriend, yes in the opposite, because the perception is she is only there for attention and it becomes kind of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Feel? Depends on how they act. Generally, I can't stand it because they either want attention or are trying to pretend to be a man, without understanding how we communicate in the learning process.
Ruin? Never, and it shouldn't. Other people ruining things for you is on you. You let other people ruin things.
Skill? No pattern
Respect? I always respect skill. That being said, having a vagina is not a compensatory bonus, i.e., she can change oil, whoopdeefuck. A lot of people can, the fact it's a she does not make that impressive.
>Play Settlers of Cataan with 4 of my male coworkers
>Gf's are invited
>No trouble caused, most of those gf's became wives.

>Be a PT at the gym
>Love my hours because it's all old people, because they know how to describe injuries and sensations and also will shut the fuck up and take my advice
>One girl starts frequenting
>Spends the day trying to get in my field of vision, one day I decided to "inspect" the water fountain.
>She stayed pretty hydrated
>Another one comes
>This goes on for five months, I don't do anything because if I'm going to encourage the whoring, the gym needs the money first
>I go on vacation and let my clients know, take care to not say it around the girls
>Come back, they have stopped coming
>Sounds about right
>Two weeks later, one sees me on the tram on the way to work
>She does all the smiling and actually waves at me
>Go about my business, but they were back the next day
Faith in females destroyed. It's not hard to understand when someone is uninterested.

Guys

This guy I have a crush on and I saw this bad PUA video that said you should leave a week in between contacting whoever you're interested. He jokingly says I guess we'll talk in a week. Should I actually wait a week as a joke or would that be too autistic? Also he's pretty beta so I don't know if he's trying to hint at something with that joke.

>>18351181
well, it seems really memeish for me.
the only piece of truth I could see in this would be the fact that I like impressing women. If a woman joins a strength competition with me and wins, that brings some bad poiints for my self esteem (and possibly for my value in her eyes)

otherwise i don't care. But I also don't have 'male' hobbies at all

>>18351239
no point in waiting. Not at all.

>>18351239
Just tell him you like him already.

i have a friend who in general is not very smart and not very talented but his gf is and she's OK with who he is as a person.
When I interact with girls it always feels like my qualities and talents are in question. It really does feel like I have to prove myself top dog in her world otherwise I'll lose attraction and end up a lonely fuck lol. but since my friend's relationship with his gf is great I think I could just be coming from the wrong mindset.

Are most girls like my friends gf or is he just lucky?

>>18351142
bump for help for my autism

>>18351161
Your story isn't very clear at the end,but, if I understand it correctly, I don't see anything wrong with what you've done.

>>18351181
I wish I knew a girl who could beat me in a street race. Then, I'd propose marriage.

>>18351239
/facepalm

>>18351229
Attractive poor couples exist. And then the next question will be why did my gf cheat on me. Hmm I wonder why.

>>18350912
I'd feel broken and a failure of a woman.

Whatever happened to Brandon?

Girls; Why so many of you are bisexuals or gay nowadays? Am i just overlooking a silent straight majority?

It's been real hard to find a girl who doesn't pull the ''it was just a phase'', but gives strange vibes constantly.

Girls:

Why is "bitch" so biting? I swear it sends women through the roof instantly, in a way that words like "asshole" or "jerk" or "jackoff" don't seem to affect people.

Is it the sound of the word? Is it the fact that it's gendered? Is there some context to it that I'm not aware of?

Genuinely curious about this one.

How does a guy go about asking for risqué/nude pics that delivers? Just outright saying "I'm feeling frisky send me a tit pic" doesn't work

>>18349843
>considering how women outnumber men in college nowadays
People grossly overstate this.

The top 10 least paying degrees are all dominated by women, with the exception of theology. The top 10 paying degrees are typically dominated by men on the inverse. A college degree in something worthless really isn't all that special.

>>18351342
>Is it the sound of the word? Is it the fact that it's gendered?
Yeah. It feels like people (generally men) are trying to a woman down for being confident, assertive, and independent... basically trying to insinuate she's a bad person because she doesn't conform to the quietness and subservience expected of women.

>>18351320
It's currently fashionable to identify as some tumblrgender or at least preach tolerance towards the possibility of dating other girls. They are the most vocal right now, though.
>hurr durr we're all people love is love
Sort of thing. Other liberal women can or will put somebody down for saying otherwise.
I find the MUH SEXUALITY/GENDER arguments to be a huge load of shit, but if traditionalism is now rebellious, then so be it.

