Hey /adv/, here's the predicament I'm in:
One of my really close friends just broke up with his girlfriend. I don't particularly know why but I know he was the one to cut things off. So, last night she started chatting me up. We small talked for a bit and then she asked if I want to come over her house tonight. I'm not sure if it will even lead to anything serious but it's a big possibility. So, should I go for it and possibly lose a good friendship /adv/? Could I just keep it secret if it ends up that way? Should I tell him first? She's really chill btw and I have some feelings for her.
>>18294103
Well how much do you value your friendship with him ? If you don't care, do it.
But if you care, tell him before hand, it won't turn out ok tout keep it secret , ans you know it
>>18294103
At the end of the day, it's your life and you have to look out for you. He broke up with her, she's looking for comfort. Hang out with her and take it as far as it feels comfortable. If you're going for something more rather than just sex, reject her advances gently and tell her you think she should be in a better place before she makes a decision like that.
>So, should I go for it and possibly lose a good friendship /adv/?
No. How is that even a question? She's either going to complain at you about her failed relationship or she's trying to get back at him by fucking his close friend. If you're that desperate to get your dick wet get an escort. Because that's the most you'll achieve there, you won't start a beautiful relationship with that girl or anything like that.
A trick is not worth the cost of a friendship you pawn
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