Alright so my boyfriend and I got into a little fight over nothing

>>18329346
>Is he being genuine?
Nope. He wants to sweep everything under the rug so that you'll continue to take him back. He doesn't want his actions to have consequences. If he really wanted to change himself, he'd try harder and/or seek out professional help.

>If he says he loves me why does he do this shit?
He doesn't love you.

>>18329346
Cuck him with a black man. Its expected at this point

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>>18329346
>he hit me but he loves me :)
Why do peoeple always do this shit?

He doesn't love you.
He'll do it again.
Dump him now and prove to yourself that you're not a retard.

>>18329346
>hits me several times
>isnt the first time
Dont pretend he is nice guy, cause he is not. Break up. The sooner the better.

>>18329346
It's one of two options.
A. He is genuinely sorry, and he does do it because he has uncontrollable anger issues.
B. He isn't genuinely sorry, and simply doesn't give a fuck.
Both of those options end with him continuing to hit you. Is your two-room-relationship worth putting up with that shit? You know what you gotta do. Stop being a retard and get out.

What the fuck find a friend to stay with or a relative
He's hitting you????
Leave now

Sorry OP, but you should leave if this has happened before. It is the utmost disrespect.

>>18329383
>He is genuinely sorry, and he does do it because he has uncontrollable anger issues.
this is just an excuse. no such thing as uncontrollable. i for one have the shortest temper of anyone i've met, i break shit punch shit, but i don't hit people' let alone my girlfriend.

but i totally agree with this
>You know what you gotta do. Stop being a retard and get out.

Op
I just feel already too invested in this. Major family fall apart happened awhile back so there's no support there and I keep my personal life far away from any friends to just crash at their house. Honestly I know I could do better I'm not a complete idiot but I am a coward for not just packing and going (somewhere). I've gone through plenty of trauma through my life and I feel at a numbing standstill with myself. How do I just make a sudden change in my life with myself as the only support?

>>18329413
There is such a thing as uncontrollable, and it goes a lot further than just having a short temper, it's a larger part of some mental illnesses and whilst some use it as an excuse it isn't always an excuse.

But again, even if that's true in this case it still means he's going to continue doing it, so it's not exactly a reason to forgive him or stick around.

>>18329346
>He hangs up and almost immediately comes into the bedroom and hits me several times
He doesn't love you.
My boyfriend had BAD anger management issues. He destroyed walls, furniture, himself but never, ever touched me.
If you love someone, you'd kill yourself before hurting them.

because hes a dumb manchild and you are being a dumb whore
perfect match, never leave him
wait till he does your head in then you can post about it on facebook for symapthy points

>>18329346
>almost immediately comes into the bedroom and hits me several times. This isn't the first time though

For no reason? did you make funny face? provoke him?
I find this hard to believe.

>If he says he loves me why does he do this shit

I understand his situation. He is genuinely in love with you, and this is the best he could love another person. He probably beats his family, too. Or maybe beating you give him pleasure, could be a sadist.
You either leave him broken, or try to work through this with him with a therapist.

>>18329427
that has more to do with you than with your bf's issue.
Maybe you're a better gf than OP.

>>18329418
Because your alternative is to stay with someone who beats you and end up getting battered wife syndrome. And make no mistake, there are patterns to this sort of thing, and if you allow/enable his bullshit it will get worse, more severe beatings, complete control over you, broken bones, he'll come to enjoy your fear, and it could possibly end in murder.

This is an issue that comes up a lot around here. Freedom is hard. Freedom has a lot of uncertainty, a lot of risk, and you need to work a lot harder to keep it. But, and this is just my opinion, it's better than getting slapped the fuck around.

>>18329413
I can attest to this. I break stuff but don't try to hit people until they hit me first.

Just because he hits you doesn't me he doesn't love you, however in saying that you need to 100% get out of that relationship. By staying with him you're enabling him to be violent and on some level he thinks it's ok to do as long as he apologizes for it.

It's funny what stands as a retard on here. Girl who gets beat; yes. Guy who has poop eating fetish; nah.

