Hello, /adv/! Long time no see. It happened that I'd had

>>18296854
Just to make sure I have this straight:
You asked her out twice, she said no.
She got annoyed you didn't talk to her.
She made out with you.
She told you to fuck off (is this out of the blue, or did you do something stupid?)
She gets needy and tries to guilt you into talking to her again.

Based on what you've said, you should drop the bitch. Affection then rejection is a manipulation tactic. Not saying that's necessarily what she's doing, but be careful. Sounds like she's fucking you around though. Be assertive, or gtfo of there

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We are still chatting randomly, she says she somewhat miss me and wants to see me IRL. All these days we chatted she told me that I am not ready, I take things too seriously. She knows I am pretty nervous person. I didn't reveal to her, I think I still don't know why did she agree and how does she endure everything. Two days ago she asked me what are my troubles and complexes. I asked her why she even finds that interesting, getting an answer that it interests her pretty much now. I told her I am constantly worried about everything, not assertive enough, etc. She told that everything is basically good and she likes everything but the fact I am indecisive.
"You know, I am getting older while you are that indecisive. I am STILL waiting for something, and you ignore every blatant hint". I answered that I don't understand, but I understand my indecisiveness is a thing that should be fixed. She asked if I even understand what happens between us. "It's certainly not a friendship, because friends won't ever immediately take clothes off. You have to do something as a man, that's how life works. There must be a resolute, decisive move, either we're friends or we're going forward." I said that we're probably going forward.
>it shouldn't be like explanatory talk
>"yes" "no" "yes" "no"
>seems like I dictate everything
>that's a bullshit and unpleasant
>"going forward?" - "yeah"
>"let's have sex?" - "yeah"
>that's why i say you are not ready
>nothing is worse than that
>it's your love life, you have a girl, you are attracted to her
>decide what you want and act, doesn't matter how and why, these are not my troubles

I can't relax. My low self-esteem kills me, right fucking now. I don't know what to do. It would seem pretty obvious from this point, but I feel that I will always be that indecisive boy and turn woman I like off.

What do I do?

>>18296854
There is nothing strange about her behavior of suddenly hitting you up. You got on your hands what we like to call a slut. She missed the constant attention and the validation it brought her so she decided to reel you back in. All this behavior is standard of a subhuman woman that manipulates a man she knows she can. She is only doing this because she knows she can get away with and it brings her entertainment.

Cut this girl off completely. Don't know exactly what your situation is but it seems you don't have too many women hitting you up so you're a bit desperate and willing to put up with her shit. Block every form of communication with this girl now. It's gonna suck not having her attention but this pain is only temporary and short term. This is a small price to pay compared to the extreme mindfuck she will run on you if you continue talking with her. It will only get worse the more time you spend with her so cut if off now. She doesn't care about you. She treats you like shit. She never cared about you.

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>>18296874
>She told you to fuck off (is this out of the blue, or did you do something stupid?)

She was particularly mad because her parents left for a weekend and she had to help her younger siblings and guests, 24/7, eastern traditions and shit. I think I did something stupid, the main reason was that I don't reciprocate her messages after I read it immediately, sort of retiring in my shell. She writes, like, fucking 200-300 word messages, waiting for my answer. I receive her message, then receive "this fucker is silent AGAIN". As I said, she might have felt unwanted at that point, later she told me that.

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>>18296874
>You asked her out twice, she said no.

She told that she had to, for reasons. For first time she had a weekend trip with parents, so I haven't seen her for a week. Second time she had to meet guests. Also, she lives in a deep shithole and the only day we could make out was a particular day of the week, since our classes were at the another part of the town, exactly where I live.

She also added I must've gotten mad as well.
We still plan on having sex next week, though.

>>18296913
It's quite hard to have an objective viewpoint.
Ask you're friends, or people who are familiar with your situation. If your friends think she's manipulating you, leave.