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My good friend (female) is a great person in every regard, HOWEVER

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My good friend (female) is a great person in every regard, HOWEVER she's cheating on her long-term boyfriend of 4 years. Her boyfriend is significantly older and works in a different city and spends half the week there and half the week with her, in the house he bought. My friend has been cheating on the boyfriend for half a year now. Whenever the boyfriend is gone, she'd bring home a guy to fuck. She's told me that she feels remorse and extremely guilt, but she can't seem to stop fucking the other guy because he's "amazing in bed", while the bf is lackluster. She's tried a few times to stop cheating, but always ends up bringing home the other guy and fucking him.

Anyways, the bf is planning a month-long trip to europe with her soon. And as a guy who wouldn't wish for any man to be cucked like this, I feel the urge to tell the bf. Should I do it and how? She's been nothing but an amazing friend to me and helped me with so much, should I intervene in her personal life?
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Fuck off
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>>18333628

Yes, ruin her but make sure you have concrete proof
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>>18333628
No, you shouldn't.
You should encourage her to tell her boyfriend and to break up, but you shouldn't intervene personally.
I know it's the right thing to do, but you have no idea of how much shit you'll get not only by your friend, but also by everyone around you for doing so.
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I'll just leave this here for atmosphere.
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Basically you should tell her that you don't agree with what she is doing, how it will hurt her bf and that leading them both on is just cruel and greedy.

I would suggest leaving her as a friend while she does this making her actually have a consequense of her actions.

Idk about telling her bf, though, it really is a shitty situation. You'll most definitely will lose her as a friend considering she has cheated and can never go back. This relationship is already fucked. However it's not your problem, really, but consider yourself in her bf's shoes; would you like to know?
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>>18333634
yes this is exactly what I've been thinking. I've casually brought up that maybe she should break up with her boyfriend, but she's very firmly ruled that out as a possibility, because she "loves him and is gunna marry him".

So if she refuses to break up and refuses to stop cheating, what other option is there? I'm very confused, that's why I haven't done or said anything this entire time.
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>>18333628
This is PRIME example of why all men should MGTOW

Women cannot feel empathy, they are selfish creatures.
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>>18333628
God what a selfish, weak-willed bitch...
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>>18333628
I think you should definitely tell him. She is doing something terribly wicked, and has no right to do it. Her feelings are honestly not that important at the moment.
>>18333634
>but also by everyone around you for doing so.
Not necessarily. I've snitched before, and people who wanted me good things thought I did the right thing. Only the friends of the guy who did me wrong stuck up for him who did me wrong. They did it only out of spite, and did it because I'd hurt his precious reputation. My reputation suffered only a few weeks, and everyone quickly forgot. Your friends won't care. Homestly.
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>>18333628
Intervene, but tell him to not rat you out, tell him to put cameras to have proof so your shitty friend don't end taking half of his stuff.
She is a backstabbing whore, and she should get what she deserve, the remorse she told you she feel it's fake, it's just for drawing attention to her.
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>>18333645
>One woman does a terrible thing
>All women cannot feel empathy
God fucking damn.
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>>18333633
>>18333647
If I snitch, I lose her as a friend 100%, and probably most of our friend group. On top of that, I get nothing in return except the satisfaction of knowing that I did the right thing.

I hate cuckholdry, but is the tradeoff worth it?
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>>18333628
I would do it anonymously (unless you could care less about not talking to this chick anymore). Maybe make a fake email and just thoroughly explain.

Reminds me of that image of the guy who fucked a girl and he didnt know she had a bf so he taped a note under the toilet seat (since women dont lift that to pee) apologizing saying he didnt know.
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>>18333647
I told my best friend's boyfriend that she cheated on him 2 years ago. Not only I got shit from a lot of my friends, but I got shit from him too because they stayed together. They fucking put effort into creating a ton of useless drama that brought them closer together and made me be the bad one.
It was fucking dramatic. You really never know how it turns out in these situations.
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>>18333652
Friends come and go. It's not worth keeping someone like that. I would be depressed if my friends were like that.
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This one will go nicely on post 16, don't you think?
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>>18333628
>in the house he bought.
>she'd bring home a guy to fuck

