My bf cheated on me because we were on a break. So recently

He doesn't really love you, and you are not very bright.

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>>18321445
You ripped out the happy blanket of loyalty from underneath him, made him think you're initiating a break (and specifically mentioning he could have sex, which probably made him think you were about to have a train ran on you) and now you're saying he cheated when one of his female friends came and comforted him and sucked him off? Maybe you don't deserve him, pray he decides to stay with you, but I think he's better off with a living, caring girlfriend who doesn't pull your variety of shit. You don't even deserve that cutesy cup of juice picture in your OP.

>>18321445
Reading this was very confusing. It's like your genders are reversed.

>>18321445
>cheated
> I also gave him the option to have sex with others

kys and gtfo

He should dump you

>>18321445
>My bf cheated on me because we were on a break.
If you were on a break it's not cheating.
>I also gave him the option to have sex with others
If you explicitly give him permission it's definitely not cheating.

The reason he felt insecure was because his girlfriend told him she wanted to take a break, in which he could have sex with other people, which would also mean you can have sex with other people. Why would he not feel insecure about that?

You should forgive him. You should also move on. He doesn't deserve your bullshit.

This is a situation where nobody is /really/ in the wrong, everybody is entitled to what they are feeling, but the damage has been done.

If you think you can forgive him, then forgive him. It's not that he did anything wrong, but more about if you think you can live with it.

If you were fighting a lot before, it's only gonna get worse, now.

>>18321445
rachel pls

>>18321575
>nobody is /really/ in the wrong
Giving someone permission to do something and then resenting them for doing it is pretty wrong.

This is why I don't believe in "breaks"

It makes no sense to say the relationship is so far in the gutter that you have to go off and fuck other people. Then expect the person to just blow it all off when it doesn't work out with the new person.

Either work your shit out, or don't. There is a difference between wanting to keep some distance from them (usually because you LIVE together, not because of some dumbass fight) and wanting a pass for infidelity.

>>18321445
no sane person would ever think "taking a break" means you're getting back together.
Thats what you say to someone when you know you don't want to be with them and you're afraid to admit it. Love doesn't need breaks, you need each other.
Your fault completely if this isnt bait.

>>18321701
This

>>18321445
>My bf cheated on me because we were on a break.
>On a break
>Cheated

I refuse to believe this isnt bait. If it isnt, get over yourself. You should have gone "on a break". I didnt even bother reading past that

>>18321756
*shouldnt

>>18321456
yep. if a woman suggested a break and fucking other people was a part I would assume she had dick lined up and expected to resume the relationship after she burned through a half dozen guys as I patiently waited for her to return. Bullshit, I would do same as OP's bf but would tell her to go to hell.

You can bet OP would have fucked the next day if not the same night and pissed her bf got it first.

>>18321445
He didn't do anything wrong but it is no one's fault if your trust was broken. If you can't deal with his 'infidelity' then end it.

>>18321701
But it's not like her objection is unreasonable. Yeah, she initiated it. I agree that he didn't do anything wrong. But, if someone went and dicked my girl a half hour after we started our 'break', I'd be petty miffed too, moral high ground or no.

It would be wrong of her to become vindictive about the incident. But, I wouldn't say that's unreasonable, either.

>>18321445
He didn't cheat on you since you were on a break.

Literally the only reason to take an official "break" in a relationship is to NOT be committed to that person for a period of time.

"Cheating" means that he broke a standing rule that you had established. He didn't break any rules or betray your trust because you literally gave him permission all on your own.

This situation happened because of your actions. He did not cheat on you and is not "in the wrong".

That being said, the fact that literally within a few hours he was able to receive a blow job would personally kind of make me curious. Who is the girl that gave him a BJ? Is she a friend? Why does he have friendships with people who will suck his dick at the drop of a hat?

>he did the very thing I said he could do
>I was cheated on!
Women, I fucking swear