My friend Bob is cheating on his girlfriend with my friend Jan.

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My friend Bob is cheating on his girlfriend with my friend Jan. Bob's a habitual cheater and has fucked a handful of girls while dating his girlfriend. Jan's only had one boyfriend before and only fucked him and Bob.

Jan starting hanging out with Bob's girlfriend and became friends with her, so now Jan feels like shit for fucking her friend's. She wanted to end things with Bob, told Bob that if he doesn't tell his girlfriend she would, but Bob said he is planning on breaking up with his girlfriend in 6 months when their lease runs out . Having known Bob for years and seen him cheat on his girlfriend several times, it's almost certain that he's got zero intention of breaking up with his girlfriend. I suspect he's just trying to buy enough time for Jan to lose interest in him so he can break it off without his girlfriend finding out.

Jan is naive enough to believe that if she can just wait, Bob will dump his girlfriend and they can be in a relationship.

So far, I've refrained from giving any advice on the situation, because I don't believe it's my place to. But, I don't want to see Jan get hurt, and as I realize more that she is actually entertaining the idea that Bob will dump his girlfriend for her and I know that she is only setting herself up to get hurt, I'm considering advising her that waiting it out is stupid and isn't going to work. She trusts my judgement enough that if I tell her that, I think she'll actually break things off.

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