>former neet >mum threatens to kill me if I don't

So simple. Move out. Sont tell them. Just do it. Leave a note saying

>i moved to such and such address
>didnt tell you to avoid you blocking me from doing what i want.
>its too late now, im living here. Deal with it.
>if you want to talk call me or come to my new place...please dont ague with me, my decision is final.

You fucking leave or remain a NEET forever. It's going to be a long hard road, but I don't think it's anywhere near as hard as what you're already doing, in the long term.

If your mom is really threatening to kill you that also sounds extremely dysfunctional. I also had extremely controlling and dysfunctional parents growing up and one of the ways I learned to care for myself was to learn to parent myself. That involved therapy and reading up on ACoA (Adult Children of Alchoholics). Even if your mom is or is not an alcoholic, dysfunction will produce the exact same symptoms as if she was.

That's basically the how-to of how to put your life back together, anon.

>>18292496
I'm trying to save up now but its difficult

>>18292507
excuses excuses

>>18292491
Obey them until you have stable job and can afford to move out.

You are an adult. Nobody can force you to stay inside.

Start with getting job. Easy.

>>18292519
The only fast way out is enlistment, I have to start somewhere.

>>18292537
>easy

>>18292496
don't even tell them where your going, say your moving out and that you will contact them when you feel comfortable