I'm a single woman with an extremely low sex drive and weak orgasms, and I want to try to have a good one. I'm ovulating this week and I have Tuesday and Wednesday all to myself, so I figured this is the best time to give it a shot.
What do I need to eat to be more wet/more turned-on?
How can I get turned on if porn and fantasiszing doesn't do anything?
How do I edge?
How can I get more blood circulation in my vulva?
Any tips on techniques, positions, etc.?
And no, this isn't bait. I need help, but I'm too embarrassed to ask non-anonymously.
>>18340691
Talk to your doc. He/she can help you with this.
You should get yourself a vibrator and masturbate. Find your sweet spots. When it comes to intercourse, doggy style usually will hit the g spot. Unless he has a major bend in which case missionary is best.
I hate this thread already.
Op, find a man who knows how to talk to women
Tell us what you know and have tried before, and we can work from there
I just typed a 2151 words reply on my phone and lost it to bad connection...
>>18340691
You're overweight. If you're going to refute that post a timestamped picture of your body.
>>18340691
My advice would be :
•stay away from porn.
It messes your sex drive, it drains you out of psychological vitality, it puts a lot of nervous pressure through excitement on your senses and it messes you up
•don't masturbate with vibrations.
It feels good only in the beginning. After that it messes your sensitive area a lot. And you will have a hard time engaging into intercourse and enjoying it. It's like a drug : only the very first shot feels skyrocket. After that : welcome to hell
•don't force yourself to feel
Examine yourself. Your Psyche. Your restraints. Your disappointments. Your accomplishments. Your expectations.
A lot of grief lies within us, yet we ignore it in the hope it will go away. But it backfires if we don't actively acknowledge them and accept them as a part of our life. And move on.
A lot of emotional restraints are keeping us away from feeling.
•aaaaaaannnd be courageous
Talking to someone that's neutral. Even if it's a doctor, a priest, a stranger, an psychologist. You can start talkinng to yourself. Loudly. No joke.
See how it feels talking to yourself, hearing yourself, listening your own confession.
Learn to understand yourself, to trust yourself, to find yourself, to feel and acknowledge yourself. A lot of this has a direct link on your sex drive, interests, results.
>>18340730
Where'd you go, OP?
>>18340780
Thanks for the info.
If I see a doctor, what will they probably do?
>>18340785
Back to playing Sims lmao.
>>18340808
>doesn't even know how to edge
>thinks doc will prescribe a cum buckets pill and be gud
Op, what have you tried already? Most women repress their sexuality for a number of reasons
Weed really helps me get orgasms. Im not joking. Its gard for me to get an orgasm too but weed REALLY helps.
>>18340808
They will check out what's up with your body.
>>18340829
True.
There was a study at the University of Washington about this.People who smoke weed not only have more sex more often, they actually have better, more enjoyable sex! Hacha!
Smoke weed everyday!