My boyfriend is literally disgusted by my vagina. When we first

>>18307102

Time to FORCE him to like it! Sit on his face . every. chance. you get. Fuck it, that's what guys do all the time and they don't give a shit. It's your turn. Get it girl!

>>18307102
You are dating a closet homo.

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>>18307102
For a split second I thought I was on /cgl/ and this was the Anime Expo thread

>>18307131
This anon has it right OP. He's gay. Bring a man in the bedroom once, that might turn him on

>>18307102
>He would probably suck my dick if I were a dick girl, and that hurts the most.

:'-(

>>18307102
>He would probably suck my dick if I were a dick girl, and that hurts the most.

That's the worrysome part. Did you two ever talk about that or are you just making this shit up? depending on your answer, one of you is a dumbass.

About the vagina itself, if he tries and it doesn't work, then there's nothing you can do. At least he tried, didn't he?

>>18307102

Vaginas are usually not pleasant to taste or smell. For some reason a lot of virgins who use 4chan always brag about how their girlfriends vagina supposedly smells like fucking roses and tastes like candy. Fuck off. Real life is not like porn.

How's your vagina hygiene ?

There's no way of forcing it, he'll want to do it later or he won't. Either you can accept that he's not willing to do whatever you want, or you aren't.

Just because you are, doesn't mean he has to be. Time to suck it up and live with it, or move on. Is oral worth leaving him over?

>>18307102
It probably takes time. He could not change his mind or he could indeed. But even if he won't ever enjoy giving oral, he shouldn't make you feel like he's disgusted by your vagina.

I'm a girl and I needed time not to feel uncomfortable about giving oral as well. I think it helped me having no pressure at all and when things in bed started to be natural and playful.

>>18307102
What does your vagina looks like? Have you tasted yourself?

I don't mean to blame you, from your story he is indeed a selfish faggot, but maybe there's something else slipping by.

Maybe taste yourself in front of him, wash with him before sex and make him wash your pussy, or use one of thousands of gels with taste. Maybe this faggot will like strawberry tasting pussy

>>18307163
And you apparently tastes tons of pussy to come to this conclusion, right?

Go get checked, you probably ate some yeast

How many previous sexual partners have you had? Maybe you have bacterial vaginosis.

>>18307102

Clean better, you fucking nasty whore.

>>18307102
You assholes commenting here, Op makes clear why her bf doesn't like giving oral and it's pretty clear Op is not retarded, so her vagina is not the fucking problem.

>>18307244
I've had one sexual partner, he was really into giving oral. I don't think it's my smell, just my current boyfriend's lasting distaste for it from his first relationship. My boyfriend assures me that it's not my fault.
>>18307131
Is it really gay for him to not enjoy vagina if he like all other parts of being with a woman? Beasts and ass and all that. On the other hand, he likes giving and receiving anal. I like both of those things too, but does this mean he's probably bisexual and would be willing to be with a guy? (We've had this talk, he assures me he's not bisexual, but what if he just doesn't realize it?)

>>18307240
We take baths together, I have tasted myself, nothing terrible. Like I said, it's not my fault. He assures me it's because of his first bad experience. Makes me hate his ex girlfriend more than anything.

My last boyfriend was not into giving me oral at all, and we were together a good 3 years. In the end, he got really good at fingering and would just finger me til I came, either during sex or before or after. And because I still got to finish, I didn't care at all about the lack of oral. So maybe just work on finding a suitable replacement for it.

If you still want it, I would suggest having oral before sex for a few minutes at a time to work him up to being more comfortable with it, but it sounds like he doesn't have much desire to change. But if he does, thats something to think about.

>>18307346
Fingering seems like a good idea. My biggest desire is to come during sex also, and that usually doesn't happen without prolonged foreplay, so yeah, I'll try to find a suitable replacement.

>>18307102
he may be homosex
he may be telling the truth. if he is, then he needs to get over his ex and her nasty cunt because neither of those things have anything to do with you. i cant really suggest anything else aside from shaving/waxing and having him try to get at it immediately after you bathe. i cant really understand his perspective because i absolutely love eating pussy.