In Russia there is a proverb: "If he beats you, it means he loves you". But stupid feminized cuck-society will never understand, of course.

>>18329346
maybe he does love you but this :
>Nope. He wants to sweep everything under the rug so that you'll continue to take him back. He doesn't want his actions to have consequences. If he really wanted to change himself, he'd try harder and/or seek out professional help.
is true.
Leave him or he'll never understand that this is unacceptable

>>18329460
true.

There's also a saying about how we hurt the ones we love.

OP looks into his eyes when he beats you, you will see pain.

>>18329455
There's a difference between 'girl who gets beat' and 'girl who considers staying with man who beats her'. Also poo-man's latest revelation has made him one of the top 10 biggest /adv/ retards of all time.

>>18329455
One is in an abusive and damaging relationship that could fuck up her future, the other has a stupid fetish. How are they comparable?

>>18329346
Yeah this is bullshit. There is no reason to resort to violence in an argument.

Op
I know I have to leave, I've know for awhile. I just don't know how. I'm scared and the sick part is the fear of loneliness scares me more than him. Finding somewhere to live alone on my income is scary as well in such a short time. Like I said I don't have people I can lean on right now.

>>18329498
Google shelter for abused women in your area.
There is one pretty much anywhere.

>>18329498
>I'm scared and the sick part is the fear of loneliness scares me more than him.

>>18329498
You know how you grew up with all that girl power and female independence stuff? The black ladies in bikinis singing about being survivors? You should have listened. Start swimming or sink. Your choice.

>>18329498
you would prefer being abused to working and supporting yourself? grow up woman.

Your boyfriend must be a genius. I have no idea how to manipulate a girl into staying with me after I would have hit her "several times", kek

>>18329475
you're in the top 5 if you think any of that thread is real :)

>>18329427

This


I have incredible anger issues. My ex & I got into incredibly heated arguments, with a lot of verbal abuse fired back & forth- but no matter what she said, or did -the thought of putting my hands on her NEVER came to mind.

If this thread is even real; it doesn't seem like you want to leave. Anon mentioned domestic abuse shelters, & that is the smartest (& seemingly, your only) option. You don't have to worry about paying rent or buying furniture, & you won't have to worry about him being able to find you.
Speaking from experience btw.

>>18329528
If this shit's real http://archive.is/OVgEK and this shit's real https://www.loverachelle2.com/shop/shippables/shit-filled-twinkies/ I don't see why you doubt anything else in that thread.

>>18329550
kek did you spend time doing research on that

>>18329551
I typed poop filled twinkies into google mirroring that one image, if that constitutes research to you.

>>18329556
yeah, it does sound like an effort for you, manually typing all that, while there's a simpler way.
Most would doubt that thread, especially the "latest development", is real. Unless you are like really gullible.

>>18329571
Reverse-image-searching a screenshot of a page doesn't take you to that page. I honestly don't see what's so unbelievable here. People paying for women's underwear and shoes is weird as shit but it happens a lot. Some places have vending machines. People are also shit fetishists, weird as that is. I've seen videos of things much worse than a guy wanting to buy someone's poo. It's not that I'm gullible, Anon, it's that you're too innocent. http://efukt.com/collection/the-absurdity-of-japanese-pornography-9/ enjoy the skank tank.

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>>18329346
Your bf sounds like a pathetic nigger. Men who can´t control themselves should be shot on sight.
It wouldn´t suprise me if actually is a nigger. Break up with him because of this and hope he kills himself. A win win situation.

I have twice the anger issues your dude has and I've never hit a woman.

No, he's not genuine. How can a man get off the phone with his mother, then go hit his girlfriend?

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>>18329346
>He hangs up and almost immediately comes into the bedroom and hits me several times.

>>18329346
Break up with him. A man should never do that to his woman. You need to break up with him.

>>18329346
>This isn't the first time
So, bait thread?

>>18329346
>This isn't the first time though
damn you are one dumb bitch. You deserve it desu

I would honestly kick the shit out of your bf if I ever saw him hitting you.

