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Hey guys its my first time on this board and i dont have nobody else who i can ask for advice so here it goes
>24yo virgin
>Moved into a flat i'm sharing with 5 prople
>One girl sends real obvious signals she wants me
> Fastforward 2 weeks we're laying in bed watching a movie
>Fulll on boner under the sheets for 2 straight hours
>I eventually brush up on her tits etc
>Foreplay for like 15mins
>Boner completely gone
>Cant get it up but made her cum with my fingers
>Teo days later she wants to go again
>Foreplay she's wet as fuck
>Still no boner its almost as if i'm not doing anything sexual
>I just cant get into the zone
>Made her cum twice
>She tells me about her experience and how she invited two guys over once etc
>Got kinda grossed out but i dont want a relationship so its ok
>I tell her to blow me
>I get hard
>She gets on top i lose it in a few secs
>Shes visibly upset
>I am also upset with myself and feel like a little bitch
>I made her cum twice so i'm thinking maybe she can atleast blow me and finish me off as well
>She doesnt want to
>Her stories about how she loves dominant guys and being manhandled makes this way worse because i cant even be man enough to get it up
>She eventually just turns around without saying a word and falls asleep
>I take my clothes and fuck off back into my room because it felt really bad laying next to her
what the fuck guys
I didnt tell her that i had no experience but its not even like i am too nervous because i can get hard when she turns me on a lot. While blowing me for example.
I'm really stressed out i cant even eat properly i hope the things i wrote make sense.
I dont want to tell her i have no exoerience because i am way down the rabbit hole to pull that shit off
She said it hurt her ego but what would really fuck me up would be if she thinks i'm not a man and just finds another dick
I dont mind her being a slut because thats what she is but the thought of me not being man enough is what really worries me
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>>18296847
Yea I don't know why the fuck girls tell guys of their past sexual experiences. It has happened to me a few times and always makes me feel grossed out and I want to bounce.
Sounds like you're feeling pretty nervous so you can't get a full chub. Stop jerking off and this should help. Was this completely sober? Maybe having a few drinks would loosen you up although you may not want to rely on this strategy long term. Try getting more comfortable around her so your nervousness isn't so strong.
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>>18296853
>>18296853
how do i get more comfortable?i dont know if she's interested in spending time together. It seems like she just thinks i'm an attractive guy she wants to get destroyed by
And i cant live up to that shit
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>>18296863
I lost my virginity to a woman who was so unattractive that I had to purge her from my memory. I know this isn't the same situation you're in but throwing away my virginity did make sex meaningless to me. This has had horrible consequences on my current and past relationships with women.
I'm not saying that you should be in love. Do what you want with your virginity. I think that you might want to choose your first girl a bit more carefully. I know that being a virgin sucks dick especially when you start getting older but don't be in a rush. Go and meet a girl you actually care for. Take the time to develop a real relationship of substance with her and I don't think you'll have this problem. Sometimes your dick looks out for you. If it doesn't want to get hard it might be a subconscious warning that's meant to help.
If after all this you still want to smash this broad then like I said stop jerking off and try using alcohol. If you still find it difficult and can't be comfortable around her then use viagra.
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>>18296847
as far as the erection problems: you're not used to a real person and all the unique stimulus they provide, you will learn to get hard
additional piece of possible unwanted advice: don't fuck her just because you can and you're a virgin. you will regret it when you realise having sex once changes NOTHING. this won't even give you a story to tell to friends/future partners. you were basically instructed to fuck a slut? hardly impressive.
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>>18296847
>Her stories about how she loves dominant guys and being manhandled makes this way worse because i cant even be man enough to get it up
If you are not having fun, then stop. Why stress over fucking sex? It's supposed to be the opposite of that. Chill, don't fap, and if you can't do it, be man enough to walk away.
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>>18296847
How the fuck do you people live in dormitories you whole life?
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