Am I morally obligated to end a relationship if I realise that

>>18297581
You are morally encourage to be honest with them if you feel there is a disparity. If after understanding how you feel they are still taking it too far where you feel uncomfortable, then yes you may have to break it off.

>>18297585
This.

>>18297585
It's not that I'm uncomfortable, I really like talking to her casually like we have so far, but I keep getting the vibe she's seeing or expecting more of this than she lets on.

>>18297592
>I really like talking to her casually like we have so far, but I keep getting the vibe she's seeing or expecting more of this than she lets on.

Well if you aren't a "couple" then let it alone and if she pushes for more and becomes direct about it tell her you aren't interested

BUT

Women will want a reason why. Most anyway. They, like most folks will take it as rejection and it will hurt their feelings.

If being honest about why may hurt her feelings then try to find a way to softball it. How depends on who you and she are really.

>>18297594
Well I'm a 23-year-old drunk dumbass and she's just turned 18 this year and is a dumbass on account of being an 18-year-old girl. We met through mutual friends and have been talking casually but she keeps dropping hints now that she's got some kind of a crush on me.

>>18297603
>she keeps dropping hints now that she's got some kind of a crush on me.

So why won't you date her and see where it goes?

>>18297606
Because I know where it's going to go. It won't go anywhere.

>>18297617
>Because I know where it's going to go. It won't go anywhere.
Ok that's another issue. That's a problem with you and how you feel and yes if you are the type to push people away then end it now and talk to someone a bout it. A therapist or counselor.

You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.

I kinda suspected when you called yourself a dumbass.

>>18297622
This girl has never had a boyfriend before and if having crushes looks the same the other way around as it does the way I've had it, she's thinking my lives-in-a-fucking-cave-drinking-boxed-wine-naked ass is some kind of a prince charming and I don't see that working out very well for either of us.

And I don't love her in any kind of way. Like she's cute in that hobbit-y kind of way but her opinions on stuff are really simple and one-sided and she thinks you're trying to argue if you try to explain her the other half of the matter.

>>18297648
Ok so you don't like her or yourself. Yeah end it.

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Help!

I have the exact same problem. Vice versa. Girl clearly wants me, but she's scared off since I take things too seriously. She also told I am not that confident she wish me to be, and I think I am slowly fucking things up. Basically, she told me to "man up". After that, I became even more nervous as I took it as some kind of "condition".

What do I do? How to calm myself?