>>18351181
>Does she ruin the hobby for you?
I would say it depends.

In some groups, absolutely. The woman may just be entering a male dominated hobby for easy attention, or maybe there are shlubs just desperate to get laid. In which case, yes the experience has been ruined. If the woman basically doesn't try to draw focus to her tits and the guys have their shit in order then it's not a big deal.

>>18350846
He's not wrong. These are as dumb as the guys asking about their 5-6 inch dick. There are just less women so it stands out less.

>>18351351
>It feels like people (generally men) are trying to a woman down for being confident, assertive, and independent
Honestly after nonsense like "#banbossy" it just strikes me as insecurity on their part for the most part. If someone is calling you bossy, it's because you're making demands rather than leading for the most part.

>>18351342
Not really the word itself as much as it being used, essentially, as an alternative to "I don't want to hear about your feelings." Sharing feelings and simply telling a boyfriend/husband about events is a more feminine quality. We just want someone to be able to talk at for a few minutes, but if it's watered down to "bitching"/complaining/a waste of time, then it comes across as "I don't care about you".

>>18351251
>>18351252
>>18351274

I mean he hasn't messaged me since either.

>>18351381
You should message him probably tomorrow. He's likely waiting for you to start the convo. He almost definitely is into you. It really won't be difficult to get together, just take the lead and drop some hints.

>>18351345
Say something like, "wanna have a little fun?" And just kinda talk dirty n shit and ask if she's sent them before, then ask her to send them.

>>18351181
Yes to all. They're usually not very good. They usually are always looking for attention from everyone. The previously good community all start fighting with each other trying to impress her, telling people off and whiteknighting if you say anything mean or rude to her, or even if you just happen to say it near her, and she almost always fuels it.

Not always though. Sometimes they're perfectly fine and it's all the guys fault for taking it upon themselves to fight for her attention. That's not her fault and you can't blame her but you can't deny it wouldn't have happened if she weren't around either.

>>18351391
Alright thanks, anon. I'll take your word for it.

>>18350517
kissing makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside yes

>seeing girl, kinda casual
>we flirt and kiss, hangout for about 8 weeks
>start a sexual relationship once her roommate moves out
>make plans for some 5k thing beginning of May
>doesn't last long the month, tells me she's seeing someone and wants something "real"
>hurts but ok, your loss
>now she's asking if I'm ready for the 5k tomorrow

I don't "hate" her, but I don't want to do this crap, and don't want her to hate me. How do I say "I'm not doing that," without being an asshole? Do you think it matters?

She's already going with her fucking boo thing

>>18350322
>pic related is my roommate
For guys and girls how do I stop my dumbass roommate from only being attracted to girls in relationships that use him as emotional backup? Also how do I not end up as his emotional backup when the stress makes him complain to me. I've been dealing with this for too long and I have enough problema of my own to deal with when it comes to women.

>>18351451
Say you have more important stuff to do.

For guys.

I was cheated on and now I'm worried that all guys are like this. I haven't had a relationship or sex for 4 years because of this.

Honestly - am I being paranoid or are some of you still willing to be loyal to a loyal girl? If you're not happy in a relationship, would you leave or just cheat?

>>18351451
why not 5k it up? if she wasnt going, would you go?

>>18351458
I kinda do, probably the best option
>>18351476
Maybe, but with a different group of friends who already aren't going, you know?

>>18351467
If I'm not happy in a relationship I'm outta there. If I didn't like the girl I was with why would I put myself with all that extra risk and still have to see her when I could be trying to find another girl without a massive amount of risk? There just doesn't seem to be much benefit to cheating at all to me.

>>18351181
It totally depends on the dynamic of the group, but in general no. If there are dysfunctional members (or the girl is dysfunctional) it can be a disaster. But in a healthy group, there should be no problem. The typical modes of failure are

>guys cant handle having a girl around, she becomes the center of attention (and loves it), ruining the group for non-desperate people
>girl knows nothing about the hobby, activity grinds to a halt while everyone gets her up to speed (this is a problem for new guys, too)
>girl starts dating someone in the hobby with a larger-than-average sway (for example, the DM in a D&D game) DM then gives her preferential treatment, derailing the experience for everyone

When you think about all the ways a new person can bring new positive energy into the group, those three failure modes aren't really significant.

