Getting back into online dating. Specifically kink stuff. Immediately

>>18280854
Youve gone out of control. Look up nofap and stop with the kinky stuff. Its only going to get more and more kinky. Get back to normal!

I do online dating to search for "unicorns" (bi girls up for threesomes), so I know your struggle

If you persist for some time, eventually you'll get a match, as long as your profile is "pg13" and not creepy

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>>18280881
Jesus. Hard mode.

Yeah. Profile is pretty tight. I dont larp, dont push a fantasy. I call it the 'hobby' approach.

I find myself at odds with the scene. I dont identify as my hobbies/sexuality as so many seem to.

>tfw too intellect to self indentify

>>18280898
I'm like you, but I'm a girl. Kink is something I'd like to have but not fully throw myself into. I gave up on Fetlife before I even started, after scoping out locals. Eventually found my dom on 4chan of all places. I hear this kind of thing isn't uncommon on 4chan. If you're willing to deal with some complexes I would say give it a shot here.

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>>18281026

how does one pick up on 4chan? And where? I'm curious.

Complexes?

>>18280898
Don't tell me... sometimes there's weeks between any matches, and when we do have some, it's usually some fattie we accidentally swiped right lol

But there isn't much to do about it, fetishes like that are very niche... can't you just fuck some girl and introduce her to it the second time?

>>18281048
On the more socially orientated red boards would be a good bet, but people meet on other blue boards too. Personally I met mine on r9k. There are often fetish threads going. You seem well adjusted so I sense you won't have a problem getting through the throngs of thirsty guys.

By complexes I mean emotional issues basically. That's almost a given for most girls on here, speaking as one. There are girls out there who are pretty mild like me, but there are some who have been through a lot. So be careful on that.

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>>18281075
>list as a dom
>list what i'm looking for
>list what i'm into
>nothing but interest from thirsty dudes and 65 y/o CD's who cant help but post their short fetish novel starring them and maybe

Cant make headway on tinder. Pof etc just have the same profiles everytime i get on.

Fetlife is pretty lopsided and not great for meeting people.

Issue is that i'm not looking for anything sexual. So the bait/switch method is twice the work for the same result.

>>18281082
Huh. Noted

The complexes thing is pretty spot on. Everyones got their baggage (age players more so than others). And vetting people is fairly straight forward.

I'll give it a shot. Thanks.

>>18281117
No problem anon. /soc/ has kink threads too, but again, you have a lot of competition so try to make a good impression. I posted there once and got around 100 responses, not exaggerating. Good luck with your search!