Creating a new hobby to do with my husband. Lately it feels

pokemon cards*

Sounds like he's cheating on you, sorry.

Just watch movies together? Cuddle under some covers.

>>18334778
That is the only thing we do together now sitting in bed watching movies for 9 hours a day gets boring very fast.

>>18334763
>MMO for us to play together or a new hobby
swtor on the harbinger empire side.
or just an hero together

why not just have a talk with him about how you feel

>>18334770
I hate to say it, but....

This might be possible, OP. Could you explain why he's only around on weekends?

How recently has all of this started being a problem?

>>18334799
Thank Anon I will give it a try and try to convince husband
>>18334802
I have already I asked him what are things he like to do and he just responds I do not know.

>>18334803
He lives on military base and comes home on weekends its a 40min drive.

Two months I say now. I have even given him money to buy a game so we could play something together and he never bought a game.

>>18334763
he doesnt have any interest in spending time with you despite only seeing you twice a week? My boyfriend and I live together and he's reluctant to share hobbies but it's understandable since we spend every waking moment together. If he's cheating he's not going to admit it, snoop desu.

He also might just be depressed. Ask him why he's so distant and come back here and tell us what he says, it's difficult to give advice with such little information.

>>18334814
I know he is depressed with living on base but we will be living together in a couple more months. He has even been having less of a sex drive too we went a month without sex even though zi tried every night and gave him head.

>>18334820
>we went a month without sex

this is another sign of cheating, but he could also be watching way too much porn on base. over-indulgence in porn kills the male sex drive. I think you should do some snooping honestly, if he's innocent then you'll feel so much relief.

>>18334813
B-but that's bullshit...

Military personnel regularly live off base, sometimes an hour away. If my officers can make it home after 2200 and be at work by 0600, then your husband has no excuse.

Where is he staying during the weeknights? Are you actually married? Are you his dependent yet?

>>18334846
Speak for yourself, and/or your own gender. Porn twice a day, sex once.

>>18334763
>I have tried getting into the things he likes but he ends up moving onto something else then

holyshit flashback
I used to treat a girl the same way when I was 12. I was having a crush on another girl.

>>18334846
>I think you should do some snooping honestly
Stop it Patrice.

>>18334813
Does he live on fort Irwin?

>>18334763
Tabletop games, and not just Monopoly and shit. Catan is probably one of the most well known ones and it's a very fun game, give it a try.

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>>18335002
Do you catan?