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I'm 23 and decided to be a high school teacher for a year

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I'm 23 and decided to be a high school teacher for a year (not going to continue with this job). Problem is that I'm romantically interested in one of the (not my) slightly underage students.

I'm well educated and have no problem getting girls my own age, but we've just been into each other fore a while. For the entire year I have been questioning whether I should ask her out or not. I feel like if I don't ask her out I may be missing out on a wonderful romantic partner (despite all the logistical issues that would come with dating her), but if I do ask her out, I may face ostracism from friends and a potential legal hassle (even though I would actually wait the couple of months until she is legal to have sex with her).

Have any of you ever been in a similar situation or able to give me any advice on this? I could really use some input.
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Ayyy. Right or wrong, I don't think there's any coming back after labeling yourself a pedo in everyone else's eyes.
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>>18295611
Say hello to Bubba. And get ready for a 12 inch black dick in your ass.


I'm implying you're going to prison for screwing a minor.
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>>18295621
She's seventeen and three quarters years old. I can wait a couple of months, and wouldn't likely go to prison
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>>18295627
Say goodbye to any prospects of working as a teacher though
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>>18295633
>>18295633
this

you get caught fucking the students ==== career over. weigh your life options with your dick OP.
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>>18295633
I don't plan on being a teacher after this year
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Plan on losing your teaching license, having a felony record, and be a registered sex offender. This will make your life not so easy and she'll stick with you through all that? Right?
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>>18295611
>being so mentally damaged you find 17 year olds attractive and can relate to them enough to want to date them as a 23 year old
wew OP you got issues
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>>18295638
>>18295643
see>>18295639
or>>18295611
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Don't do it
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>>18295656
see
>This will make your life not so easy and she'll stick with you through all that? Right?
Why fuck up your life for something that isn't going to work out anyway?
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>>18295627
Right there.

You clearly have your mind made up. Good luck to your future.
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>>18295611

>give me any advice on this?

Immediately stop teaching and never step into a classroom again.

This has nothing to do with the age difference and everything to do with the fact that parents are sending their children to school in the hopes that the teachers who have been put in charge of their children will use their positions of power and influence to make these kids better people and give them the tools to succeed in life.

You would be violating the very institution of education and the truth that the parents and students have put in you and using your position of influence to put your dick into an impressionable, vulnerable child; a child that you were supposed to be teaching and molding, not fucking. A school is supposed to be a safe place for children.

You're a giant piece of shit. If you had met this girl on the street I would still be very hesitant of you and your actions but this is inexcusable. Using your position and influence as a teacher to turn your school into a hunting grounds for your sexual interests makes you a grade A, 100% USDA approved slab of shitmeat.
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>>18295611
Please ignore
>how you just so happen to know her
>her looks. Fuck, imagine that she's fugly
Now let's look into her.
Is she still worth it?

What I'm trying to say is that the only way it's f'in worth it is if she's an amazing person. Oh, and that you guys actually have meaningful shit in common.
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>>18295611
go back to /b/
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>>18295699
>Immediately stop teaching and never step into a classroom again.
Fair

>This has nothing to do with the age difference and everything to do with the fact that parents are sending their children to school in the hopes that the teachers who have been put in charge of their children will use their positions of power and influence to make these kids better people and give them the tools to succeed in life.
Not mutually exclusive with what might go down here.

>You would be violating the very institution of education and the truth that the parents and students have put in you and using your position of influence to put your dick into an impressionable, vulnerable child; a child that you were supposed to be teaching and molding, not fucking. A school is supposed to be a safe place for children.
Rareified air. Have you seen a high school?

>You're a giant piece of shit. If you had met this girl on the street I would still be very hesitant of you and your actions but this is inexcusable. Using your position and influence as a teacher to turn your school into a hunting grounds for your sexual interests makes you a grade A, 100% USDA approved slab of shitmeat.

Can't deny this. OP let the high school boys have the high school girls, it's unfair competition and you won't be able to love this girl like a boy her age can.
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>>18295611
Welp here it is.

>high school tutor
>students annoying but overall chill. Youngest instructor at school
>student is quiet so talk to her more to get her to open up
>CAUGHT FEELS WTF
>text at night, talk in class and see her at clubs
>exposed by gay student who was crushing on me
>no longer a tutor but since nice guy not in jail

I got lucky OP. Don't do it man. I'm telling you. You'll be so ashamed when you get caught. Seppuku on the beach lvs
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>>18295611
If I was her I'd date you - dump you - call the police - sue you and the school for $5million. She'll get the cash and you'll be a jail house cock whore covered in sperm.
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>>18295627
What state you in nigga? In some places 17 is legal with consent. Don't play yourself though you gotta be precise and take it to an out of school environment. If what you say is true it should be a walk in the park
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Don't.

Just fucking don't you goddamn kiddie diddler.
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>>18295611

You could avoid all problems by waiting until she graduates, but ask yourself: can any good come of this?
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>>18295611
>I'm well educated
>We've just been into each other fore a while
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>>18295652
this

>I'm well educated and have no problem getting girls my own age
fucking kek
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>>18295611
Fucking an 18 year old straight out of high school is on my sexual bucket list. Go for it, OP. Do it for us.
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>>18295639
Sounds like your doing it for the thrill.
Keep it a fantasy and focus on your future careers
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>>18295611
Not associating with students outside of the classroom is probably part of your contract, so I'd recommend you wait until you're done there to keep things from blowing up on you.

All these people freaking out and calling you a cradle robber are brain damaged, though.
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>>18295611

Teacher here, aged 30. Gonna be the good cop, but still tell you not to do it, OP.

