Dated a girl within the group. She came into it as a friend of a friend. Got to know a couple of her own friends as they'd invite us for summer evening get together's on the deck.
We break up, so I figured I lost that social group too. Now one of those friends of the ex invited me to one of her parties coming up.
I was a bit surprised and have been wondering if I should tell her I got the invitation and that I appreciate it?
She was always great to me and sometimes I wondered if I was dating the wrong woman, but I didn't entertain it long so I wouldn't get into the grass is greener mess
Also, I know my ex and her new boyfriend will be there.
>>18302739
>>18302739
If you don't mind seeing your ex with a new bf, just go to the party if you want. Maybe the girl inviting you wants you. You won't know unless you go. And no, you can't ask her, that's not how it works.
I would not want to go, but thats because my ex' new bf is my former best friend and we get into fist fights every time we meet now. I'm 4-0 but I don't enjoy fighting him. I get so angry at them first and myself later.
>>18302739
>She was always great to me and sometimes I wondered if I was dating the wrong woman, but I didn't entertain it long so I wouldn't get into the grass is greener mess
Entertain it now then.
>Also, I know my ex and her new boyfriend will be there.
Is this a problem for you?
If the breakup wasn't messy and you're ok with her in general then, yeah, go
>>18302747
>>18302749
No not a problem for me seeing the ex. And last I heard this girl is also dating someone now, though how serious it is I don't know as maybe it came about as not wanting to be lonely/single
It was always great conversations but they weren't necessarily my friends, so I just found it a surprise seeing the invitation
>>18302757
It was bit messy. We met up and talked things out a couple months later. Sex and all that. But it just fizzled out when she met the new boyfriend
>>18302779
>>18302790
Then go if you want to, say nothing if you don't.
What motives are behind it is difficult for us strangers on the internet to say, if you have no clue I'd say the only chance to find out is going.