The kind of men I attract aren't attractive to me, so when

You don't. You become attractive to those who attract you

Be pragmatic about sex. Only have it when you really want to (negative experiences won't necessarily help your desire), be forward about what you expect (like through assertive dirty talk about what you want him to do to you), do everything you can once things get heated to focus on what you do like about him/the experience, try to give it an honest shot.

Or/and you could do everything you can to attract different man. Step up grooming/make up, style, flirting/approaching people... if there's still room for growth anywhere.

>>18301156
Go to /lgbt/ for this question. They will have more experience with this then here

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>>18301156
Being a woman sucks. You are not in control of what kind of men you like. First accept that. You are a slave to your emotions. Sorry. Dating some dude you don't like isn't doing anyone any favors.
After you accept that you can work on what you can change. Yourself. Men are visual. If you want to attract the kind of guys you are attracted to you are going to have to lose weight, dress nice, wear makeup, and flirt a little. And show some cleavage if you got it. Those are your weapons, use em.
Its not rocket science. Men are super fucking easy.

>>18301213
>Implying there are women online
>pretending anyone cares about your opinion

>>18301177
> once things get heated

The thing is things never get heated, for me at least.