Dear /adv/, Would you find it (at least somewhat) enjoyable

>>18276897
I actually prefer this instead of sex a lot of the time

>>18276909
I'm with this guy. To me if we fuck a lot then it's like a night of intimate peace, and it's kinda nice. Otherwise it depends on my mood

>>18276897

I wouldn't mind. I'm not always in the mood for sex and this kind of thing can be nice.

But I have a lower sex drive than some. I definitely know guys that always wanna fuck.

>>18276897
Yea, there is no better feeling than having blue balls and constant erection bumping into girl you probably love but for some absurd reason arent allowed to fuck. We boys love that.

Only if the dude already fapped before or have generally low libido or if he TRULY loves you (which is rare). We like to cuddle too, but blue balls arent meme.

Do you know you can still claim you are virgin if you give the boy just handjob? You cant even get pregnant / hiv / std if you wash your hands after and dont have any cuts on them.

>>18276897
that sounds extremely lame and pathetic if with a stranger.

the sad thing is many people do this with whores/escorts. they just wanna lay down and talk. ugh, so sad. no matter how lonely I'd rather just be alone than ever get to that point.

>>18276939
This

Unless there's the prospect of sex in the future, or there has been sex in a very close past, it would piss me off.

Maybe because I get sex on the regular this feels like I'm being led on to a bad case of blueballing. Some younger/virgin person might think otherwise

Yes very

>>18276897
>>18276909
>>18276933
I tend to have a pretty high libido but I greatly enjoy just laying next to a girl and doing what's mentioned. For me, sex is like 80% percent intimacy (closeness, kissing, spooning, cuddling, etc.) and 20% the actual sex. If I'm still getting that 80% I will still be feeling pretty good, though I would like to have the option to escalate if I want to. I'd also like to mention that if it were more intense making out/writhing/grinding with no escalation I would definitely be more disappointed there's no sex to be had.

Could I ask why you're asking this question?

>>18276939
Also this guy appears to just be spouting nonsense.

>>18276976
>Some younger/virgin person might think otherwise
It's actually often the other way around, that as men age they realize that being with a woman doesn't have to be frantic dick in pussy in order to be erotic and enjoyable.

depends on how horny i would be that day i guess but actual love with intimate cuddling and pampering is usually better than sex

>>18276979
>I greatly enjoy just laying next to a girl
>I would like to have the option to escalate
>no escalation I would DEFINITELY be more DISAPPOINTED

I like how you contraindicate your own post in the same post but it is me who is spounting nonsence.

Just admit it man, that getting horny with girl right next to you and doing nothing about it feels bad.

>>18276985
I'm 30, and I do enjoy cuddling and female company regardless of sex. But I feel like I'm way past the age of sleeping toghether while remaining at first base. Any person my age would agree that spooning and kissing will inevitably lead to sexual excitement for both parts, and unless there's a release for it, it's the perfect situation to make me sleep on a really bad mood.

>>18276990
Not him, but if there was escalation that just ended I would be confused and disappointed too. It's like a cliffhanger almost. Kissing and cuddling can be done without escalation

>>18276990
I literally just said if it were light cuddling, I would satisfied, but that if it were heavy shit that I would be disappointed. I'm trying to give OP my opinion on a few different situations here.
I also said I would *like* to have the option to escalate. I don't need it. That would be my 100%, sex and intimacy. But as I mentioned, just intimacy is 80%.

>>18276897
Yes, it would be enjoyable and yes, I would think of sex all the time and yes, I would come on to you and yes, you would have a boner poking your back all night long. If you're fine with all that let's go

>>18277002
basically this

Depends. If I have in the past slept with this girl, or there's a strong chance I might in future, then I'd probably legitimately enjoy this. If she's made it clear that she is never, ever going to actually sleep with me, then ... no. If for whatever reason you've decided that I'm worth cuddling and kissing but not fucking, then thanks very much but I think I'll be on my way.