How to win over a girl who lives in Korea and has a boyfriend?

You're white, right? Run while you can.

>>18284442
Go visit n korea and ask Kim Jong Un to be your wingman. Works everytime

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>>18284446
run from what? what am I missing?

>>18284456
how do I contact kim jung un?

if someone gives me his or the north koreans contact info I will legitimately ask them for advice and post proof

So you know how well their relationship is based on their instagrams?

Are you fucking stupid or just a sociopath.
This isn't bait right?

The only women who date guys (no matter how good looking) from out of country solely on their appearance are lonely whores or people looking for a sugar daddy.

>But honestly as far as I can tell... he is a good boyfriend. He changed his profile picture to a picture of her, he buys her roses and gifts all the time, he taught her to drive etc. and he genuinely seems to care.
Something is wrong with you, seriously.

>>18284457
Asian girls from Asia? Since you're so inclined to fuck some Asian girls, just date one in America (I'm assuming you live here.)

Real talk, though. Asian women are an absolute chore to date, and while generalizations suck, I've dated enough to come to this conclusion.

Good luck, I guess. I hope you get your dick wet, but don't get too caught up in some Asian girl's bullshit.

>>18284462
No I added on her facebook. The boyfriend has everything public on his facebook.

>Something is wrong with you, seriously.

whys that?

Who would learn an entire language just to get 1 girl is she really that special come on now

>>18284465
I live in a city full of FOBs, if all I cared about was dating some korean girl or a chinese girl that would be easy. I've already done it once.
This has nothing to do with her being korean, thats just happenstance. She's just extremely beautiful and intelligent and kind, and she's in a STEM field that she cares about .I just like her a lot.

Plus doesn't it seem racist to assume all asian girls are the same?

>>18284466
Are you fucking serious? What do you want from this girl anyway? Why are you idolizing her? Can't you just date a girl from your area?

Doesn't sound like you've ever had a girlfriend before and sounds like infatuation. You'll get over it.

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>>18284470
>is she really that special come on now

Usually I would say it's not worth it to learn a new language just for one person. But for me, if I can be with her. then it's worth it, definitely.

>>18284466
You're stalking her and her boyfriend (the fuck), and judging their relationship based on their social media posts.

I bang my girlfriend and shit but don't have her in any of my instagram pics, does that make me a bad boyfriend?

Something is wrong with you, just reread your entire post as if someone else wrote it. Maybe you watched too much jap porn.

>>18284462
>The only women who date guys (no matter how good looking) from out of country solely on their appearance are lonely whores or people looking for a sugar daddy.
So you're saying OP has a chance?

>>18284470
He should at least have learned a more common one. Chinese is useful if you buy cheap crap, Japanese gives you mad weeb cred, Korean lets you talk to a small nation of people who often know some English.

>>18284472
>Plus doesn't it seem racist to assume all asian girls are the same?
Well, I have lived in major cities and dated multiple Asian women, so of course I'm a bit biased. They start out sweet and innocent, and really, I thought it was love at first, but then I started to realize how materialistic and status-hungry they were. I was miserable and felt every one of them was the same.


You are white, right? Maybe you should wake up and look at the current state of WMAF relationships.

link her instagram

>>18284472
>racist to assume all asian girls are the same?
Isn't it racist to assume her Korean boyfriend has a small dick? It seems to me you look down on Asian men and fetishize Asian women. Nice job, retard. Hope you don't have children with an Asian woman, because you clearly treat/think of Asian men with disrespect.

Pffffff holy shit you are one creepy motherfucker.

Look, dude. You are never, ever going to get with this girl. Probably you're never going to even meet her. The best you can hope for is to move to Korea and find someone like her, but I can promise there are cool dateable girls you can find a lot closer to home. Your call.

>>18284482
You have anger issues

>>18284492
No, he's right.

>>18284489
yea I guess you're right that was hypocritical of me. I do know there are korean guys out there with bigger dicks, my friend dated a korean guy and she said his dick was 7.5"

I don't look down on korean guys. I'm sorry you're so angry.

