Hey /adv/, im over 20 and I live with my parents. I've been lying about having mental problems by just rolling with my mom's concerns and not speaking up. I dont like saying my age. I havent relaxed in days since my Dad shoved and yelled at me and got extremely mad at me for not washing the dishes and wanting to shower first. I wasnt yelling but i kept refusing to do it. He got super mad today when he saw I didn't fix a cooking pot he told me to fix. So i fixed it and I went out. Hes on edge because hes broken his arm and cant work, and I refuse to not use a lot of soap when I wash dishes. Plus he has anger issues. Ive been ignoring the first few times he tells me to do something and he gets furious. It makes me really nervous but i do it anyway. I had a chance to relax the other day didnt want to because I wanted to be stressed. I haven't slept well for months before this too. What do I do?
get a job and move out
>>18283338
I want to tell my mom im fine but im afraid of their reactions like my dads.
>>18283381
I should.
im not op. i want to move out too. they make me take psych medications = (..i dont make alot working so i wouldnt be able to save anything after expenses if i moved out.
>>18283338
Bump.
>>18283338
Tell your shrink (or whoever prescribes the meds) that you want to begin functioning by getting a job, but the meds get in the way. Ask for a switch in prescription or switch off meds to therapy, to help you become more functional.
>>18285551
I dont take medication because I don't want to use government money to pay for it. I want to use my money but I don't want to look for a job. I would have to confess to my Mom first.
>>18283338
Join the military to see the world