My boyfriend asked me a question once out of the blue when we were in his car. "What would you do if I was bisexual''. I didn't see that one coming at all. I told him ''It won't change anything for me, it wouldn't matter'' and he told me ''yeah, ofcourse, it wouldn't matter...''. I never forgot that moment because he asked it so spontaneously.
Few weeks later he had a conversation with me on the phone about how his friends tease him by saying the things he does is gay or weird. And one his male friends told him 'you have turned out to look very beautiful nowadays'. I don't think he 'acts' gay at all but that doesn't mean a thing. I told him this conversation made me think of that one time in the car and repeated again 'i would not think bad about it, it won't matter' and he said 'that's nice, ofcourse it won't matter'. After that a long silence......he broke the silence after a while and we continued our conversation nothing is weird between us or anything. Should I just straight up ask him or wait untill he tells me himself? Maybe he's giving hints so the conversation goes a certian way and he can tell me in a casual way.
just ask him and get to the bottom of it.
sounds like he wants to tell you but doesn't know how or doesn't have the nerve
Just ask him, I told my girlfriend I'm Bi but it doesn't mean I'm about to go out sucking 50 dicks
>>18305900
I didn't even think that hahaa. It feels weird asking it somehow. I'll ask him directly if a similar moment arises again.
I'm wondering why it even matters. He's with you now. Do you both see a future for this relationship, as in do you plan on getting married one day and committing to each other for the long haul?
>>18305880
Depends, my girlfriend knows I'm into 2D traps, but not 3D. I'd say just ask unless you think he'll leave you.
>>18305910
instead of directly asking, the next time the opportunity arises you should be like, "so, bf, so-and-so guy is pretty cute, huh?"
see what he says, heh