>>18284492
No ones angry here, you just sound creepy af.
How about:

You have a girlfriend and this guy is stalking her.
He makes this exact same thread and claims you're 5'10 (a manlet) and that because he is 6'2" he has a better chance of getting your girl.

You find out this guy was stalking her and she tells you when she rejects him, wouldn't you think that guy was weird?

>>18284496
I'm not angry, I just think you're creepy as shit.

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Well guys, I'm abandoning this thread.

It's literally just a cesspool of anger and hatred that I would want to date someone from another country. "fucking retard" etc. etc.

My overall strategy is the same for now. Just wait it out till they break up. Worse comes to worse I learned a new language, could be useful in the future.

Hope all of you have a nice day and stop being so consumed with hatred and malice that other people would work towards what they want in life. You guys can make it too! I believe in you

>>18284497
>He makes this exact same thread and claims you're 5'10 (a manlet) and that because he is 6'2" he has a better chance of getting your girl.
Don't forget that he has an 8" dick and OP looks like he doesn't even have one.

>>18284502
Stop patronizing us, fucking retard.

>>18284502
We gave you advice and because we didn't give you what you wanted to hear, you became angry.

>>18284497
well obviously I havent hit on her while she's in a relationship. I'm not an idiot. And I would never say "hurr I am taller than him"

I mean yea I'm stalking, if I didnt I probably wouldve hit on her right away and been rejected. When did using your brain become a sin? I honestly don't get you guys. Its like you think humanity should be reduced to a bunch of brainless saints that only do good.

If you guys are so concerned about absolute morality, go give up all your possessions to the homeless.

>>18284502
>literally just a cesspool of anger and hatred that I would want to date someone from another country
>not literally a bunch of people calling you out on wanting to steal some girl from a guy who actually deserves to be with her unlike your lying ass

>>18284510
>I mean yea I'm stalking, if I didnt I probably wouldve hit on her right away and been rejected. When did using your brain become a sin?
If you've written this and think it sounds fine, you should stop using your brain because it obviously has something wrong with it.

>>18284442

op....

what you just posted here is incredibly pathetic, and you're obsessing over some girl who is taken. You're glorifying this girl you don't even know, someone you only know through fucking instagram, while simultaneously glorifying yourself for a bunch of shallow qualities!

You're a creep with yellow fever. You don't even fucking know her, you're just stalking her.

People like you man.....people like you just give me a headache.

Honestly, it's like I know someone from high school that was just like you, and everyone hated him. He would go to parties he wasn't invited to, obsessed with his personal appearance, try and hang out with people who didn't like him, and talk shit about anyone given the chance to up his social value. Remind you of someone?

I honestly think you'll end up alone.

>>18284511
I willingly gave you that information. If I was only a lying ass I could've lied and said he was clearly cheating on her. I could've lied and said I didn't know anything about her etc.

You're getting angry at me because I was honest and then calling me a lying ass. It makes no sense.

I also haven't actually done anything yet and as I said my current strategy is to wait. Yet I'm all getting is "FUCK YOU RETARD." Like how is that constructive? That's not advice.

>>18284510
Talk about cognitive dissonance. In your first post, you literally gave a description of you and her boyfriend, and you're clearly describing yourself in a much more positive light. Whether you realize it or not, you're subconsciously looking down on him, viewing him as genetically/academically inferior, so yes, you are acting like an entitled retard right now.

Sure, your descriptions may be accurate, but why are you going after this specific girl?

Also, that last analogy doesn't really apply, you imbecile.

>>18284510
Well I mean if you want to go for it, go ahead, but it just doesn't seem to be an genuine attraction, more of an obsession.

Are you really going to waste your time over some girl overseas? How will the relationship even work, are you going to find a career in korea, or convince her to move back to where you live, and what if she says no?

What do you even want from this relationship? Just to fuck her, if so just ask her straight up.

