How to get over when the first relationship where you actually

Fuck op at least you know what love feels like...

Roughen up, try again

Time heals all wounds

>>18279668
How? I feel like I'm all out of feelings. I was so sure this time, are people just shit that can't control their urges?

>>18279664
I really wish I didn't. When I was in unhappy relationships where I couldn't feel anything, there was nothing more that I wished for than feeling that love feeling too. Now I really wish that I never did. It's just not worth the incredible pain you get when these things happen.

You gotta give yourself some time and keep yourself around people you trust. Don't try to "turn off" your feelings, but it's perfectly fine to distract yourself from them however you can.

>>18279673
Some are, you only find out by trial and error. If that is recent, take some time for yourself, turn your saddness into anger towards that person, and after a month or so start dating again, with no hurry to find a new gf. Just have fun and you'll know when you found one.

You need to fucking cry. Give yourself a week or so of free time. Be alone. Watch sad romantic bullshit. Listen to sad romantic shit. Don't eat much, don't drink or use drugs. Let yourself be a mental mess. Then you will get tired of that and become better. It will hurt for some time. But that's how girls overcome emotional stress. And it fucking works.

>>18279672
I dated a gal when I was a senior in hs and she was a freshman
We broke of because I joined the military
Didn't get over her in those 4 years
Got back and ended up dating again
Broke up after a year because of a number of shit from her family hating me and some unplanned stuff happening
It's been 4 years since that went down and I still feel the same way
I'm terrified that I'll never feel like that about someone else again
I've been in several relationships since, slept with more women than I can remember and I still just see her face when I'm with someone else