>>18351479
5k runs are pretty solo, just sayin

>>18351467
Not all guys cheat but a lot of them do and the people that would know probably won't tell you since they want their friends to be happy. Personally if I'm not happy I would want to end it rather than continue a charade. But not all people cheat because they are unhappy. Some people do it because they just want to and these are the worst kind of people.

>>18351467
Would never cheat. If something is wrong I'd talk to you and try to fix it. If we can't work it out then I'd break it off face-to-face. I get very personally invested in relationships, because I want them to succeed. Cheating would be antithetical to that.

>>18351502
>>18351497
>>18351483
I'm getting tired of being alone and would like to try again. What are some signs I should look out for? What are your personalities like so I can look for something similar?

>>18351492
I've done a few with friends and we can more or less keep pace and have fun, all army buddies so we are used to the running. Now that I think, these are chubby guys and gals from work... I would not want to walk 5k

>>18351507
Someone with discipline, intelligence, empathy, independence. Doesn't party, doesn't drink, cooks own food and exercises regularly. Makes an effort to remember what is important to you and works to help you achieve your goals. Encourages you to succeed. Doesn't waste time with frivolous people. Reserved at first but will open up to you if you seek him out.

>>18351507
Oh man my personality sucks. I don't think there are any specific traits or patterns to look for though.

What is the best way to tell a girl that youre bot interested?

>>18351558
Tell her, "I'm not interested."

atheists, how much of a turn off is dating a religious person? presumably this person wants to take your future children to church.

religious folks, how much of a turn off is dating a atheist or a person of a different faith? presumably they wont participate in any of your religious activities.

>>18351569
>atheists, how much of a turn off is dating a religious person? presumably this person wants to take your future children to church.
In terms of dating it doesn't matter. But I wouldn't enter a long-term relationship or have children with a religious woman. Our core values would be too different and we'd end up resenting each other over that.

>>18351575
what kind of conflicts do you see arising?

>>18351569
>presumably they wont participate in any of your religious activities.
>any of your religious activities.
No way that's happening. Even the most hardcore fedora tipping atheist gathers around the Christmas tree.

>>18351580
>Even the most hardcore fedora tipping atheist gathers around the Christmas tree
Christmas is about as relevant to Christianity as Halloween is to Celtic Mythology

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Do any girls have a foot fetish?

I know feet are kind of a widespread fetish, but I feel like it's only guys who have that fetish.

>>18351599
its only latino guys

>>18351569
>presumably this person wants to take your future children to church.
Yeah probably going to have to give a no.

I'm fine with dating religious people, hell I once dated a chick who turned out to be a young earth creatonist of all things. But I'm not interested in dragging any future children to church or telling them what to believe as far as religion goes.

>>18351580
Christmas is utterly divorced from Christianity nowadays. A more apt example would be something like going to church for Good Friday.

>>18351605
you wouldnt have to go to church or temple or whatever.

>>18351621
Sure, but I was just using that as an example. Even as an atheist I could understand why someone may not be thrilled with the aspect of their partner skipping that stuff.

>>18351599
Grill here.
I have a foot fetish but those are too wrinkly for me and 2D feet are better

>>18351627
do you like male feet?

>>18351575
Prognostic here :-)

If you are nice enough person, i wouldnt bat an eye dating religious person aka you. The real struggle is when you have kids and one parents is
>meh, do whatever you want
And other is
>if you fap you die, if you gay you die, if you dont pray you die
But that is nothing you cant compromise. Kids arent stupid. Thay can very easily pretend to make the religious person happy and the other know what is up.

Seriously go date non believers all you want. With the power of love, you can even try to convert them. Just dont go super manipulative and make up your mind on how to upbring children. Going to church from time to time is like cinema or opera. I have been there and it is not brainwaship like some thinks.

Just find open minded person and you are good to go.

>>18351569
Ups.
>>18351651

>>18351569
>religious folks, how much of a turn off is dating a atheist or a person of a different faith? presumably they wont participate in any of your religious activities.
I don't care if they don't participate, but if it turns into insulting me for it, I'm leaving and not looking back.

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>>18351628
Yes male feet are better than female feet imo but only if they take care of it. A lot of guys have rough feet and nasty toenails.

Pic related is the ideal male feet. It's soft and I want to kiss it.

