Girlfriend of 5 years broke up and moved out because I was apparently treating her like shit. Convinced her to take me back 2 weeks later, but in the mean time she fucked one of her coworkers. Is this something I should just accept? Can a woman respect a man that takes her back after opening her legs for another man so quickly?
what actually happened is she wanted to suck his dick for a long time and she needed an excuse to do it
>>18317607
>Convinced her to take me back
>a man that takes her back
Which one is it, OP? To me it sounds like it was you who begged to get back together, not her. You've lost her respect already.
>>18317607
Can a man respect himself after convincing a woman who so quickly opened her legs for another man to take him back?
>>18317612
This
>>18317607
>Can a woman respect a man that takes her back after opening her legs for another man so quickly?
No.
Five years is a long time to waste on someone who turns out to be a manipulative bitch, but the only real option you have at this point is to cut your losses NOW rather than later, because this is only the beginning if you decide to stay with her.
>>18317612
This.
Find a new gf. Sorry op.
>>18317612
This x1000.
Call her a slut and leave her ass.
There is literally nothing wrong with letting your gf fuck other men.
>>18317607
>I was apparently treating her like shit
No you weren't. She wanted her coworker and was willing to ditch you and 5 years to do it. Her lust satisfied for that coworker she knew you would take her back because she successfully convinced you everything was your fault. Respect has nothing to do with it she just don't give a shit about you.
>>18317607
she's still fucking the coworker OP
>>18317690
This.
OP, you're in a great position right now, what's your problem exactly? If she keeps visiting her coworker maybe one day you'll be lucky and catch her fucking him in your own home.
ITT: "what is chad and do women really have the loyalty of a cat"
Get out of that relationship honestly. Nothing good can come from it, at least my personal experience she sounds like a manipulator.
>>18317612
You'll tell yourself she's different but this is the answer
>>18317607
Don't take her back.
Can you actually imagine spending the rest of your life with someone after that?
Find a new girl, preferably one who is a decent human being who treats you right and not a total skank.