Snitch her out.
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>>18333652
If your friends support cheating, you should consider getting new ones, if they choose a cheating whore instead someone who does the right thing, then you are better than them.
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>>18333659
Holy hell. I find that kind of strange. Your friends are in the wrong. Snitching only helps the liers and cheaters. Tell me. How would you react if someone snitched on you?
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>>18333628
>house he bought
>works long distance to support her
>vacationing

Fuck this bitch lol
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>>18333666
I am fine with what I did, I know I did the right thing. But honestly I wouldn't do it again?
It was fucking dramatic. I had my friend talking about private things I confided her on facebook, sending emails to my boyfriend about things I did 10 years ago (flirted with a older guy online), it was fucking dramatic.
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>>18333638
wrong pic
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>>18333628

Is pic related her?
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>>18333675
Yes.
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>>18333628
If she is openly talking to you in person about it, just record her on your phone, plenty apps for it and then send it to her bf.

>bros before hoes
And
>kill cheaters, you cant have a pie and eat it at the same time
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>>18333675
not OP but no, thats the eye brow girl from youtube
Sarah Ellen or Sue Ellen or someshit.
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>>18333681
Anyone have the webm of her getting caught on the stadium big screen?
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What would you want with a friend like that anyway? She's not remorseful, she's just saying it to ensure you won't snitch and make her the innocent victim. It's called gas-lighting, standard cheater textbook.

Of course she doesn't want to lose the life she has manipulated for herself. Tell the guy and don't look back. What happened to "bros before hoes"?
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>>18333687
>>18333681
>>18333672
who is she?
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>>18333685
>>18333691
the boyfriend is not my "bro", I don't even know him. My friend would be the "bro", except she's a cheating cunt
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>>18333691
I think OP and the guy aren't exactly bro.
And the girl, other than this, might have been a great friend.

I believe there is a compromise, OP can tip the guy about the cheating without explicitly telling him such that he has plausible deniability, but that requires a bit of scheming.
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>>18333628
You lose a friend but gain drama, sounds like a shitty deal. Hell, her cuck bf might get mad at you for some dumb reason.

Also he's just going to get cucked by someone else either way unless this will be his wake up call to step up his skills.
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>>18333696
>>18333700

Well, would you want to be cucked? Maybe raise the other guy's children?

No? Then you'd probably need someone to tell you.
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>>18333696
I would still do it.

You either care about your so enough so you never cheat or you dont care at all and therefore you should break up.

She is a whore. And you are friend with a whore. What does that tell about you OP? Are you cuck enabler?
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>>18333700
This is what I'm leaning towards. I just fear that the boyfriend will reveal me in the inevitable fight he'll have with my friend once he finds out
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>>18333706
>her cuck bf might get mad at you for some dumb reason
This is a very legit concern, shooting the messenger isn't exactly rare. Especially he doesn't know OP.
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>>18333706

It's nearly always a wakeup call for people who've been cucked for years to find out. And it hurts quite a lot from what I've read.

Cheaters also have less success than they'd like to believe. In some cases it can surface even decades later and destroy everything they've built until then. Hence why cheater = stupid nigger
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>>18333672
>>18333681
>>18333687
I remember seeing this live with my bros. It was the Ohio state game vs Alabama. She was caught with the guy to her right in the gif. All the guys around us went furious, including us. No bf deserves to be cucked that hard.
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>>18333709

nah, cuck bfs usually run for the hills. no honor, and no balls.
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>>18333712
>She was caught with the guy to her right
caught doing what?
and why is that a problem
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OP is just as bad as the cheating bitch.
Just become her other sidebull.
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>>18333717
Shit person detected.
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>>18333720

this desu. they're both the same.
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If your best friend murdered someone, would you report them immediately or turn a blind eye?
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>>18333723
No u
I dont know the story or the people involved.
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>>18333717
Not him, but I believe they kissed and shit too.
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>>18333711
>And it hurts quite a lot from what I've read.
That's given but whether it will be enough for him to change? Unless he does either that or finds a girl who doesn't care about sex, it's bound to happen again.

>Cheaters also have less success than they'd like to believe
True too but depends a lot on other factors, besides as weird as it sounds, she might actually really love him but is too immature/dumb to deal with the problem at hand. I've read (and know about) dozens of relationshits that survived cheating and improved after people learned to communicate. Though most were marriages.