>>18284518
>5'10" (not bad)
>honest

>You're getting angry at me because I was honest and then calling me a lying ass

Nice try with the DARVO, but it won't work here.

>>18284514
This. I wouldn't be surprised if this was some white guy with yellow fever.

>>18284514
>yellow fever

nope

>simultaneously glorifying yourself for a bunch of shallow qualities!

if I felt like she was totally out of my league I wouldnt try. Not sure how assessing myself is so bad

>Honestly, it's like I know someone from high school that was just like you, and everyone hated him. He would go to parties he wasn't invited to, obsessed with his personal appearance, try and hang out with people who didn't like him, and talk shit about anyone given the chance to up his social value. Remind you of someone?

literally nothing like this. not sure where on earth you got that from

> I honestly think you'll end up alone.

not a virgin. already been in relationships. sorry to burst your hate bubble

>>18284518
Why would we give a sociopath advice for stalking some poor girl and ruining a healthy relationship?

>>18284528
>literally nothing like this. not sure where on earth you got that from
Maybe get someone else to read your OP. They'll explain it to you.

>>18284442
Have you spoken to her at all yet? Like saying hi or anything?

>>18284533
lol

>>18284527
>I wouldn't be surprised if this was some white guy with yellow fever.
you are right.

>>18284528
>literally nothing like this. not sure where on earth you got that from
You're obsessed with your own personal appearance, you're talking shit about someone you don't know, you're trying to socialize with someone you don't know... etc etc etc
>not a virgin. already been in relationships. sorry to burst your hate bubble
That doesn't mean you won't end up alone.

>>18284524
>but it just doesn't seem to be an genuine attraction, more of an obsession.

Hmmm. Maybe. I see where you're coming from but I think it's more than I am the type of person that wants what I want even if it's not easy.

>Are you really going to waste your time over some girl overseas? How will the relationship even work, are you going to find a career in korea, or convince her to move back to where you live, and what if she says no?

Well if she says no she says no. Nothing I can do about that but prepare as much as possible so she doesnt say no. As for my strategy, I've been looking at jobs in Korea and I would pay for her to fly here or fly there. It's not perfect but it's the best I can think of.

> What do you even want from this relationship? Just to fuck her, if so just ask her straight up.

I want to date her and find out if we get along. I mean yea I'd like to fuck her but I definitely want more than that.

>>18284540
>Well if she says no she says no.
I get the feeling you won't take it as no.

>>18284533
Yea I commented on some of her photos and we are friends on fb. It's been 100% purely platonic though.

>>18284538
>you are right.
You know what, I hope you marry an Asian woman and have a half-Asian son who looks more Asian than white. I hope you view him the same way you do with Asian men. I hope your half-Asian son reminds you of the Asian men you once decried.

>>18284542
well that's just your hate boner for me, doing the talking.

>>18284544
I hope he doesn't. The kid doesn't deserve having a racist sociopath as a father.

>>18284544
>>18284544
????
Are you high? I'm not OP. Kek.

>>18284543
Why don't you send her a message introducing yourself as her stalker? I'm sure she'll be flattered.

>>18284549
It's sad and I see it all the time. At this point I have become so fucking jaded that I don't care what white men and Asian women do.
>>18284551
My bad. Didn't read your other reply.

>>18284549
haha holy shit

I know the stalking is bad, but "racist sociopath"? and you guys are telling me I don't know this girl. but you've got me pegged as a racist sociopath... right. hahaha

>>18284543
So you're saying you've already been friendzoned. Women don't randomly fall in love with their orbiters

>>18284552
wow good advice thank you

I will also go spend all of my money on lottery tickets. then Ill be a millionaire!

and while I'm at, I will practice flying off a cliff using my arms as wings!

thanks buddy!

>>18284540
>pay for flight
>looking at jobs in korea
Ok. I've read enough. Now you're chasing her. Badly. To the point it's taking your life over.

>>18284556
Cut the bullshit already. You and I both know it's true. You obviously hate Asian men, because you deem them to be inferior to you. And it's quite evident you hate this Asian man enough to want to ruin a perfectly fine relationship. So yes, you aren't just racist, you're also a sociopath.

