I´m 18 and I haven´t ever had a relationship before , I met

hey, want to [insert date activity]?

>Hey, anonette. I like hanging out with you. Wanna go out for a coffee this weekend?

Easy.

>>18276329
>>18276326
I´ve already done it, twice, but I think that she didn´t see it as a date.

Also I was nervous and sometimes ask some friends of us to come, just to don´t make her feel uncomfortable.

>>18276339
okay well stop hiding the fact you're interested in her. you're playing like you have a wife with a chastity cage on your dick. what do you have to lose by getting laid? let her know you are attracted to her, somehow. use your wits and common sense. maybe run the idea by a few other people first.

>>18276333
If you say "go out" and it's just the two of you, then 9/10 girls are gonna know it's a fucking date

>>18276351
Friendzoned...? maybe?

>>18276352
friendzone is just people being socially unintelligent and/or self-defeating. its not a 'real' thing beyond that. just stop cockblocking yourself.

Well, may I just have to put my two balls in this.

>>18276374
yeah

>>18276321
Is it a date if I ask a coworker to hangout alone at my place? We have texted about not wanting a relationship, It's alone because she's one of the few people I've told about my crippling anxiety. So she knows I don't like large groups of people. I'm 23 and she's 28 and I haven't been in a relationship since I was 17.