In Canada and the US, maybe even the UK, teacher's are legally obligated to be "positive role models." That's subjective, and so it can hurt you in any way people can imagine. It's bullshit, but that's what you signed up for - you would have learned this while getting your bED.

Louis C.K. said it best in his SNL skit, talking about how good little boy's taste to pedophiles: good enough to risk EVERYTHING. I get how it's different when a cute, attractive student expresses how much she wants you. That's fucking frustrating and I don't think anything can prepare a male teacher for that. Even when you close those figurative doors, you still feel like a jackass for lost opportunity. Biology is cruel, and it sucks that male teachers walk into the job without realizing that this is the kind of shit they'll have to face. Most men understand the risk, which is likely why male teachers are fewer in number. It's just a bad scenario to dumb yourself.

Jerk it to teacher/student fantasies on youporn until your brain is redpilled. Then, mark dem papers, faggot.
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don't ask her out, don't even FLIRT until 1) you are not a teacher anymore and 2) she is 100% legal. people will still probably think you're fucked up but if you do this shit you'll be ok. at my all girls school we had a 23 year old teacher that started going out with graduated students after he left the school and everyone thought it was weird and the gossip spread like wildfire but it wasn't criminal
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>>18295627
Isn't age of consent usually lower than age of majority?

Anyway, even if she's 18, so long as you're a faculty member, it might violate some school policies and even laws, because you're in a position of power.

Just wait until you're not teaching anymore, then go nuts.

22 here. Not a teacher obvs (uni student), but the other day, I was practicing photography, and I came across these cute girls and asked to snap a photo of them. One of them was super cute. But then I found out she was in high school (not even graduating year, but a sophmore... jeez, she looked mature for her age). I was so tempted to ask for her digits anyway, but I was like, yeah, no, probably not a good idea. So I just went on.

Slightly regret it, though. I mean, it's not weird for a 22-year-old to hang out with younger people as friends. Maybe I could have just been friends with her.
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Its may. Can you not wait a couple if weeks?
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>>18295699
>impressionable, vulnerable child
>17/18 year olds
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>>18295699
Rip OP
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>>18295611
See you on the news, dude.
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>>18299629
are you serious?
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>>18295611
>I'm well educated

Stop kidding yourself.
If you were, you wouldn't have to be asking this question.
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>>18295611
How did you become a hs teacher? Do you have a bachelors ? Associates?
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>>18300166
Hey leave anon alone, he just turned 19 and is definitely a mature adult now!
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>>18295611
Lol @ this thread.

Look in the grand scheme of things it's probably not the end of the world morally being attracted to a seventeen year old but seriously considering pursuing her is incredibly stupid and could end poorly for obvious reasons.
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Make sure she doesn't stand so close to you.

Also, stop and wait. No fresh snatch is worth the career and possible jail time.
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I'm also gonna play good cop.

As someone who is attracted to girls in the 15-18 range (along with girls my own age), that had an interest in education, I had to be honest with myself that it is not the environment I should be in. I'm a pretty attractive guy that relates well to younger people, and that would be a very dangerous line for me to even get close to. This girl may seem mature, but trust me, she doesn't know what she wants in life yet. College and the magic age of 21 still haven't come for her, where people undergo a huge shift in personality. You're past that and are in many senses the person you are going to be for your adult life.

You don't want the social stigma, man. It's not worth it.
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>>18300693
Honestly, it's pretty fucking normal to be attracted to girls in the 15-18 range. A lot of girls by that age are basically adults, physically. 16 is the age of consent in a lot of places. I'M NOT SAYING IT'S OKAY TO FUCK YOUR STUDENTS IF YOU'RE A TEACHER, or that it's cool to have sex with teenagers if you're an adult in general, but I think almost all dudes are at least passively attracted to some girls in their mid-teens. It's certainly not pathological.
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>>18300702

Yeah I've pretty much accepted that I'm not totally insane, but that talking about it is not acceptable and some people are going to insist you're a pedo. People throw around that term all the time - like the people who won't call a girl that is 17 years and 364 days old hot, but at 12:01 AM on her birthday will say she's suddenly the hottest chick in the world.

Or women that will call guys pedos for thinking a 20 year old hot when they're 30. It's a shitty term that ignores the REAL pedophiles.
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OP better not do anything while he's still a teacher. Even if she might be legal by the time he takes action, its still against the law as it's considered Abuse of Authority. Stop being horny and just wait until after.
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>>18295611
I'm in a similar situation. All I'll say is as long as she's legal and no longer at your school everything is legal.
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Don't do it op, if you get callex a pedo once you're a pedo for life. Tell me, is screwing a student at your school, even if she's 18, worth a life of sorrow? If you do and it gets out that you did you will never work again. Stop thinking with your shaft and use your head.
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>>18300658
Its not the morals that are the issue, there's nothing wrong with an 18 year old and 23 year old having sex, the problem is that it would be a teacher student relationship. Everyone will think OP is a pedo even though she's 18.
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>>18295627
If you wait you won't go to prison but your reputation will certainly go in the shitter.
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>>18301560
>get callex a pedo once you're a pedo for life.
I went to high school with some kid who fucked some like 15 year old when he was 18. Not everyone knows the whole story, and probably thinks he fucked some like 12 year old or something, but he's been labelled a pedo for the past 15 years. Last I heard his life was awful.
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>>18301579
>your reputation will certainly go in the shitter.

Bull shit. Most guys would high five him if he could nail an 18 year old fresh out of high school. And most girls would secretly want to fuck him thinking he has something good if an 18 year old wants him.
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