How do you get women who aren't in college to notice you?

>>18315331

Are you a kid? Are you a 20-something dude thinking 40-something women are desperate?

>>18315345
>are you a 20-something?
yes

>thinking older women are desperate?
no

I also said I like latinas too, not just cougars.

The only women who want me are white women of the same age, and honestly those girls are truly insufferable until they get off daddy's payroll and become independent like the rest of us.

Most are married bro. The fit ones are also generally trophy wives. Some might cheat but you'll have to be able to offer her something her husband can't, which 99% chance will be a really fit body.

You can go for low class ones but they might have meat head tough guy boyfriends wholl fuck your day up.

Also, the few that are single and dont have kids are totally desperate and will immediately try to get in a relationship with you.

>>18315356
>The only women who want me are white women of the same age, and honestly those girls are truly insufferable until they get off daddy's payroll and become independent like the rest of us.

That's your problem. It actually has several parts:

You are dealing in generalizations. All white chicks are the same to you, and you want exotic Latinas and Cougars. People don't want to be labels for you. Start actually meeting people and don't be a bitch.

>>18315380
I don't really appreciate your vibes since you came in this thread.

>>18315361
You've got a good point there. I don't know what to do though. I want to grow as a person, not just get labeled and stuck dating the same kind of woman.

>>18315405
"Cerebral" women who, as a bonus, have enough perspective/ will power to stay attractive and thin in their 40s are going to be married to the fucking cream of the crop of society. That is literally a perfect women. You're better off going for the shallow ones, who will actually stoop low enough to cheat on their husbands with you. Just hit the gym, itll make your quality of life better anyways.

Dont know what you mean about "latino" women. Like 20 year old ones? Arent thy in university too? If youre talking about low class girls thats ez. Just earn more than 50k a year and you will literally be prince charming to her.

These are all, of course, generalizations that are necessary because you asked about this problem in general terms. Its of course possible youll find a 40 year old Puerto rican woman who just likes your personality cus she likes you or w/ e.

>>18315424
>I don't really appreciate your vibes since you came in this thread.

What do you expect? You are talking about people you want to date as if you were an ad executive talking about a target audience.

Have you tried dating outside of college? Do you even know "cougars" or "latinas"? Or are you just using porn search terms to define what you want?

>>18315436
>Just earn more than 50k and you'll be prince charming to her.
I thought this too. Is it true, though? I'll make good money once I'm done with school.

>these women will not want you
I don't get the idea that I'm stupid and ugly and classless or anything. I hope I'm not. My standards for beauty are about on par with myself, as is true for most people.

>>18315405
Yo man youre speaking in oxy morons

They see a "snobby college kid," but I'm actually a patient, career-oriented sort of guy.

Do you know what that sounds like to some angry minimum wage fast food worker.

Dont even try to be cool with the lower classes unless you patronize them with money. They resent wealthy people automatically, especially now with the socio political climate what it is.

>>18315458
50k a year is basically citizen status. Less than that and youre only working to pay bills. I believe the NEETS call this "wage slavery"

>>18315424
>avoiding the point being made because it makes you comfortable
>bad vibes
You actually sound more or less like you're immature. No wonder why cougars never notice you.

>>18315442
Good points. Could you be constructive then? That's why I made the thread, because I need advice.

I only met girls coincidentally, and 100% of them were spoiled white (I'm more, parents put me out at 18 with nothing white). Get mad if you want, but it's the problem that drove me to create the thread. These relationships were bordeline abusive because they thought I was cucked enough to accept it.

I see nice people around, but I don't know how to get on with them. I just get laid enough by chance that I haven't even been inspired to use Tinder or go to bars.

But now I want to learn to mingle with people. They assume I have my cast with those spoiled people. I don't. I don't like them.

>>18315461
I am the lower class. See the problem here? I get mistaken for being the class my mom was, which was six figure.

I'm not six figure though. I want to be with the homies.

>>18315466
Righto, my man.

>>18315468
Now you're saying there's something wrong with me for not liking your pissy tone? How many cougars you got?

>>18315486
>But now I want to learn to mingle with people.

Step one, and I can't believe you haven't picked this one up yet from my various posts:

Stop speaking about ethnicity! Latinas are exotic to you because, as you say, you only meet white spoiled people.

That's not how meeting people works. It's not like searching a porn video online. You can't filter by skin color first and then find one you want.

If you don't like the people you meet in the activities you do, then try new stuff. Just remember: You meet people, not labels.

>>18315495
Well now thanks to your life changing advice, I don't have anything but success ahead of me.

Again, I don't appreciate your vibes. You're flooding my thread with obvious criticism and just contributing negatively.

>>18315503
Not them but quit being a pussy. You feel criticized because your thought process is being criticized, and it's been explained why.

>>18315503

Don't ask for help if you don't want to hear unpleasant things. There's a reason you only meet a certain kind of people. Giving yourself an attitude check would really improve matters. But you don't want to do that. You want someone to tell you: Do this and you'll get cougars. Guess what? You won't fake your way past your own attitude. Ditch the stereotypes and maybe you'll get a shot. Good luck in life. You'll need it. I won't clog the thread anymore, I try to give advice and you clearly want none.

>>18315527
Thanks for taking such a sizeable piss in the thread that its been rendered completely unproductive.

Your personality is generally understandable and you're a fool, just like every spoiled white chick I land and then have to dump

Good thing is you're stuck with you and I'm done.

Tell me anyone who uses the term pussy unironically is a complex and successful person.

No youre a goddamned child

you manchildren ruin 4chan by dominating it with idiocy

>>18315546
*undesirable

>>18315531
>good luck
>youll need it
Im sure your life is great

>>18315494
Class isnt wealth. Your mother made 6 figures. You have certain values about life due to your upbringing, for example: being ambitious. Low class people aren't ambitious. Being an impovershed noble like you is honestly worse than being a peasant, because no matter how little money you have, you'll never like fast food and honey boo boo. (I feel like that reference is a decade out of date by now lol).

I totally feel you about young white girls being spoiled. Like bitch just cus I hate myself doesn't mean I dont respect myself. Ive been trying to figure out how to get with MILFs too. Hardest part is figuring out where they are...

>>18315546
>unproductive.

No bitch. You will learn by the numbers, I will teach you! Go cry.

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>>18315356
>tfw spic dating a finanancially independent white girl who shares my values and fetishes
Feels goodman

>>18315569
This guy is fucking woke. He understands.

>>18315937
I'd rather be a telemundo than white. White people are sociopaths from behind the moon.

>>18315579
>>18315579
You haven't taught a single thing in your life brother

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You have to be very direct. Cougars are very cautious and dont want to feel stupid for approaching you. After some converstaion, you literally have to say something like, "So do you want to go home and fuck?"