But who cares, you're just going to dismiss this post anyway.

>>18284556
>>korean so I assume smallish dick
>stalking a girl who he's obsessed with
>no actual interactions but he's stalked her and her bf for 6 months
>doesn't actually see anything wrong with stalking her
>wants to steal her from a guy to ruin a genuinely happy relationship
>wants to manipulate people to get what he wants

Totally not a racist or a sociopath. Just your average Joe here.

>>18284564
>because you deem them to be inferior to you

when did I ever say that? there's tons of asian guys who are 6'0 or filthy rich or in better shape than me. I'm not delusional.

>you're also a sociopath.

"I don't like that you don't have the exact same morals as me, therefore you are a sociopath."

>>18284571
>you don't have the exact same morals as me
You have morals?

>>18284571
You're delusional if you don't think there's anything wrong with you.

>>18284575
It's not like that's a symptom of sociopathy or anything.

>>18284568
>korean so I assume smallish dick

I mean statistically that's just true. I didn't make any other assumptions based on his race.

>o actual interactions but he's stalked her and her bf for 6 month

not entirely true

>doesn't actually see anything wrong with stalking her

no I agree it's not great, but I don't have any other choice

>wants to steal her from a guy to ruin a genuinely happy relationship

It's not the simple. I want to steal her but I also know it's wrong so I don't want to which is why I'm just waiting.

>wants to manipulate people to get what he wants

wut?

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This thread is over. Everyone go home

>>18284577
>but I don't have any other choice
Yes, you do, you fucking imbecile. It's called, "getting over your infatuation and dating girls in your area."

Problem solved. It's not that hard, you dumb ass.

>>18284577
>no I agree it's not great, but I don't have any other choice
You have the choice of just fucking not doing it. Move on, women do not find stalking them for half a year to try to ruin their relationship attractive.

>>18284573
Yea I do. I donate to charity all the time. When I had girlfriend I was good to them and never cheated (even deleted the porn on my computer when one of them didnt like it). If Im in line at the grocery store and the person ahead of me cant pay for their stuff, Ive paid for it etc.

I'm not some kind of cartoon villain.

>>18284580
But if we yell at him enough, we'll cure his mental illness, right?

>>18284582
>>18284581

> Anyone got any advice? besides "give up and move on" that's the obvious and useless advice

literally in the OP. you didnt need to comment if that was the only thing you could manage to come up with.

Maybe you should stop stalking me and move on.

>>18284583
Yeah, and Ted Bundy was an upstanding citizen and was surprisingly great at his job as a suicide hotline operator. Same guy who raped multiple women, by the way.

You don't have morals. You're just pretending, trying to blend in with society because it makes you look normal.

>>18284587
>i'm on fire, anyone got any advice? besides "stop drop and roll" that's the obvious and useless advice

>Maybe you should stop stalking me and move on.

You gotta really try harder if you want to DARVO. Tip: not gonna work well on an anonymous board

>>18284588
haha holy fuck I'm honestly kind of enjoying the blind rage you guys have for me. It's not changing anything and it certainly doesn't make you right. You're just shortening your lifespan by raising your blood pressure

>>18284593
haha holy fuck I'm honestly kind of enjoying the obsession you have for this girl. It's not changing anything and it certainly doesn't mean you'll get her. You're just wasting your time by chasing after an idea and fantasizing

also I'm surprised I'm the one being labelled a sociopath while we got mini elliot rodgers in here ranting about yellow fever and racism and white males and asian women and how they hope I suffer.

the fact that she and her boyfriend are korean is total happenstance. all this racial purity stuff in this thread is pretty terrifying

>>18284600
>racial purity is not wanting people who hate a race to try to marry into it

>>18284600
You're a pathetic pussy bitch boy who can't get laid by white women, so you resort to Asian women. Fact.

>>18284598
I mean yea're probably right?

