My girlfriend and I have been living together for 4 years now. We just recently signed a lease for a year, and adopted a pet.
I can't stand her. Everything she does bothers me, and she is incredibly boring. If I don't provide something for the both of us, she just sits on her phone and browses the internet until I suggest something. She has no hobbies, no creative outlets, and no education. She doesn't party, doesnt do anything but dab and reddit and work a dead end job. Her only conversation is gossip about coworkers, and theres no ambition.
However, I'm not financially stable. I recently started a decent paying job and will be within a few months, but will still be on a lease with her for at least 6 more.
How to stay sane that long? I feel like I walk on egg shells every day around her, shes infatuated with me, and any time I bring up the slightest hint of our relationship coming to a close she starts to collapse. How to I not shatter this poor girls world?
I dont know if I'm asking for advice, it feels good to just get this out into the world and not just in my head.
At the end of the lease, dress up as Mickey Mouse, yelled in your highest pitched voice "I'M GOING TO DISNEYLAND", and hand her a treasure chest full of her possessions.
Break up my man. You might waste so many opportunities.
>>18287673
Can't you just ignore her and do what makes you happy? Go out to bars and find another mate in the meantime.
>>18287707
Thatd crush my current partner. And wouldn't that look bad to someone, that I'm willing to go behind my mates back? Its a type of sleaze i've not lived before.
ARE YOU ME?!
Also in this situation only shes fucked as well as boring. Addictive personality, escalates to violence quick, has pulled a knife one me and threatened to kill me, etc.
In my case she will be going back to her country next year so I just need to survive long enough to finally get rid of her.
>>18287949
Yikes friend, that intense. No, I'm not you, but people's lives are not as different as our minds say they are.
My girls kinda fucked, has serious daddy issues though. I see other guys really lusting for her, but I can't work up that same "fuck i want to do things to you" feeling, and I know that just puts a really weird vibe whenever we attempt to do things together.