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How do I find a male mentor? I want to become the man I'm

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How do I find a male mentor?

I want to become the man I'm supposed to be.

t. grew up without a dad
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>>18302603

seek the red pill
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>>18302603
Stop posting feels meme and start by telling us something about your life. Also you can gain a lot of wisdom just by reading right books and generally observing how others do stuff.

Why do you even think you are missing
>dad
when you never had one?
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>>18302610
I'm a colossal failure with no life prospects and a lot of mental issues.

I'm missing a fatherly presence in my life since 11 because... it's hard to tell but I really need guidance, a reassurance presence and I also need someone to tell me the truth on various important subjects. Someone to slap some sense into me while showing me the way ahead. Not the way backwards.
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>>18302615
> someone showing me the was ahead
> not the way backwards

sorry, but those days are over. our entire civilization is going down the drain. More and more boys are in the same situation as you and it leads to widely increased rates of young male suicide and males opting out of the work force. Enjoy the decline, it's only going to get worse
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>>18302620
That mindset is why I want a male mentor in the first place.

I don't want to think like that anymore.
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>>18302615
>no life
>colossal failure
>mental issues
Well for starters, real dad would tell you that blaming your shitty life on missing presence if father in your life is bullshit excuse.

Only you are the reason why your life is so shit.
>reassurance
Your mom can do the same. Just talk to her, tell her you need it. Try to hug her and cry like a little bitch you are. Part of growing up is about learning how to deal with bad experiences.

So what EXACTLY is shitty about your life?

>>18302620
Go back to >>>/pol/ defeatism never ever helped anyboby.
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>>18302626
Listen man, I don't want to go into details and I don't want to tell you that I'm a blameless victim but I'd really fancy a male mentor in my life.

Can you help with that?
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>>18302626
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any male relative that resembles a father figure?
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>>18302630
Only my older brother and he's insanely busy.

That could be a good idea for someone else, though.
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>>18302627
>frog AND feels poster
You are asking wrong questions like majority of adv posters. Your path to self improvement lies in realizing what you are doing wrong and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to improve your shit life situation.

Sure there exist people like
>life coach
>theraphist
>proffesional dom
>psichiater (fuck i wont ever be able to type this right)
who you pay in order for them to slap you so hard until you actually do something.

So again frog poster, what are you willing to give up in order to obtain salvation? I bet you dont even need to ask adv about what to do. You are just fucking LAZY, arent you?

So what it will be?

>>18302628
Rare doggo.
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>>18302637
>psichiater (fuck i wont ever be able to type this right)
Good try bro.

is my fave doggo these days.

I will advise OP again to seek the red pill or get into bodybuilding. I started with bodybuilding, got my life in order and out of my depression, then someone pointed me to the pill and I gained so much knowledge. Ignorance is bliss, but my childlike ignorance was taken from me long ago anyways. the pill just explained with words what I knew in the feels
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>>18302647
Thank you for giving me an actual, not e-though guy, answer.
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>>18302652
you're welcome friend. I'm not sure one mentor is the way to go though. You can't really save other people, but you can help them save themselves, like I am trying here today.
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Go to church
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You have Internet
I made myself with Internet alone
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>>18302606
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