I've already accepted my odds are like 0.5%. I mostly came asking for advice to maximize that 0.5%. Didn't expect so much hatred and vitriol for being honest and stating what I want. May as well rename this board "REPENT SINNER /sin/"

>>18284604
oh no! you got me! that's exactly me!

>>18284605
You can't try to make yourself look like the victim here.

>>18284605
Anon, I don't know what else to tell you. If you want advice, I'll try my best:
>talk to the girl
>be friendly with the boyfriend, of course
>offer to practice korean with her in exchange for your english skills
>develop a bond over time
>web cams, etc.
>eventually try to meet up
>eventually this bond will get her into liking you more than the boyfriend
>fuck her, cuck the shit out of him

That being said, it could fail, depending on your social skills and how she feels. But you don't have anything to lose, so go for it, I guess. Just don't be upset if you wasted your time. Good luck!

>>18284609
Its not really about victim or victimizer is it?

I came asking for advice and you guys decided that instead of advice, you would give insults and attack the person for wanting advice.

Even doctors will treat a criminal who comes into the emergency room.

Literally my only wrongdoing so far is the "stalking" (looking at a facebook page every few days)

I can't make myself the victim but you can't exactly defend this boards usefulness.

>>18284611
Here's how it will really go:
>op continues stalking her for years
>she marries the other guy
>only interaction with op is the strange envelopes with jizzed on photos of her taken from a block away that keep coming in the mail even though they've moved 5 times already

>>18284614
>my only wrongdoing is not treating her like a human being because i am incapable of it

>>18284611
thanks anon! I appreciate it.

I think you're right that I'll probably have wasted my time but right now I want to try anyway. I don't know for sure Ill try that because it does feel underhanded to try and root in and break them up. So for now Ill just continue waiting. but maybe Ill try that if the boyfriend starts to seem like less of a good guy.

>>18284614
I mean, there's not much to discuss, is there? Because clearly this conversation is just going in circles. It's futile. Now, if you really WANT this girl, then stop pontificating and actually do something to get her. I already offered advice a post above yours. Good luck, dude. I hope you get exactly what you what.
>>18284615
This. OP, I'm sure you're a smart guy. It's unlikely you're going to get actual advice from this board. You're capable, young, and presumably well-off, so go after her if that is what you truly want.

>>18284618
>So for now Ill just continue waiting
While you're at it, try practicing with other Korean girls with lowly boyfriends. You don't even have to be attracted to these girls, but the practice and experience you get, will only further and hone your skills.

You know, as bitter as the people from /r/hapas are, they raise some very good arguments.

They have every right to be bitter when people such as OP are their father figures.

All I ask is that when you raise the next Elliot Rodger, please have him shoot up somewhere besides my white neighbourhood.

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>>18284465
>Western Asians.
I wew'd

>>18284620
People have given him advice. That advice is, "This isn't going to work. Find a different girl."

He's crushing on a girl he knows next to nothing about. Following her instagram doesn't count. "Stop pining after a girl who lives across the planet and doesn't know you exist" is the best advice to give him under the circumstances.

>>18284883
I'm pretty sure he means immigrants.

>>18284442
there are 99999999999 amount of girl better looking then her

Let me start with the facts
>5'10" is short
>Asians prefer to date their own race
>As a fellow P.Eng, it's not that impressive. Neither is $60k.
>he might not be doing very well but Korean universities have far higher standards

>>18284442

The girl in the photo is wearing iris-enlarging contacts, use heavy foundation/contouring make-up and probably had plastic surgery (it's very common in South Korea).

It's as much a fantasy-land as North Korea sometimes...

>>18284442
>some pretext: I'm not a loser by anymeans
>>decentish shape, can deadlift 250lb, squat 250, bench 160
oh my god

>make 60k/yr, but in 2 or 3 yrs I get my P.Eng, could be making 90k/yr.

ahahaha


>decent fashion sense
>5'10" (not bad)

this is 100% joke

>>18286681
But think about it, it's like gambling! If you marry her, you never know what your kids will look like!