>>18307355
Yeah that's all good. I can't come from PIV so the fingering was really helpful for us, and then I didn't feel sexually neglected. If he didn't do that, I would have eventually gotten so angry about the lack of oral.
Fingering is also good because you can cum from it while you have sex and unless your man is crazyyyy flexible that won't happen with oral

>>18307365
>crazyyyy flexible
im trying to picture this, but i dont see how it would be physically possible to be engaged in both intercourse and cunnilingus simultaneously. am i wrong? have you seen this?

>>18307337
Yeah that's bad then, even tasting yourself in front of him didn't encourage him?

I know how this is because my ex rarelly gave me head, and she was my first. So I usually don't care much for oral, and have came in my current gf twice in almost a decade. She gives great head but doesn't like to swallow, but I wish I could.

>>18307372
No I've never seen it, I was joking.

is hey gay or what

>>18307336
>likes receiving anal
OP I have bad news for you

>>18307336
Did you suggest giving him anal? Do you like it? if not, he's a homo.

>>18307336

He's one of those guys who would love to be fucked by a "shemale". I'd bet you'd find at least traces of shemale porn on his electronics.

>>18307471
He even considered dating a trans girl. I guess he's one of those "the penis is the least gay part of the body" type of guys. But most of his porn is anime girls with voluptuous breasts. Doesn't confirm suspicions.
>>18307466
He suggested anal. Originally wanting to fuck me, but later he mentioned that he wanted to do the opposite, too. So it wasn't like he was begging me to fuck him.

>>18307282
this.
>>18307102
Fuck you roastie whore

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>>18307520
Do you realize you have mental issues?

>>18307131
Came here to post this. Your boyfriend is one step away from being a full on faggot. I have a friend who was just like this before he went publicly gay af.

I've been following this thread and I've also come to the conclusion that your man is most likely homosexual. It's one thing to not be fond of giving oral but it sounds like he's really into anal and the idea of penises. I think it's time to let him go, get yourself a straight guy and him transform into a beautiful butterfly like he is.

>>18307102
Tbqh vaginas look kinda gross imho

>>18307102

Most guys aren't particularly enamored with oral, but it is someone one does primarily for the pleasure of their partner. I would say that setting the mood and building up to it would be a good start, but this appears to be a more visceral reaction, which has little to do with you as an individual.

Most of the other anons are correct in that the issue lies with your boyfriend, so there likely isn't much you can do to address it. That said, part of your response seems to indicate that you suffer from a lack of variety, and that can also reduce fulfillment.

If the vagina thing isn't something that is going to change, you still have plenty of other kinks and activities to explore, depending on your tastes. Blindfolds, binding, ropes, denial, group sex, sex in public, or going out without underwear and risking exposing yourself, are all fairly vanilla kinks you could explore.

If you want physical attention then get a Magic Wand or have your boyfriend use a vibe on you. I use toys on My own sub once-in-a-while because variety is the spice of life. You just have to find things that you both enjoy, or there will be problems in the long term. Children will yammer on about "true love." However, in the real world, sexual compatibility counts for a great deal. Sexual intimacy is an important part of a good relationship, and can't be dismissed.

>>18308074
Faggot

>>18307102
Maybe try washing your snatch out, you filthy bitch.

>>18307336
don't let stupid anons here into making you believe he's gay
he loves you ? he gets hard for you ? how could he be ?
Repulsion to vagina is by traumatism is not being selfish, refusing to work on it however could be - try to ease him into it / tell him how you feel about it

He like to do da gay tings, mawn!
Homosexuality not be tolerated in Motha Jamaica!

>>18308136
Same

wash ur pussy then u punk ass hoe

>>18307163
shower first and then go at it
of course unwashed body parts are not nice

oral on girls is by far the best
but not only vagina, I also like licking her ass

but desu how can you stick a dick in a vagina if you're unwilling to lick/touch it?
that's the part I'm confused about

>>18308172
>Repulsion to vagina is by traumatism is not being selfish, refusing to work on it however could be
This OP. It's really hard to overcome a trauma, and only he can change it. You can only help him by easing it on him and taking care of your hygiene.
Imagine if a girl were relentlessly face-raped by her ex for months (who also never cleaned his smegma ridden dick), do you think she'd be into bjs? Don't think so.

