Hey /adv/, a girl I had been dating for a year broke up with

>>18300492
>getting led on or used
How? Details?

>>18300530
Girls flirting back and then when I make a move them saying they'd rather be friends, or having someone flirt with me to make another person jealous.

>>18300567
We call it having bad luck. Keep trying boy (or lower your standards) and eventually you wil suceed.

And buy condoms.

>>18300567

That's not really being used, sorry. Get over it

the first guy i ever asked out accepted me. get gud

You could be getting used. Or, you could be sensitive to it, there both possible in every new encounter.

The best you can do is trust your judgement, but try not to dig up the past too much

It's because you're getting picked up by them, instead of the other way around. Make life improvements and go after girls, instead of getting gotten by them. Understand?

>>18300567

Thats what girls do. They flirt with varying degrees with you to get attention to feed their own ego. You've just gotta learn:
A - Which ones are doing it more
and
B - When you idrntify shes attention whoring you, give absolutely NOTHING back to her. If you have her on snapchat, don't reply unless you really need to. Don't initiate conversations. Talk about other girls you've "been with" and just make them realise that you can see what they are doing and move onto a new victim.

Good luck, its a hard world Anon