>>18351467
I would never cheat. Have I had temptation before? Yes. Did I do it? No. I knew not to hurt my partner and distanced myself from any flirting or friendly advances. I was insanely in love with her, in a very raw and even cringy way in retrospect, but it was true and I was so happy she came into my life. Sadly it was long distance, way long. She dumped me anyway. She moved on and I lost my peace of mind for years. I haven't had piv sex since then, 2008. Literally first and last time, for reasons. Just be patient, not everyone cheats. Some of us would be content just finding ONE good woman to marry already.

>>18351660
huh, cool. I guess I should take better care of my feet.

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>>18351662
This is so sad. I'm so sorry anon. Are you too scared to try again or just don't have luck with the ladies lately? It's harder than ever to date around these days. I'm so sorry. *hugs tight*

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>>18351676
>*hugs tight*

>>18351676
Well no. 2 years after she left, a friend of mine gave me oral, twice. And I basically had a nervous breakdown both times. She eventually moved on to some guy she never told me about. I was happy for her, but still felt pretty shit. End up living alone, shit roofing job, end up feeling miserable, try meeting girl on the beach, grab her boobs through her shirt.. she wasn't feeling it, felt shitty, I felt desperate. Tried apps too, met ppl, nothing sexual. In retrospect, all shit I wish I could erase from my memory and replace it with peace of mind. Recently I liked a coworker, she had a bf though. And I very rarely develop feelings for ppl now.

male, 31.

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>>18351660
>>18351627
>grill with a guy foot fetish
Well no shit. Agree with you about the feet being too wrinkly, though for some reason that .gif still gets me.

For curiosity's sake, do you like girl feet too, or only guys?

>>18351694
>>18351676

cont.

after my ex left in 2008, I basically spent 5 years losing my mind till I finally took meds on the 5th year.

Yeah, some people cheat, sadly. Others are miserably alone. Life is very unforgiving. But don't worry, with time, you will heal. You will be made stronger.

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>>18351696
Yes, I like girl feet too, but prefer male feet.

>>18351660
somehow womens feet i feel indifferent about but this made me feel physically ill. all thats missing in this pic is for that ugly bearded bastard to have some cheetos all over him.

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>>18351700
>>18351693
>>18351694
Thank you for sharing anon. It sounds like you've given up but please don't! Here's another hug, friend.

Women: what do you like in casual sex? I've been with a few girls and I always try to make them happy when I'm with them. For example i will almost always eat them out and do their favorite sex positions. Is there anything else I can do to make my fwb happy?

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Okay, with everything being said, how do girls without a foot fetish feel about guys with a foot fetish? I haven't brought it up with any girl I've dated, even when I've talked about how I generally like her to be dominate. It feels like a line that's hard to cross and will turn most girls off.

>>18351711
To be honest I kind of expected that you'd like girl feet, though not that you'd prefer guy feet.

>>18351731
I wont give up. I have things to work on. But I know eventually I will find a great woman.

>>18351756
Or die trying.

>>18351751
I'm neutral to it if my feet; opposed if it's his feet (could maybe do a foot massage if they're clean). I used to be adamantly against it, but I've lightened up. It's a really vanilla, common fetish that's easy to accommodate. You wanna suck some toes? Sure, just let me bathe first. That's about it lmao.

>>18351767
Oh, and I'd take extra care of my feet for you, if you helped cover the costs (pedicures are pricey when you're a poorfuck). I think most women who really like you and are neutral to your fetish would do the same.

>>18351767
>I can accommodate it
As in the guy likes your feet or wants you to like his feet?

I've never gone as far too ask suck toes- not really my thing- or ask for a foot job- 100% my thing- generally I just settle for kissing the top of the foot while I work my way up the leg to the innet thigh as part of foreplay.

>>18351773
>Oh, and I'd take extra care of my feet for you, if you helped cover the costs
I get where you're coming from, but so long as your feet aren't completely messed up almost anybody with a foot fetish won't mind that you have a perfect peticure even if they have a foot fetish.

I know where you're coming from though. I won't let any girl get involved with assplay on me. Not because I don't like it, but because I feel like I'm a disgusting person and it's immediately turn her off.

>>18351813
>As in the guy likes your feet or wants you to like his feet?
If he likes my feet, I'm cool. If he wants me to like his feet, that's a struggle.

>foot job
Not unusual at all.

