This lady I like and I had a fun time last weekend. However, she started to become ill during our time together. Her throat was scratchy, she was coughing a lot. It didn't bother me since I love her so much and we don't spend a lot of time together. She didn't want me to do anything for fear of getting me sick but I didn't listen. We made out hard, had sex, etc. A few days later I became sick as well. No surprise.
Here's my dilemma. I'm meeting her today and she is going to ask me if I got sick. I'm a lot better now but I did have to go to urgent care yesterday and got some medicine. If I tell her, she's going to blame herself and feel bad. But I can't lie to her. She's the only person I've been truly honest with my entire life.
Is a little white lie okay in this situation?
Just say "Yes Im sick so what"
It is flattering that you ignored the consequences and just went for her
>>18311863
She's going to feel bad though. I don't want that.
>>18311853
Be vaguely poetic about it.
"Something something no disease is going to keep me away from you babe."
>>18311874
I like this but are you saying that I tell her I got sick and all the details?
>>18311853
"I felt a little sick, but I recovered fast. Totally worth it for you".
No more details.