I will eventually be in the unique position where I have to choose

>>18279630
Flip a coin.

Works every time.

Jesus Christ, why is a 2 year relationship failing barely a consideration for you? You two could get married someday, you love each other, this is important.

The west coast is cancer anyway.

>>18279690
i've had many tell me the opposite, that i'm 22 and relationships at this stage rarely work out anyway.

and i like the west coast

>>18279733
If you can see yourself marrying her and being with her forever and that's something you would want, stay. Otherwise go to the west coast

>>18279747
it's not that i don't want that some day, because i do, but i'm not gonna get married for years, dude. I don't want to. like 6-8 years. and my career is pretty fluid too, so "settling down" is not something that's gonna occur to me as naturally as like an accountant or lawyer or something.

i love her, but if our relationship was exactly like it is right now in 6 years, i probably still wouldn't be thinking of marrying her. but there's too much time there to make a decision

If you want to work in:

>academia
>politics
>law

choose east coast.

If you want to work in:

>entertainment
>sciences
>business

choose west coast. You should also choose the west coast only if you are super liberal. If you are at all conservative you will hate yourself on the west coast.