I can't stop crying over her my guys, what can I do to take

>>18293902

It sucks, we've all been there. My advice is to just let it all out, put a movie on, go for a walk, reflect and cry about it, allow yourself time to grieve. With the coming weeks and months you will bounce back to 100%. Mark my words.

>>18293902
Thank you man, I'll do what I can. It's just been eating me up the past few weeks :/

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>>18293910

Yeah it does that, I'm about 8 months past your situation now and I've met a new girl and I'm doing better than I ever have, it does get better. The best thing I did for myself is allowed myself time to grieve, I took some long walks by myself to just clear my head and be sad. That feeling of love dissipates, it truly is just a chemical addiction to that person, all thats left now is a vague "I hope they are doing well" feeling and respect for what you guys once shared. But all of that can and will be replaced with someone new and (hopefully) better. Once you feel those butterflies with a new girl again down the line you will be glad with how everything played out that led you to that new moment.

>>18293910

There's comfort in knowing this happens to the vast majority of people, its a part of life. And as cliche as it sounds it does build character, how you handle yourself during this time will allow future you to be proud.

>>18293902
Why? Whats so special about her you cannot stop?

>>18293925

Thats a stupid question, nothing OP says is going to convince you she is special, its a subjective experience of love.

>>18293902
Been there, done that. People = shit.

>>18293902
Listen to For no one by the Beatles

>>18293925
Throughout all of my other relationships I felt like I was just going through the motions and just existing along side another person because it was beneficial for the both of us. But this girl was different, for the first time ever I understood what it felt like to love and understand someone. I finally understood all those sappy love songs. But now all I'm left with is this bitter unsavoury taste in my mouth. Everything I think about seems to have something to do with her. I am completely and utterly infatuated with her

>>18293937
I've been listening to tonnes of Beatles songs recently, they normally help me get through times like this :)

>>18293942
Listen to I'll be back Beatles cover by Elliot smith then

>>18293948
Okay I'll give it a look now

Reminds me of patience by Guns N' Roses

>>18293928
Its not for me, its for him.
>>18293940
Well if she doesn't care anymore why do you?

>>18293955
The situation is more complicated then that man. I'm 17, and her family moved away and so she did to. We both still care but she seems to be distancing herself from me even if I'm just trying to be friendly, and that's what's really getting to me man

>>18293962
>I'm 17
Ahaha ahah ha
Cut all talk until you see her irl or just forget it
Ldd will never work, proximity is key

>>18293964
Yes I understand what your saying man, the laughter was a tad hurtful but that doesn't change how I feel my guy