I have Pearly Penile Papules.
I can't post a picture here since it's a blue board but it's basically small white lumps growing on the ridge of the penis glans. You can look it up if you want, it's pretty gross so I wouldn't recommand. It's not a STD, it's not even a disease, it's not dangerous by any mean, it doesn't smell, it's just ugly to look at.
Because of that I always had a huge complex around my dick and could never engage in a romantic relationship with a woman. Surgery isn't an option since it's expensive and I don't have the money, so I have to learn to live with it. I'm now a 24 years old virgin and I'm sick and tired of it, I want to get some, and not with a hooker.
Now, how do I bring this up to a woman before sex so she doesn't freak out/get turned down/get disgusted by my dick ? Should I even mention it beforehand ? If you are a femanon, how would you react if your partner had those ?
Well I wouldn't mind otherwise but I'd definitely be worried it's something contagious. And unless I would have known you for years, I wouldn't trust you even if you said it's not. So just get a paper from some clinic or something that says it's fine and you have no STDs and then it should be fine.
But whatever you do, definitely bring it up, because if she sees it without a warning it's probably going to scare her. At least let her know that okay, this is the situation and don't worry about it.
>>18279834
dude everyone has that stuff it's fucking normal no one cares except you
>>18279854
it's not contagious
I have the same condition. I have a gf who I've been with for 11 months so far, and she enquired about it during a bj. She wasn't grossed out, just curious. I told her about it and assured her it wasn't an STD and then she payed it no mind afterward. I am also her first, which might make a difference. Don't let the insecurity take hold of you, man, I promise you it's a bigger deal to you than to them.
>>18279834
>Pearly Penile Papules
I've never heard of this until now.
OP, I looked at some pictures, and if I ended up in bed with you I wouldn't think anything of it. Dicks come in every shape and size, harmless little bumps around the head won't stop me from sucking it.
Anyway, like other anons said, make sure your partner knows about it and understands what it is.
I have a few and I didn't even know it was a problem before seeing it was a """"condition"""" in 4chan. Not a single woman I've been with made comments about that either
>>18279834
You're a virgin for reasons other than your penis. Most girls probably won't notice or care how your dick looks.
>>18279854
Of course I would wear a condom at least for the first few times. I can also provide plenty of evidence that what I have is perfectly harmless since the subject is vastly documented on the net.
>>18279864
>>18279870
You guys seem to think it's not even worth mentioning. Is it really ok to just roll with it ?
>>18279900
yes because it's literally no-one-cares tier
it's a lot more common than you think too
>>18279834
My boyfriend has them. Our conversation about this subject was:
>"What's up with your dick?"
>Papules. They're harmless and not contagious.
>"Oh okay."
Relax. It's common and not so gross. No one cares.
>>18280243
Yup. Given its absence in porn you'd think it's rare but that's just porn being unrealistic about an aspect of the male body for a change.
Somewhere over 5% representation, as I recall.
>>18280308
>Somewhere over 5% representation, as I recall.
It's way more than that.
Not a big deal at all. Actually, girls I've been with claim that the papules on my dick provide an extra bit of ribbing that increases their pleasure.