>>18333726
Pretty silly to compare harm to somebodies life with harm to somebodies ego.
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>>18333723
she was just rubbing his head?
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>>18333681
>>18333687
>>18333694
>>18333712
>>18333717
>>18333735
>>18333723
>>18333733
>>18333731
http://thespun.com/big-ten/ohio-state-football-news/awkward-ohio-state-fan-has-a-name-wasnt-cheating-on-her-boyfriend
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>>18333628
Send him an email pretending to be the other guy. She wont know it was u, he'll know and she'll lose both.
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>>18333717
idk i have physical friends and I would totally pet my male friends head if a game were going bad and he was sitting down likethe guy does in the .gif. Doesn't mean I want a spitroast with him and my bf.

i guess you can tell by her quickly pulling her hand away i guess?
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>>18333738
That's a relief. Maybe she was just autistic.
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>>18333738
This made me happy. There are some decent women.
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>>18333734

As long as he doesn't fall for the whore's gaslighting again, it's a given he'll change. Hell, I bet this guy won't date for a looong time. And won't buy into the younger women = better women shit anymore.
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Tell your friend that it's her last chance to tell the truth, tell her if she doesn't tell the truth then you will. Record the conversation when you tell her it's her last chance to confess, to make sure she can't deny it later. You can do it with texting or emails so you have digital proof on hand.
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>>18333762
This is too much. Just put the rodent out of its misery by blowing your load on the bf, op.
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>>18333628
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>>18333751
>younger women = better women
This is such bullshit. Why would anyone even think this?
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>>18333772
There is not much thinking done if you see some young college chick.
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>>18333628
KEKED
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>>18333758
who is that?
sauce?
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>>18333691
>>18333685
>>18333720
>>18333723
>>18333724
white knights detected
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>>18333664
I happen to agree because she has no respect for the guy that's putting a roof over her head. She's fucking this guy in her bf's fucking bed. Rat that bitch out.
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>>18333628
Report the cheater to the boyfriend, you idiot. Just imagine how would you feel if you were the boyfriend.

If you don't do it you're just as bad as the cheater. The fact that you want to have one as a friend is already disgusting enough.

Man, this board is filled with SJW.
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>>18333645
Yeah because all women are degenerate sluts sure, not as if conservative women exist.
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>>18333652
Why would you want to be friends with someone like that? Its because you want to fuck her, isn't it? You want to fuck her and you think you have a chance because you know she is a cheater. How about you just blackmail her for sex? She deserves it.
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>>18333899
Cuck enabler detected.
I bet your favorite porn is sissy and cuck.
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anonymously tip him off with pics and proof
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>>18333664
this.
Rat out the whore. You better be or Im coming for you OP
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Post her pics
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>>18334843
Lol this. OP and OP's friend are not being honest
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>>18333628
Question, you've obviously told her to dump the guy right? if she's not happy with him she should leave the guy. Why hasn't she?
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>>18336011

Apparently this
>>18333642

OP you should fuck your friend. Milk this for as long as you can
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>>18333650
women are worth avoiding because of paternity fraud. I don't want to pay child support for a child that is not biologically mine.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4117362/Oklahoma-man-forced-pay-child-support-s-kid-didn-t-girlfriend-cheating-time.html
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If you don't know the guy, I would say to mind your own business. You can't save everyone and since you're a "friend" of the cheating girl, it will call your intentions into question and he likely won't even believe you.

That said, I have to ask what you get out of being friends with this person? I realize that people aren't perfect and that they make mistakes but she's shown herself to be a liar and a cheater. I assume you aren't those things since you have a problem with this so why are you friends with her?
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>>18336029
That has to do more with oklahoma law
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>>18333650
Women are objectively shit and should all be abused
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>>18333628
Your friend is actually not a good person.
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>>18333652
You follow a virtue on the conviction that it is the best for all in the long run.
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>>18333628
Bros before hoes, even bros you don't know. You can easily ascertain proof and send it to him anonymously. If it was you you'd want someone to do the same. Get it done.
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>>18333726
I'd help them hide the body.
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