I've had a rape fetish ever since I was a teenager. I've

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>>18323547
Get off on Vanilla porn and only that. Dont watch rape or hardcore videos ever again. Dont ruin your life for a shitty fetish

No need to change. There are lots of whores with a rape fetish. Lots. Most women in fact, probably all women have a hidden rape fetish. Find one who admits it and rape her.

>>18323587

This, my man.

My confidence with women soared when I realized most want to be choked breathless while they struggle to call you daddy.

Its pretty vanilla m8. No need to rewire anything. If you look at a lot of porn yoz should stop that tho.

What a prude. I wish my boyfriend would roleplay rape with me. No fetish is wrong!!!!! People are into what they're into, whatever. Find someone who is sexually compatible w u or else you'll forever be bored and prob get more addicted to porn.

>>18323547
That bitch made you a favor by breaking up. Find new gf. Majority of girls are very sub in bed and like slapping their asses, calling them names, grabbing them and fucking them without reverse.

>>18323547
>I've recently lost a girlfriend over it. Mind you I never did anything without consent with her. However I was a little rough in bed and tried to get her to roleplay a little - to which she said NOPE and ended things.

Maybe you should have asked about being more rough before just doing it.

Just find a girl with a rape fetish. There are a lot more out there than you may think. I've dated more girls with one than without, and I wasn't even looking for them since I don't have one.

>>18323632
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>>18323547
>never did anything without consent
>rough in bed without asking

pick one

So, as long as you are mindful of consent and where the line between fetish and rape is, there's nothing inherently wrong with it. I'm sure you can understand why that might be a deal breaker for some people.

However, you're lucky in the sense that rape fantasies are pretty common. I think you'd have an easier time finding a partner than, say, a professed pedophile. I'm positive you'll be able to find someone who is more than willing to indulge, or add to, your experience. Try message boards that are focused toward this sort of thing.

>>18323547
Do you like ROUGH SEX or do you like RAPE? Do you get turned on by being forceful in bed, or by the idea of having sex with an unwilling woman while she cries and struggles to escape from you?

I know that I shouldn't "kink shame" but if your fetish is actual dictionary-definition rape and not just sexual domination I feel like trying to introduce that into a relationship is always going to go south, unless you happen to find a chick who's into that herself (which is, to be fair, quite possible). Like, you can usually get a woman to experiment with some sub/dom play, for example, but asking her to pretend that she's terrified of you and not enjoying it while you verbally and/or physically abuse her during sex is kind of a totally different animal.

>>18323547
wait until you find the right one... and you will... find the right one

where to find a guy like this
serious question ;-;

On here? That's where I found my girl and she is into some stuff that would put off most guys.

>>18324052
>without asking
>However I was a little rough in bed and tried
>rough in bed without asking

wew

>>18324075
> by the idea of having sex with an unwilling woman while she cries and struggles to escape from you?

i find most guys actually do not like this they just like forceful sex. likewise most women dont like that either. if a guy gets turned on by LEGIT rape he is mentally deranged and should be avoided at all costs

>>18323547

I have a rape fetish and my bf gets completely freaked out when I've ask him to.. you know, fuck me hard however he'd liked without permission. Vanilla is nice and all but I so want my hair choked and to struggle and maybe slapped around a bit once in a while.

>>18325917

So OP it's best to suppress your desires unless you find someone like me before I hooked up with a nice, sweet, gentle bf lol

>TFW you're asian sub qt with a tearful sad face waiting forever to get rape-plow'd

>>18323631

No to name calling! lol yes to everything else though.

>>18325917
I want my hair *pulled, choked and to struggle and maybe slapped around a bit once in a while. Realize that he tied me up somehow and feel scared, maybe cry while he fucks me hard. Then he kisses me and holds me when he's done. omg I feel warm when I think about it.

>>18325935

>Physically assault me.
>But don't you dare call me a bitch.

Makes sense.

>Tfw gf has rapefetish
Joke's on her, I'm a footfag

>>18326005

I'm a girl. We don't have to make sense lol

>>18323593

>I'm more of a "Sir" or "Master" guy my self. I find the daddy thing is quite my tempo. But you do you man.

>>18323600

This all the way. Recently got a GF who is a hard core sub while I'm a hard dom. A third of our phone conversations at night are about shit we'll do together like ropes and whips and shit like that. One of the first things we had a serious conversation about was sexual compatibility. The only way to know for sure is to ask.

but you can't be like "Oh, hey do you have a rape fetish?" I'd recommend easing into it like "Hey, what are your major fetishes? Anything in particular you do or don't want?" and go from there.

>>18326036
>I'm more of a "Sir" or "Master" guy my self. I find the daddy thing is quite my tempo. But you do you man.
I think that calling a man daddy is one of the few hard limits I have.
The second a man says something about being my daddy I fucking cringe so hard and my pussy dries up permanently.
I could ever consider having a man piss on me, but daddy stuff...

OP here. It's all well and good for everyone else in this thread who is down with having this kind of fetish but it still leaves the question open: is there a way to change your particular mindset?

Besides spending thousands of dollars on therapy, drugs, electroshock, etc. that I'm totally not going to do.

So far I'm taking >>18323580 anon's advise and trying to just get off on normal porn for now. Lets see how long that lasts.

>>18326005
physical assault =/= denigration and being called names

you can be as innocent as a flower and be physically assaulted without automatically turning into a btich

This is why I'm scared of men

>>18323547
Get a better gf

>>18326054
As far as I know, the only way to claw out of any kind of kink or fetish you don't want is to lock it away completely and never acknowledge it. Like someone else suggested, just vanilla porn forever until you feel like that's it.

Or you could try to Clockwork Orange yourself and force yourself to watch the sickest shit pertaining to your fetish until it makes you nauseous at the thought of it. It's probably the worst option available to you and wouldn't recommend it even if something like this were to work.

Honestly, best bet would be to do what everyone is saying and just find someone whose into it.

>>18324550
Thing is they're fucking dorks, a guy worth his salt will be repulsed by the idea. Hell, even more aggressive losers just goes on to become a real rapist.

>>18323553
fpbp.

>>18323547
Honestly bitches usually like rough sex, just don't say anything sketchy or hurt them significantly. They like being drooled over and controlled. Honestly I'm too vanilla, I was able to get into dominating my girl in bed but I never mastered it it never came naturally. So idk just curb it a little bit in it's sketchiness but keep it in spirit.

>>18326246
Ludovico tech only ever worked because they were giving him a fictional drug that was altering his neurochemistry in the first place.

>>18326109

Yes, this. Very eloquently put statement. Good job anon

>>18325935
This. Females do not appreciate that. Just use your actions to treat her like a whore, she doesn't want to feel like you feel she is a whore in a mental sense, she just wants to be fucked like one.

>>18326168

Poor girl, not all of them are like this. They can be very gentle, loving and not rapey. No one wants that hard stuff for their first time lol that would be terrifying.

>>18326054

Good for you anon, you seem like a nice guy. If you're determined to stop or cutdown your fetish, I go cold turkey and stop watching all fetish porn.

Try to develop a taste for gentle or romantic porn. Even read erotica. Shit that women might like. Fap to it even if you're not really into it. That should bring you down a few notches.

>>18326910

>Thing is they're fucking dorks
so what, I'm a dork too

>a guy worth his salt will be repulsed by the idea
that's like saying only fat girls do blowjobs

>even more aggressive losers just goes on to become a real rapist
having a fetish doesn't mean you have no morals