>kissing the top of the foot while I work my way up the leg to the innet thigh as part of foreplay
It wouldn't even cross my mind that maybe partner had a foot fetish if he never told me. That's super, super normal and I HIGHLY doubt that'd ever weird your partner out. Hell, I even think about that when fantasizing.

>>18351569
>atheists, how much of a turn off is dating a religious person?
A huge one, but if it was moderate, maybe.
>presumably this person wants to take your future children to church.
Then no. Never.

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>>18351773
Do you like 2D feet? It's the best imo

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>>18351826
>wanting a footjob
>not unusual at all
Really? I've never even thought to ask for one because I felt like it'd be way to weird. If it's not that odd maybe I should ask for one, because really I'd love to at least try.

>>18351127
>But that's all they have to offer are looks
What makes you say that?

>>18351841
Aren't feet the most common fetish? Every adult woman that isn't a religious hardliner knows about it. If you're partner's receptive to your kink (and I'd start with simpler stuff, like just rubbing her feet or something), then I think she'd be down with a foot-job.

It's not like your asking her to take a dump on you or do an Auschwitz roleplay.

What you have is common, sanitary, painless, not physically demanding, and inoffensive. I understand the embarrassment, but I don't think it reflects the reality. It's really not that weird or off-putting.

>>18349776
Are you ladies jealous of younger girls? No matter what normies say, (excepting a few cases) girls reach their maximum appeal right before puberty.

>>18351871
>right before puberty
come on, this would violate the laws of evolutionary psychology

>>18351876
>2017
>not choosing your future wife before she can breed, in order to be able to know her better, and as soon as she can breed, maximise the chances of having healthy kids.

>this would violate the laws of evolutionary psychology
On the contrary, this is better for the survival of our species.

>>18351879
well, when you said
>maximum appeal
I assumed you want to fuck her right when she has it.
then there is the problem of upbringing, in which you want the mother to be caring and intelligent instead of beautiful. And this comes with age.

nice meme btw

Women: Do you think a relationship cannot work without sex?

>>18351886
For some people, a relationship without sex can't work, but for others (like myself), it can.

Male here
It seems that, whatever I do, females I'm attracted to invariably consider me as a non-sexual being, ignore me completely or just laugh at me
How to avoid this please ?
Fyi I am neither very fat (a bit chubby at most), nor comically deformed or disfigured and I've been called handsome enough that I think there's some truth to it. Pretty socially awkward too (difficulties making eye contact, occasional stuttering), and depressed, although I try my best and not act like a downer

>>18351881
>I assumed you want to fuck her right when she has it.
But it's also true. Pre-puberty girls smell better, have less disgusting hair, and a better skin (amon many other examples).

>>18351893
Here's a piece of /adv/ice : kill yourself, pedo piece of shit

girls

there's this girl i've been texting the last weeks, we met at a party and have been writing messages almost non stop.
I asked her if she wanted to meet sometime but she said she didn`t have time because of school. later she mentioned a boyfriend and i told her I'm interested in more than friendhsip but she said she was happy.
well, yesterday she had plans with her boyfriend, turns out he was out partying the night before, didn't tell her and didn't turn up because he was sleeping, so she asked if she could come visit and we spend the afternoon and early evening together, talking and watching a movie.
am i in the friendzone now or do I still have a chance?

>>18351893
yeah, only the pregnancy and birth might kill them

>>18351895
it's a bait, dude. Don't swallow it.

>>18351896
Bad news : she's a cheating whore
Good news : she's about to cheat with you and not on you

Girls, what do you think about a guy that you can't see through? Attractive in general and apparently smart, but very mysterious and outcasts himself from society yet apparently has no problem with social skills. Someone who NEVER shows any interest in girls, maybe once in a million years.

>>18351899
Yeah, better help 50yo women to breed in labs. That wouldn't fuck the life of the child...

>>18351908
because the girls between ages 14-50 are simply a myth

>>18351910
>ages 14
Then you agree with me.

>>18351908
>wants to fuck children and make them pop out kids at age 13
>says he worries about not fucking up children's lives
what did he mean by this ?

>>18351911
only with the fact that puberty comes at 14, the rest of what you say makes no sense

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>>18349776
Girls or guys

To sum it up
>friend brought over a cute girl to our group and shes been having lunch with us every day this week
>shes gonna do it again today too

Would it be weird if i added her on Facebook? We have like one mutual and i kinda want to talk to her more, i just dont wanna be creepy you know

>>18351919
>going to meet her today
why don't you simply ask her in person, again?

