girlfriend of 1 year cheated on me, should I care? I don't

>>18288237
so what's the problem then, soldier?
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>>18288315
I dont know, should I feel weird? this girl thinks im going to marry her and I did have serious feels for her long ago but she's not marriage material at all.

>>18288321
well as long as everyone knows what's what, don't wind her up with false promises of marriage, mind. anyways, it's not for much longer.

>>18288326
I'm not promising marriage, she just thinks I am. She thinks I'm going to keep her around when I leave when I'm not.


is it bad that I don't care about her feelings like that? i mean she's pretty stupid ( like barely passed GE courses in college ), smokes and is a cheater so yeah. At one point, I did but the more I got to know her the more I realize she wasn't marriage material or even close. I just tolerate her basically.

>>18288373
your morals are your own affair, big boy.

>>18288373
I'd like to point out that I'm not a dick to her or anything, I treat her with respect but I just can't marry someone like her. I'm going to tell her a couple weeks before i ship out.

no one's judging you here.

Well to me it seems like any sort of relationship with a person you so clearly have no attachment to, despise, and think poorly of AND cheated on you would not be worth the reliable sex. At that point I would think a goddamn pocket pussy would be preferable not to mention just going out and fucking other people you don't hate.

Also, you're going on and on about all the bad shit about her and not marrying her and how she thinks you will so much that it is making it pretty clear you're way more bothered than you're letting on.

But anyway like other anons said, do what you want so long as you don't lead her on.

You both sound like assholes.
Please get sterilized before someone gets retarded ideas and drags an anchor/"oops" child into the mix.

>>18288237
thats probably the reason she cheated dumb ass

>>18288917
This.
Take your loss and move on OP. Maybe someone better will come along but you're better off focusing on the military as of now.

>>18288373
>she just thinks I am
she thinks you are stupid so keep hate fucking her for 3 months and when you leave cut contact and never see the cunt again.

I couldn't imagine being with someone that long and regularly having sex, and not feeling something for her even if she was kind of scummy. Like it's literally impossible for me to imagine. You must have a heart of stone.

>>18289292
did you miss the part she cheated on OP? OP needs to punt this cunt

>>18288326
i would say fuck this guy, she cheated on you and betrayed your trust. do what ever you want with her, just give the next one a fresh start and dont treat her bad because of this one.

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>>18288237

Your girlfriend treated you with as little respect and consideration as you've treated her.

I don't see what there is to discuss here.

if you fucking can, keep fucking her and fuck other chicks on these 3 moths that you are going in the military.
Dump her when you leave, it will be better that way because you will have your mind full of things to think and your body full of things to do that you'll won't bother getting bugged about that bitch.
PS: 3 months on the military can do "ahem" -
"forget" - people with a concussion, amnesia caused by impact...
So when she talks to you again when you come back just pretend that you don't know her and don't like her attitude, forget that has a place in your head, don't let her come in your life again

Dude, you know it's not OK to just use your girlfriend for sex for a few months while pretending to actually care about her. And yes, you're misleading her - through omission, even if you've never directly lied to her. You know what she thinks, you know that she's wrong, and you're deliberately letting her think that.

Her cheating on you doesn't make it okay. That's fifth grader logic. "She started it!" "Now we're even." No. Fuck that. Don't be a fifth grader. It's not okay to do something shitty to somebody just because they did something shitty to you. It just makes you shitty as well.

You fucking KNOW it's not okay. You just don't care.

>>18288237
>Just used her for sex
>Got sex
I'm not sure where the problem for you is. It's not a betrayal of trust, because trust requires respect (and vice versa) and you apparently have none for her. It's not that she's exposed you to the risk of STIs without your knowledge, because you're also considering one night stands as a replacement for her. It's not that she stopped having sex with you, or else you would have just gotten bored and moved on instead of getting angry.

Unless you can figure out one good reason why you should give a shit, just continue to fuck her as normal.