>I've been with my current girlfriend for 3 and a bit

How long have you been together with your girlfriend. Seems like something you should have told her long long ago. All on you, family. Peace ouuuuuuuuWOOOOOOOOO

>>18302101
3 years 2 months. I've told her for a long time but she thinks I'm exaggerating. Ever since we've moved in together she's been more interested in meeting her.

>>18302108
Ok then you should just get it over with, man. Be all end all or whaterver it is you say.

It is like.. ripping the bandage off. Just get this problem out of the way.

>think im seeing a snake whos head has just been torn in half covered in blood
>shes just wearing a nice hat

wew
that was a close one lads

She's been warned, do that and hope your mom acts the most awful she can, so that she never wants another those of that

But knowing evil people, I imagine your mom will do everything within her reach for you gf to like her, just to spite you

>>18302126
>another those of that
what did he mean by this?

>>18302162
Sry I sperged a bit

I meant another visit to his mom

>>18302174
Oh, you meant another DOSE?

Hey man i had the same problem had. I told my wife even when she was my girlfriend how much trouble my mum was. Any ways they began argueing on/off and i tried to just stay neutral and tell my mrs not to get upset by the shit my mum said. Eventually overtime it went full blown nasty my wife put it on social media threats were made by her family. It ended being me getting my head kicked in by the wifes POS family it all went on me. Shit was so bad i had to break off from the whole family both sides. Keep your girl to meet your mum for pretty much say hi/goodbye.

>>18302126
this is gonna happen. your relationship will end because of your mother. just a forewarning.

>>18302089
let her meet your mum
when your mum becomes a bitch look at your girlfriend and say "that's why i didn't want you to meet my mum" and look at your mum and say "we're leaving now"
get up and leave.
prepare your gf to this scenario so she won't think it's her fault.
if you mum acts out you can tell her off and tell her you don't accept being treated like that and therefore you don't want to be in her company anymore

My dude, I have been in your position. What you need to do is sit your gf down for a serious talk. Get her in the right mindset to take what you are telling her seriously, then tell her about your mom. Don't be flippant or vague. Tell her exactly how your mother treats you and how it hurts you. I'm assuming your mom isn't a big part of your life, so explain that to her as well. There's no reason for her to meet this woman if she's not going to be around. If you plan on inviting her to the wedding or letting her see your future children you're going to have to bite the bullet at some point, but otherwise just make it clear that your mother is nothing to you and meeting her will only be painful.

>>18303644
This... tell her that it would be extremely painful. If she contests that you're a big guy, say "for you".