Gotta agree with everyone saying "gay", unfortunately. I've been with girls who smelled and tasted horrible and in no way has that affected my experiences eating other girls out. In fact, I actually enjoy it a lot, despite the myriad of weird looking/smelling/tasting vaginas I've experienced.

>>18307102
Have you asked why he lost the boner, there's many more reasons more common that being disgusting.

I usually lose mine when giving oral, it's hard to maintain an erection while focusing on something so much even if it is really hot.

>>18308430
I should also say that i also sometimes feel grossed out by oral mostly due to an ex girlfriend, do not underestimate the power of smell memory recall. I can't eat sweet potatoes any more because i once ate them and vomited like crazy, so my brain entirely associates them with vomiting.

What might help is if you wash your pussy with water right in front of him just before. Try not to take offence from it.

Bottom line is you have two issues OP.
You essentially just have to talk to him about your discomfort in him not giving you enough oral. He's either gonna take that and try more to please you OR he's not. You have to decide then if you're willing to to not be pleased in that area for as long as you're with him or not.
Two: he prob wants to explore his same sex fantasies. Talk to him about it with an open mind. See if that's still something he can explore inside the relationship? But don't get cucked. Make sure you're hooking up w someone who will let you sit on his face all day.

If you guys want to be in a relationship with one another but can't fulfill each other sexually. See if you want to open it up maybe?

I do not understand why your man does not like eating pussy.

It's not a fucking salmon dinner, but it's not about the taste. It's about pleasing your partner which makes it pleasant/hot/enjoyable.

Try flavored lube and/or before he goes down, wipe with a towel to get some of the vaginal fluid off of the vagina.

>He would probably suck my dick if I were a dick girl, and that hurts the most.
I would be pissed if someone said this to me how do straight girls tolerate this shit

What is your routine in the sac? My wife and I always give oral before any kind or penetration. Depending on her cycle and other factors she might taste better or worse at times but we always try.
If we do any kind of penetration before I'm done going down on her, or if she rubs herself and smears her goo everywhere then i too can get turned off. It just completely changes the taste.
What is most important for me enjoying my wife is that I get to that sweet clitoris and focus only on that. I try to clean it with the tip of my tongue and stay around that area. If she tastes good that day ill be adventurous and lick the rim and all that.

That being said, sometimes after a few minutes i notice that I get a little flaccid. Its hard work jamming you head down there and working your jaw. But its not like i lose interest, I just need a second to get blood back.

>>18307163

Well a healthy vagina sholdn't smell or taste at all and looks like whatever a vagina look like.

To OP, how does your vagina look like? I mean is't an outie or innie?

>>18307163

Lol
Tell your girl to take a fucking shower man, I love eating girls out and the smell + taste is part of that

>>18308558

You have probably unknowingly eaten a girl out after she fucked someone else. Let that sink in.

He could just be lazy. Don't get me wrong, I love giving my wife oral but sometimes I'm lazy and rather skip it. My wife is sorta the same. Or he just might not like doing it or the taste in general. Not everyone likes the taste of [insert food or drink item here] but plenty of people do.

With that said maybe he could be a trooper and just do it. It's not like he has to do it every time. My wife isn't a fan of giving but gets off on me enjoying it on the receiving end.

post pic of vag for reference.


boyfriend sounds like either a closet case or extremely selfish

lets just pretend the old girlfriend had a rank pussy.... that has got nothing to do with yours, he should be that much more starved for the sweet pussy nector

>>18308516


best is to fuck the pussy with dick... then pull out and lick around the hole... put dick back in, fuck more, pull out lick pussy more


its my dick so no homo on that

>>18308387
Because a dick doesn't have taste buds/ nostrils. Seriously there's nothing i love more than slamming some hot poon. But i would never go out of my way to go down on a chick unless she was super hot and clean with a nice pus.

