Hello, /adv/
I'm in a non-monogamous/friends-with-benefits arrangement with a lady friend, and I had this go down last night.
>We're at a party.
>There's another person there who she is attracted to.
>She spends the evening flirting with other person.
>I'm aware of it, but letting her do her thing because it genuinely doesn't bother me.
>I'm leaned against a counter in the kitchen, minding my own business.
>She comes over and presses her butt against me while grabbing my crotch.
>Ask her if she wants it.
>"No, I'd rather get with [another person] right now."
>In my head: "Then why the fuck are you grabbing on my dick right now, and not his?"
Am I an over-reactive retard for getting bothered by this? I don't mind that she's into someone, but it made me feel devalued+annoyed that she would initiate that type of contact with no interest in follow-through (annoyed) because she wanted that contact with someone else (devalued).
>be in a non-monogamous arrangement with someone
>feel annoyed and devalued when she doesn't want to have sex with you
You were asking for it.
Yes OP, she just did that to make the guy jealous
Also that comic is extremely fucking cringeworthy. Something about the art style.
>fuck buddy
>also fuck-with-your-emotions buddy
Hmmmmm...
Well without more specifics of the terms of your arrangement I think you're over-reacting even if it doesn't feel good to be used as bait for her to get with somebody else.
It's shitty for people to tease like that, but I expect you should be allowed to initiate stuff in the same way with the roles reversed.
I'd just let it go if it's truly a healthy friends-with-benefits arrangement... If it happens again clarify to make sure that she isn't trying to make you jealous... because then that's not cool
>>18275765
KEK CONFIRMED
>>18275765
why aren't you trying to fuck other women instead of hovering around her as she's trying to get laid? I would stop giving her the attention she craves.
ntr fetish confirmed
>fuck buddy arrangement
>Get jealous when you get treated like the piece of meat you became by being in this scenario
Don't know what you were expecting. Expect gripping regret and fear when you finally find a girl brave enough to deal with someone with your history.
>>18275791
It's the art style equivalent of purple hair.