Last year I broke up with my ex after 5 years together because

yes. you can literally gain nothing from doing that.

>>18336193
I guess technically he can burn the bridge with her even further if he does that. So he gains never any 'meeting-her-again-sex'

>>18336186
Don't do it. There's nothing to gain

>>18336186
>by accident
no you didn't. you were poking around and found something. that is not an accident. now it is an oversight on her part believing no creeper stalker ex bf's are out there.

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Do it.

>>18336186
This isn't about being a bigger man, this is about self-preservation. If you were colder, more ruthless, more hateful, then you could do some real damage with that, but since you're talking about seeing anything breaking your heart again deep inside that just isn't you. Forget about it and focus on improving your situation rather than obsessing over someone else's.

Yeah just leave it be.

All you are doing is digging in your own wound. You need to just basically need to cast out anything and everything that has to do with her. It's not worth reading and it's only going to hurt like hell. Trust me I just had the same thing happen but since I was cleaning out msgs on FB I saw something I didn't want to. It hurt like all hell and I wish I didn't.

And you have nothing to gain. It's not gonna restore the relationship. So just be done with it.

>>18336186
She'll probably suspect that its you and you'll only cause yourself pain.

On the other hand I'd do it if I were you just out of curiosity.

>>18336348
You do know that even if you're broken up with someone that it doesn't feel good to see her saying "I love youuuu" to some other fucker? Curiosity killed the cat.

i feel like everyone is ignoring the fact that she probably does not message her partners on fb messenger. And the idea that she does was inspired by OPs insecurity and obsessive masochistic behavior