TELL PEOPLE. A friend. A family member. A therapist. HIS friends and family members.

#1 If you keep the abuse a secret, and god forbid one day you end up having to go to court about it, the judge will ask why you never told anyone, and the jury will think you could just be lying

#2 You need a support group. Someone to help you get through this. If you just keep this secret to yourself, you will continue to be stuck with an abuser.

Tell people and get out ASAP

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>girl would rather be with someone who she hates and hits her than be with me

woooooooow

Have OP been beaten to death yet?

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>>18329418
AHHHH YOU SOUND JUST SOUND LIKE MY STUPID WHORE OF A FRIEND.
>How do I just make a sudden change in my life with myself as the only support?

You better learn now, because you'll have to do this a lot in your life.

>I keep my personal life far away from any friends to just crash at their house

I'd let a stranger crash in my house if this was the situation, you are making excuses.

>>18329433
This.

>>18329346
Sometimes men hit you because they love you too much. Don't leave him OP. Give him a chance, he just loves you too much is all.

>>18329349
/thread

>>18331820
You would? Honestly I don't expect people to be that nice
*inserts quotes of all the oh so mean posts here*

>>18332400
We actually have a saying about that in my country.
>who hits, that loves

>>18332415

Sounds like your country should be nuked.

>>18329346
Hitting someone you pretend to love is unacceptable. If something truly is the most precious thing in your life, would you hit it with a hammer because you didn't win an argument?
Especially when said thing isn't part of the argument whatsoever?

He did it twice. He'll do it again. Where I live, there's a saying telling "Smething never happens two times without having high chances to happen a third time."

The wise thing to do is to dump him. You'll thank yourself in 10 years. But if you're really loving him and willing to get over his flaws, this means that either you are capable of genuinely true love, and he doesn't deserve it, or that you ended up with a Chad way out of your league and are afraid to lose it because you know you won't ever find any equivalent.
If this is the second option, I can't do anything for you but to advice you to get into BDSM.

People unable to control their anger are a true pest for Mankind as a whole. Don't indulge into it.

Yeah cause the womens innocent in this. You know a girl can argue with a guy for days over dumb shit cause trouble for him and his family get inside his head and make him snap. I wanna know OP what was your arguement over for him to sleep in another room. And why is his mum on the phone to him are you spreading his troubles on his whole family. Please give us more info cause it takes two.

>>18329346
You probably deserved it honestly. It's one of the lowest things of the low and women like yourself deserve it. I love how much you value yourself. You decided to not end a violent relationship over text and get yourself out of there asap. You decided you didn't know what to do when he said he loved you. You're such a piece of shit you deserve him. Just let him abuse you. You know he makes you feel more than anyone else could. You'll never be able to ride that sort of ride with anyone else. Redirect his hatred in a sexual manner with you and you'll be hooked for life. He's obviously not a pussy. just next time make sure you stop him by screaming at him to fuck you rough instead. Whore.

>>18332415
>We actually have a saying about that in my country.
BUILD THAT WALL MR TRUMP

>>18329346

Don't listen to everyone in this thread.

They don't get it, this love is seriously real and he's your soulmate and everything and shieeet and you know it they're all just jealous because they haven't met such a great guy.
He actually is really nice once you get to know him.
What's a few good black eyes compared to that? fucking nothing.

You had it right all along and everyone else is the real problem, telling you what you can and can't do, you strong empowered wyvern, you.

Seriously, why make this thread though, we all know exactly what you're going to do?

At most, you'll break up with him but you'll take him back again when he promises "I've really changed this time, really!!!"

>When you've grown so cynical you find domestic abuse an actual joke that you laugh at.

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>>18329346

This is either bait or OP is retarded. I'm going to assume the best and say it's bait.

>>18329418
>I'm not a complete idiot

Yes you are, dumb cunt

>>18329346
This dude is fucked.
I married a guy like this.
They never learn to control their anger better:

>>18332952
was the sex good though :)
he must have destroyed that pussy