Guys what do I do if my gf's vagina tastes and smells really bad? Should I just straight up tell her? I've given oral to a couple other girls and none of them were this bad

>>18308558
You'd probably love to suck dicks too then because my male parts start to smell like pussy when I cum, don't shower afterwards and get sweaty down there. It's bacteria odor.

>>18308430
We were in a 69 position - I was sucking him off, and he still lost his erection. I'm pretty sure it wasn't from too much concentration that that happened. Plus, I get really wet whenever I blow him, even though I'm concentrating.
>>18308457
fuck no
>>18308495
Okay he's never actually said this to me, but I'm pretty sure this is true. The reason I come to this conclusion is his willingness to date trans girls (he didn't though, but he considered the when he had the opportunity), and him once joking that he'd suck my dick. But it wasn't during a serious conversation in which he was admonishing my vagina or anything.
>>18308516
We grind and make out, bite and scratch one another, and he chokes me and slaps me around until I get wet/he gets hard. Then I suck his dick for a bit because I love it, and then we fuck. If I'm on my period, we do anal instead. If he made out or did foreplay for just a little longer, I wouldn't mind not having oral. We are otherwise very sexually compatible.
>>18308546
Maybe it's because I don't shave at all that he hates it. Because not shaving prevents me from being able to tell the answer to your question.

>>18309691

omg you stupid twat shave your hairy ass pussy. There's your fucking answer. This was stupid pointless. No one likes to munch on pubes. You're honest to god time waster

>>18309691
>Plus, I get really wet whenever I blow him, even though I'm concentrating.
Sucking dick is much easier than eating out, and getting wet is different from maintain erection which requires continual redirection of blood based on the brain.

>>18309708

Amen. These days you'd have to be an exceptionally repugnant ho to not be surrounded by an online army of men trying to get in your pants anyways. Homeless Brazilian junkie with leg covered in maggots masturbating in public-tier repugnant.

>>18309691
No, I can't really do 69 either because I'm focused on other things. Getting hard and getting your pussy wet are two different things. If you get a little wet and lose your focus and then your focus comes back, you're still a little wet. Our erections deflate and we have to start over. Having sex as a man and as a woman are two very different things.

>>18309717
I'm not shaving. Not getting oral is worth it. I guess I did waste everyone's time.
>>18309728
Okay I understand

>>18309814
You don't have to shave it, but you could just trim the hair down shorter so he's not getting a mouthful of pubes. Shaving can irritate the hell out of your skin, but there's literally no reason not to take a pair of scissors and give yourself a haircut.

>>18307102
There aren't any solutions.

Some men just find vaginas disgusting, just like some women dislike giving blowjobs. Being attracted to the other sex doesn't mean they enjoy putting others genitalia in their mouth.

As a man, I would only go down a girl if she is an innie. Otherwise I find it kinda gross.

>>18309691
If your vaginas too hairy to even tell if its an innie or not you should fucking trim it at least wtf

>>18309717
WTF

I've met women who keep their pubic hair, but never one that never shave at all.

There's your answer.

>>18309620
Yes.

If she truly washes herself thoroughly it shouldn't be a problem, but if she does this and it still smells rank there's a deeper medical problem she needs to get checked.

>>18309814

Also, you know pubes also smell right? TF is wrong with you hairy pussy anon..

>>18307102
Clean it better. Especially the outside. Douching deeply is bad for you but the outside layers need to be cleaned out before sex or it can smell/taste bad.

>>18309824
>mouthful of pubes
You typically spread the lips anyway before oral and there's no hair on the inner pink, just the mound and the outside of the outer lips.

OP, this situation sucks. Know that there are men who give zero shits and love pussy. I don't shave myself and the last guy I dated wanted me to sit on his face so much that it was more for him than for me at that point.

Not saying this to rub salt in the wounds just please don't think your pussy is not good enough or whatever. Nowadays many people have a preference for bare and that's fine, but people got around for centuries before that and were also fucking like bunnies. And your boyfriend has a mouth and could bring up shaving if that's really what makes or breaks the vagina for him.

I sure hope he fingers you so much his hands cramp up.

hes a fag