>>18351901
seriously? yesterday she mentioned that she's religious so I kinda doubt it, but I have no idea desu
what should I do?

>>18351919
Have you talked to her much in person? If you're just a guy who's there with the group and rarely says something, don't bother.

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Other girls,
can you read this and tell me what's up with my roommate? She's just so unintentionally mean to me...

>long history of fucking me and my body up, just now in past year fixing myself, improving everything gradually
>self-esteem is still fragile
>yesterday topic of boys come up in apartment
>tell everyone about something bizarre story of a guy showing sexual experience in me because it isn't like I have much other boy experiences to draw on
>one immediately doubts it happened, gets annoyed

...I mean, I'm fine if I'm flying under most guys' radar. I could be forever alone. But, there's a special sort of sting in accusing me of lying as if I'm so horrifically unattractive that it's unconcievable...like, what the heck?

She's normally very nice (though sometimes fake nice, especially telling me that I shouldn't lose anymore weight..) so...I can't help believing in her critical view of my looks.

We're both kissless virgins in college.

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>>18351929
>he thinks religious people have morals
L O L

>>18351929
kek, I have a friend, who had an amusing story happened to once:
>meet grill
>pretty and nice
>she has a bf
>she starts hanging out with friend
>she's religious all right, believes in some minor christianity spinoff
>during the first week, she tells him
>"in my religion we can confess the sins we are going to do in the future..."
>"...and I have already confessed mine"
>proceeds to fuck him, ditching the bf in the process
>makes him her new bf for some months

dude, in my country we say 'there's no wall that you cannot move'

>>18351935
I'm a guy, but this seems pretty obvious to me:
she's afraid of you getting more success than her. It's because she considers you to be much less attractive than her and it would kill her self-esteem to know that somebody less attractive gets more male attention, while she still struggles for it.
So she tries to kill your hopes and immobilize you, before you become an enemy of some sort

>>18351939
walked right into that one

>>18351941
I'd be totally ok with that.
maybe I should ask her about her religion.

in my country we literally tore a wall down not so long ago, i know all about them

Women: What personality traits are most attractive to you regarding masculinity?

Also, is it unattractive for a man in his mid 20's that works 60+ hours a week making good money to live with his mother (haven't found an affordable house in this area that isn't a shitshack and I don't want to piss away money on renting)? I pay her back what it costs her for me to live there and then quite a bit extra. If so, in the way I described it, is it a dealbreaker? Been feeling really shitty about this for a while now.

>>18351924
>again
Hmm?

>>18351933
Im the most talkative in the group so id say yes, ive made her laugh multiple times as well every day she has came, wat do?

>>18351955
>>again
>Hmm?
just a rhetoric figure, putting more stress on the obviousness of the previous staement

>>18351955
>Im the most talkative in the group so id say yes, ive made her laugh multiple times as well every day she has came, wat do?
If that's true then go ahead and add her dude.

>>18351953
I don't really categorize traits as masculine or feminine, just good or bad. The characteristics I value the most are: kindness/altruism, intelligence, honesty, self-sufficiency, emotional maturity, stability, and knowing what you want to do with your life and being in the process of achieving that.

I wouldn't say living with a parent while working/going to school is unattractive, but your work hours are. Chill out, if you can. In a way, staying at your mom's place even though you don't really want to because it's the smarter financial decision is still admirable. I do the same.

Girls, how high in your list of desirable traits can I find courage?

Girls,
How attractive / unattractive is marijuana use to you ?
Provided that I'm not an asshole about it, am fairly educated and articulate, don't dress or act like a hippie and smoke/vaporize casually, without making a fuss about it ?
Thanks

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>>18351975
VERY unattractive. I think it's a nasty habit and if you're doing it somewhere where it's not legal it would be even worse.

>>18351981
What makes it so unattractive ?
Having input on that could maybe help me a lot

>>18351981
>and if you're doing it somewhere where it's not legal it would be even worse.
what? why?

>>18351990
drugs are only somewhat attractive if you're a rockstar otherwise they're angsty teenage bullshit

>>18351971
Eh. Above muscles but underneath intelligence, compassion, passion, talent, being well read, decency, nice hair and eyes, being well dressed and loyalty.

>>18351975
Provided you're not a serious stoner, I couldn't care less.

>>18351998
where's honesty?