It's been a year and a half since my gf died in a car crash, and I'm still pretty mad at the girl who was driving.
How do I let go?
literally just gotta keep going. Im really sorry to heat about it anon but you need to not be chained to your past.
>>18298582
Define ''still pretty mad''. Is it just a small recurring thought or are you so pissed that you can't function normally? If it's the former, don't worry about it as it'll probably fix itself with time. If it's the former, counseling is the way to go.
>crash
>driver doesn't die
>passenger does
10/10 mad
>>18298582
You will only know peace when your your bathing in that murderes blood. Good hunting friend.
>>18298582
Don't think of it as a lost. You had your time. World is always changing. Enjoy what you have when you have it.
>>18298603
I know it was an accident, but I find it really hard to forgive her.
>>18298582
What were you going to marry her? It's just a GF who you probably were going to break up with and she would become just another person.
Maybe realize she did not want this outcome. She will be scared for the rest of her life. She will always have the permanent stain upon psyche. Even if she is a psychopath, this still weighs heavily upon people. She will probably suffer for the rest of her life for what she did. And do you think she wanted this? She was being careless. One god dam mistake. Young fucking stupidity. Now two parents are grieving over a dead child. A boyfriend is broken inside. Unimaginable suffering exist as the result of her actions. Do you know what that does to a person? She wishes she died instead. But she didn't. We all have to live with that. And frankly that burden of responsibility, knowing what if. What if I drove more carefully. What if I slowed down, or stopped at that stop sign properly. That burden man. If she is suffering it's much worse than you. Let her bear that cross without you making it worse. She has to forgive herself, she has to move on in life. It's fucking hard man you don't need to make it harder. If she escapes you don't need to bring her back in. It's not up to you.
>>18298582
End the driver's life. Blow her up.