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>>18306554
>people seem to fucking treat me like worst type of degenerate.
>I mean I can stand up for myself
It sounds like you can't. If you could they couldn't treat you that way.
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>>18306554

I've been feeling the same anon so I feel you. I've decided to say fuck everyone else and now I test everyone I meet. I don't know if this is good advice or not but I'm just sharing my 2 cents on the matter. I guess I've become rather jaded than I used to be.

>>18306973
....so I should bring a baseball bat to work? Cos I am not an intimidating person.

Not OP by the way.

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>>18307049
You think there's no in-between? Just learn to say no.

>>18307074
I can say no (now), but I still don't get a shred of respect from them.

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>>18307106
If that'ss true I guess they are just assholes then and you shouldn't care what they think about you.

But if you have this problem with many people the problem must still be in you. Figure out what it is.

>>18307138
>But if you have this problem with many people the problem must still be in you.

I won't say everybody is an asshole to me but I keep coming across the same type of people, I know there are good people around though they seem to run in different circles to me. It's always been like this since school, dickheads seem to gravitate to me cos they probably see I'm not assertive.

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>>18307201
There you go.

Keep searching your feelings. Ask yourself questions even when they seem stupid or obvious. For example: In what ways you're not assertive and why?

>>18307241
I'm not physically intimidating for one thing and desperate for friends to take a lot more shit than I should.

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>>18307251
Good. Keep digging.

>I'm not physically intimidating
Could you do something to eventually work towards this?

>desperate for friends
Why are you so desperate?

>I take a lot more shit than I should.
It won't get you friends. Counterintuitively people won't see you as their equal if you can't challenge them.