Mother got emotional and told me I had no consideration for her

Fuck, I'm the youngest too and most likely gonna be the last one to move out. I have no idea how my moms gonna handle it since she's like your mom where her only "hobby" or the only thing she does is think about her kids (she's a widow as well) I'm so fucking scared of this type of shit happening to me.

>>18295203
The fuck I'm 24 and don't talk to my mom or sisters for months on end and they don't get all hissy

>>18295210

Glad to know I'm not alone but sorry to hear that as well.

Probably since you're the youngest and in college, she feels like all her kids are going to move out. It's a good idea to understand where she's coming from, and she's not doing this to attack you. That being said, it's YOUR birthday. You get to decide what you want to do on your birthday, so don't feel guilty for wanting to go out with your friends.

>>18295232

the problem is that one of my sisters takes her side and I don't exactly want family drama. So I'll probably just cave in.

>>18295203
this is emotional manipulation, you need to tell her this isn't ok and that it can't continue

It seems pretty clear what the root of her behavior is given what you've said. It makes sense, so it's best to be understanding, and sure, make some sacrifices for her. But it also is something you should probably talk to her about and explain your side on. You shouldn't stand for or believe any blatant BS she says, cause her bias is so clear.

OP here.

I think I'll let this one slide and apologize. If she pushes the subject any further, I'll cut it from the root right off.

>>18295377
Grow a pair nigga damn

>>18295402

It's not grow a pair, It's a delicate situation and I want what's best for her. I'm not gonna shut her down. Besides, I just wanted some confirmation I wasn't wrong