My wife recently told me that she's becoming more sexually

>>18301723
Change it up. Throw in some kinks. Piss on her if you need to.

It's not rocket science. She's just gotten bored of the same old routine.

Try to get her into suggestion-giving instead of pure criticism. She should be telling you what she wants. How are we supposed to know what she wants?

She recently discovered the problem but haven't yet summarize or come up with an solutions yet. Or she doesn't understand why she feels that way.
Yes we can change it up. But only to a certain extent. Both of us are kinda insecure and don't want to get other people involved sexually, because at least I'm afraid lose each other in the process.

It seems teally simple: fuck her more and better.

What you do in bed? My first relationship I only had missionary and didn't push for variation, so I can count on one hand the times we did doggy and she blowed me. I don't need to say it didn't go far...

>>18301747
>don't want to bring other people in and lose each other
in this social paradigm, at least, that seems like a good thing.

>we don't know what to do
you two are sexually healthy, then you both fantacize and watch porn. Neither of you should be at any kind of shortage of ideas.

We do different positions and use different toys and vibrators. It seems like the only thing she enjoys are those toys. Is it an addiction? Is that such a thing?

>>18301723
Buy one of those vibrators with a fast spinning top. That should solve the orgasm issue. - Use it with her.

I should say the only way she gets off are using toys. What if my peanis is not enjoyable or not big enough for her anymore?

>>18301798
>>18301803
>we tried vanilla sex in different positions
>can a person be addicted to vibrators?
you're sounding dumb

you gotta expand your mindscape

try acid

>>18301798
Have you tried different situations? This shit ain't alway just about what goes on in the bedroom, a lot of it's also about what's going on outside of it.

This sounds doubly true if you've got two toddlers arround and don't have much time for date nights, vacations, and what not.

There are definitely alot of things going on outside of our bedroom. We are exhausted after work but still have to manage to put up with the kids. We are trying to be more involved with our community and church. Her new job is taking off. She's trying to lose pregnant weigh, so she has been working out super hard. She is also trying weigh loss products. I know there are alot of things going on in the same time and I try to tell her that but she's a stubborn person and always like to try to do everything in the same time.
Maybe that's how we are losing touch of our intimate life like when we were dating.

We do have frequent babysitting and social times with friends and family. But sometime it just seems there's not enough time.
I can see it now that it's not all about sexual dissatisfaction. It may have something to do with life dissatisfaction maybe?
I mean we are well off financially and not in need of anything materially.

>>18301798
Only if sex is bad. Not trolling, my gf has had vibrators for like 90% of our relationship, and even though she blows up in orgasms with it, I usually bring it up much more often than her.

>>18301723
Tell the stupid bitch she's an ugly roastie that should learn how to masterbate. Also fuck off with your fuck pig problems you cuck.

>>18301723
Stop thinking about the quality of the sex and start thinking about ways to change up your behavior in regards to how you treat her and your children. Sex is 90% emotional and 10% physical. I knew this for a fact after I had sex with a girl who just got out of a relationship with someone who couldn't pivot in understanding her sexual drive, and I made her cum after only a minute. Which is crazy, because that was the first time I actually made a girl cum and it wasn't like I was doing anything crazy.

>Both of us are kinda insecure
Stop this shit. NOW. Focus on yourself more, find some sort of workout routine (don't invite your wife with you), build yourself up with some sort of strength so you can combat the insecurity, and find some type of male role-model for you to emulate.

If you don't answer this wake-up call, then your next one will be in the form of a divorce.

I encourage you to read a book called No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover.